I have no idea who this person is and has FR me atleast 3 times, 3 times I have declined.
Can anyone tell if they have spoke to them??
They have 203 friends and I am on the forum constantly and never have seen a post/reply from “knights” x
i have them as a friend also dont think ive seen them comment on anything, you just never kno could actually be some-one who just reads the posts whos having a procedure but doesnt comment etc but then again who knows could be any-one!? x
I sound like a cow don’t I? I didn’t mean for it to sound rude, it’s just they have added me 3 times, it’s not like I have any pics to look at, and I’ve never spoke to them?
I do pick carefully who I accept and decline, as I know some of the girls do to! Just wondered if anyone knew if this person was actually booby person xxx
i just checked and they were in my friends list as well, now that uve mentioned it ive never seen them comment on anything so i have cancelled the friendship, sorry if you are just an innocent boobie girl! x
i just checked aswel they r iin my freinds list and i havent heard anything from her so im going to cancel aswel x
i havnt really thought about who ive accepted cause i dont have personal pics on here at the moment but i suppose if i do decide to put some-one when it comes to my op i mite have to remove few ppl i havnt spoke to, it is a bit weird to have an account on a forum and never comment on it or have a pic or status update of sum sort etc x
lol becca13 i dont feel so bad now x
Hey chicks. Been doing some investigating! Im a friend of knights too.
Although don’t see her comment on much she made a post 1 month ago:
* Hi i had a ba 9 months ago but have developed double bubble and lots of sagging so ps has agreed to do an uplift at no charge on 24th May not long now!
Just wondered if any ladies would be kind enough to offer any advise of do’s and dont or any thing that may help and would anyone please let me take a peek at there pictures, am very nervous about scarring etc! thanks alot! x
A few people replied to her and had a convo going. If in doubt just put knights (or whoever the person happens to be) in the search field on the main page and it’ll bring up their conversation activity xxx
It may be someone who posts under a different name? For example, I’m PetiteSnowball when I post this but I registered as “petite” and I’ve noticed Fairy too, on my friends list she shows as bchj or something like that? x
I have her as a friend and she had an uplift in may…we’ve messaged each other a few times as we both had uplifts x
Thanks jo! I just had never seen her post didn’t know if it was someone just being nosy!! I do aplogise! Sorry knights xx
how come some ppls names change then when u click on actual profile if youve registered ur name as 1 thing, im confused lol x
i spoke to her in pm before her op…and then she contacted me again after her op just looking for a bit of reassurance regarding her scars etc…xx
I’ve just gone through and deleted some people – I used to accept anyone but now I get requests all the time when I put my pics up and people don’t even say anything so I’ve just gone throgh and made sure I’ve only got people on there who I’ve spoken to and/or post a lot.
But to be fair the way I look at it, although you have to be careful, if tehre was anybody looking for something sleazy on the internet they’d use one of the millions of porn sites instead of this lol x x x
I agree claire….i mean lets face it, we are all bandaged and scarred on our pics at first lol….not the most attractive! and like you say, there are millions of porn sites if anyone wants to get a kick lol xx
She’s my friend 2 I never spoken to her. wot to do is the question friend or unfriend xxx god i most have no life when I am talking like this on the forum. LoL xxx do u think she could be a he just to have a snek at are pics girls there are weirdos out there xxxx
At the end of the day very few of us know each other from adam…if in doubt – don’t accept a friend request x
Hi ive had a request from Knights today but havent responded
also “yellow” never seen them before?
I only have profile pic ….yes thats little “old” me lol
and have had new boobies on monday…as a few of you might know lol
but i have a sneaky feeling there might be a few “pervs” just wanting to see free pics…pretending they are interested in getting a ba
maybe thats me being a bit silly ..i dont know x
That’s wot I am thinking not sure if I gona put pics up after my op xx
personally if ppl wanted to perv on boobies they wud look on porn sites…. not on mya were lots of boobies are swollen, mishaped and bruised…. after surgery… all they gotta do is open pg 3 in the daily star every day to see a new set!! i had my ba on monday n av no concerns regarding ppl just wanting to perve on my boobs…. we are all here to advise and support each other into the right decisions what we make…. x
Girls I didnt want to sound bitchy just wanted to know if anyone had spoke to her as I haven’t and I am on here most of the day.
I’ve had “yellow” FR swell. Xxx
I’ve had yellow add me as well, i think i declined as i couldn’t find out anything about her xx
knights fr me but i declined. ive only accepted people ive spoken to or who ive seen have posted. just feel happier doing that x x
I just think maybe we should be a bit careful about who we add as friends
how we do that i dont know??
I suppose there could be a few weirdos who get their kicks out of girls that have just had BA’S some guys get a kick out of all sorts of things!
maybe its because i’m suspicious of everyone !!
ever since a perv secretly filmed my little girl in a swimming pool changing room when she was 3 and my hubby caught him!! long story
anyway lets just enjoy our new boobies !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’v just deleted about 50 off my friends list…if i’v deleted anyone i speak to regular then i apologise and will re-add you, if you want me to….xx
Yellow added me too…they have 300 and odd friends but i too have never seen a post from them xx
Poor girl if she is just an innocent user……just decline…dont start a whole thread about the poor gil
omg dafdaf thats awful. I hope that perv got his a55 kicked xx
Long story….
