Why cant u find out the ip addresses for fake profiles and block these?
I sent Moderator a PM and still waiting for a reply…
Thats a very good idea Cuks. Its not nice trusting people only to find out they are not who they say. Please MYA get rid of the fakes.xx
You can change your IP by turning off your rooter for 5 mins if you have a static IP, depending on your provider. it wouldn’t stop it, it would just delay things. Also I am not sure how they could block phone users as thats through 3G usually? 
There is only one way to stop it, STOP REPLYING, and we are all guilty of that (myself very much included) x
Aww well think the easiest thing to do then is delete my acccount – sick of all the sh!te that happens on this place…..
why has there been more things said since few weeks ago? x
This is exactly what the issue is. You hit the nail on the head Nikibockerglory. IP addresses are dynamic, they change from time to time as well as when a router is reset. Also users on mobiles IP changes and if we block one we could block a whole host of people on that network. Please all keep using the Report post function and we are doing our best to block users where possible and also remove posts.
Let’s get this forum back to where it should be, the best possible place for support and advice about cosmetic surgery!
Cheers Mod………….. but this ship has sailed i will be leaving the forum – thanx to everyone who has supoorted me, good luck everyone. xxx
My partner works in IT *Yawn* lol xx
i work for an IT company and dont have a bloody clue i just take phone calls lol! plus its kinda funny seen as tho i got a F grade at gcse for it….oops lol! x
I have only been on here about 4 weeks and had so much help and support from everyone. My op is in 8 days and I am so sad
to hear that a few have been horrible. I cant comprehend why this would be. Yes MYA moderator it is a shame it is making girls leave especially those who have helped others so much. Cuks I dont know you but I have read a few posts you have commented on and its such a shame as you have alot of friends on here and I am sure you have helped many not in your feinds list including me. What ever you do best wishes and good luck.
My partner does too nikibock but I could never sound that clever
Haha very good lalas
So why cant MYA set up a system whereby u apply for an account thru u and you monitor all the user that way???? Its simple reallyif you want to control the forum
pfft brainy, I wouldn’t be where I am today if it wasn’t for him pushing me lol He’s an ass hole most of the time but bloody good at what he does. He’s in dublin tomorrow meeting with Microsoft about his 3 year plan yawn yawn and double yawn and if I hear the word Dell one more time I shall scream!!!! all he does is effing work, the work blackberry was our demise! 😯 xx
I have noticed that on other forums that you start off with basic permissions like posting and stuff but you kind of build up your access as you gain status on the forum if that makes sense? It is a bit of a pain doing it like that but at least you would have to be registered for a certain amount of time, or posted so many posts, etc before you could add friends. Or gain further permissions after say consultation etc. I don’t know if this is very realistic or not, just randon thoughts coming out. Maybe friend requests can only be made by sending a message as well or it will reject, to control who we are adding as well, to save fake profiles having access to our pics etc???
There was never any of this when I first joined….the forum has changed beyond recognition over the past few months!
You could set your pics to private and only open on request,I think also we have to consider that genuine people also researching their procedures before they make the decision to book,and people that come here for support that have not actually used MYA for procedure,so I can imagine trying to put too many restrictions in place,could take away the essence of the forum.I know all members just want to feel reasurred that the forum is moderated,I personally feel with the latest adjustments to the system especially the report button are invaluable,the moderator will be able to pick up on this immediately,and people who do not adhere to the guidelines,im sure will be removed.This forum gives invaluable support to pre and post op members also people researching,I think we just need to report any abuse as soon as it happens,so that the forum feels like a sanctuary again.
Well said Tina. x
I think a ‘Delete & Block’ button would be a good start!
A: Dont give them the satisfaction of you leaving
B: Stop replying to their posts/threads
We are our own worst enemies lol, all forums have trolls. I remember back in the day when I used to go on the ebay forums they had them, also a weight loss site I used to use and also sofem! It happens on all forums, its the people that reply that carry it on. We cannot blame MYA for everything I’m afraid, especially when we fuel it. At the end of the day thats what they do it for, for a reaction.
thats a damn good idea Jo! xx
Agree with Jo, some kind of ignore and/or block button so you don’t have to see certain users x
Well in most situations people want a reaction if they dont get one, the thread dies and we can concentrate on supporting people,after all that what we are here for.Even if we dont have all the answers,at least if we are here people will never feel alone.xx
Definitely, it works on Facebook so why not on here?
It’s easy to say don’t react Tina, but if I see someone slagging off people I care about or slating things I believe strongly in then of course I’m gonna react….it’s called ‘defending yourself’ and that is something I’m not going to apologise for!
well im confused.com i thought things were getting better !!!! then ppl start to leave its madness i think if someone posts something and it looks dodgy we should all just ignore and a block button is a great idea. im getting to the point that i pm some ppl for advise because i dont want to post xx
i also agree with that jo xx
to be continued…….. 😯
eeeee well at least it’s given me something to chew on while I’m off work lol! I just wish they would learn to spell to be honest, thats what irritates me the most… even my 9 year old can spell the word “straight” correctly!
sum bodi needs to go bak to scool init, ya geh meh? xxx
haha niki ur funny lol x
See I Have my uses lol….come on MYA mod, put us all out of our misery and give us a ‘delete and block button’….I know exactly who I would test it out on too!
ah come jo we all need to know ?????
I think its crap that you don’t have to be a member to read the forum as well to be honest.
lol Caroline22 I try! xxx
Haha, all I will say Caroline, is beware who you trust…..NOBODY can be 100% nice all of the time, I just can’t wait for them to slip up!
I wonder what mask they’ll be wearing when they next make an appearance? Cat characters have been rinsed, we are on to zoo/wild animals now lol
I just can’t believe that mya would let the same person do it time and time again. If they don’t want to name and shame them then ban them and phone them, do something x
Agree Caroline. Im not giving my advice anymore after i was picked on AGAIN. Privately away forum bitch bullys from now on!
hellllloooo em i was wondering where u been its awful that everyone got to be careful what they say and ask how are u anyway chick? i still got one boob bigger than the other wish they would just even out lol xx
Dont say that Caroline. Ul get targetting next for your boobs lol. Im not saying anything anymore. Lol!!
Im PM you. Xx
Bokagory Me pickin to put st8a,Instead of spellin it out has nowt to do with people Bein insulted on the forum! Mod is welcome to check my ip simple as.
I don’t think it is the same person each time belle, i think it is different people, influenced by someone who should know a lot better….this person has got everyone completely under her spell, that’s all I’m saying x
Hush don’t even justify that comment with a reply x
Hush you are a tad paranoid me think hun! the spelling I was referring to was “strait”. x
Not paranoid at all somebody pointed ur comment out to me so clearly they felt it was directed at me.
come on ladys lets not start all this again !!!
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