went to court etc found guilty went on sex offenders register
he moved up north
poor little guy blamed it on being bullied as a child…picked on at work etc etc anything but himself
he was such a sicko i couldnt put on here what he had done before
but hey my daughter wasn’t harmed
and lets be happppppyyyy
ps my little girl is now 10 and every day she walks in from school (hubby collecting her this week) she stares at my boobs lol xxxxx
Knights keeps adding me too, and yellow. It’s getting really annoying, especially yellow. Take the hint x
Yellow does use the forum i used to speak to her she is lovely. Knights also uses the forum, they are old timers tho like me ticky n xxjoxx… They aint dodgy
I just messaged knights earlier fairy to see how she is getting on…she was nervous about having an uplift as she had already had a BA…she was really nice when i spoke to her xx
Oh I see, I thought they were just randoms. But still I have never spoken to them so won’t be accepting x
I know she is lovely ive om her in past she helped me before my op. Also yellow i have pm her.in past too. Its cos they are old timers and havent really posted for a while bcos they are po and dont need the help as much. Xxx
dafdaf- ugh what a d!ck, and ur right shes safe and thats what matters. but HOORRAYY for new boobies ^^
xx
Ahhhhh glad you mentioned YELLOW…. as i wasnt sure who it was and i declined 3times yet till got requests
i shall add if she does request again lol xx i have knigts to
xx i dnt think any men would bother using this site as there are plenty off free sites to look at boobs hahahaha. i cant imagine blokes gettin turned on by bandages and scars lol xxx eeeeeeeeeew gross lol
Hi,
I just logged on and was shocked to see your post April.
When i had my ba done 9 months ago i used to use so fem website, not sure if your familiar with it but its very bitchy and not as friendly as this site, so i now just come on here. when you log on there you just make friends with people and you cannot see their pictures unless they give you a password which i think is better as they are very personal pictures. i just requested everyone as i thought it was good to get to know people and read everyones experiences as it helps us all.
I had a ba 9 months ago and developed double bubble and lose skin around the bottom of my boob which looked awful so i was offered an uplift free of charge thank god as i was devestated at my lovely new boobs only lasting 9 months. i did put pictures on the so fem website of my implants but have not on here as yet because as my uplift was only done about 3 weeks ago now my boobs look a bit scary so i have avoided taking pictures looking at them or showing them to anyone even my boyfriend till i get used to them my self, in fact i spent the first 2 weeks crying my eyes out every day because i felt butchered and looked like frankenstein ;( and the only thing that helped me was a few really lovely girls on here , jojo mellissa ticky and a couple of others sorry i cant remember all their names that had been in the same boat or were just friendly and i have chatted to and dont know what i would have done with out them to speak to, so im sorry if you or anyone else felt i was dodgy!! i work quite long hours so dont get on here every day.I too have had a lot of friend requests but never thought anything dodgy about them just thought it was people being friendly which is really nice when your feeling crap like i was and just accepted them but can understand what your saying as some girls have very personal pictures on there profiles and i def would not bother you with a friend request again im sorry.Thanks to all the lovely girls that i have spoken to that have helped me through as i think i would have gone mad with out you all to talk to! xxxx
Hun, I hope you don’t think I was being mean, I just wanted to know if anyone had spoke to you before as you FR me a couple of times and I haddent seen you post at all.
I only wanted to know if anyone had spoke to you before I didn’t mean to start a huge long post about it!
I know how it is about FR I cannot remember who I’ve requested as there is so many people on here Its easily forgotten about ( which is where it comes in with you requesting me a couple of times)
When I clicked on your profile i saw u had 200 odd friends, and I couldn’t work out why u had so many but I had never seen you on here before!
I don’t have any pics on here but I do pick carefully who I have as friends as when I do eventually get pics i want to make sure the girls who see them are regular uses and I kinda know who they are.
Seems as if a few people got annoyed with me posting asking if anyone knew who u was, I really am sorry, i didn’t mean to sound as if I was bitching which I really wasn’t!
Sorry to hear u had a bad experience with your BA and i hope your on the road to recovery now!
I really am sorry again. I didn’t mean to start a hugeee post and get people upset that I asked!
Xxx
April,
No problem i totally understand and your right you forget who you requested and who you have spoken to, i was just horrified to log in and have anyone think i was a perv or dodgy. As someone said if you wanted to look at boobs all day you would head for a porn site not poor girls covered in bandages.
Im just a working mum who hated my boobs for as long as i can remember but am feeling better thankyou and they are starting to grow on me so things are looking up!
I dont comment that much unless i think my advise can help someone and i dont post much either as quite often i look through old posts and someone has already asked the question and got the answer i needed so dont need to bother anyone. i think from now on i will wait till someone friend requests me as maybe i got a bit finger happy with the requests! xxx
i think we all get a bit finger happy hun with the requests
lol xx
Indeed but when you find such a site where most people are so nice and friendly you dont really think anyone would mind as on some discussion at some point you end up speaking to most people anyway, still its my day off and have spent hours on here today reading stories better get on a actually do something constructive and non boob related! xx
lol i kow what you mean! i should be writing an essay !!! hope you enoy the rest of your day x
Just wanted to thank all the girls that private messaged me over the weekend about this post, it just goes to show what lovely caring and friendly girls you all are!Thanks xxxx
Hope ur ok knights hun!
U helped me before my op both on ere and on sofem!
Glad u had ur reop hun. 
Xxx
That’s what we’re here for Hun
hope your ok xx
All ok thanks girls getting better and more used to them every day and they dont look quite so scary anymore thank god!
xxx
Knights we are all here to help each other,thanks for the message hun,youve certainly not had it easy,I think we all take it for granted when things go smoothly and dont actually realise its not the case for everyone,so pleased your on the road to recovery hun,and happier with the way you are looking,just wanted to say April is in my friends she is really lovely,I really do believe she would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally and probably feels terrible right now,I love this forum and all the girls,sad but I never had a sister and i feel like Ive inherited hundreds from this site,so I want to say thanks to all the girls that added me and have taken the time to message me,and comment on my posts,love you all.xxxx BTW your not getting rid of me,lol,ill be here for a long time,lol.x
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