Nearly 6 Months Post Op But ….

Hi Girls
I had my op at the End of February 2013. I have been really happy with my new boobs and so glad I had it done despite my nerves!
Only my husband and a few friends know that I have had this done as I know my family wouldn’t agree with it and would probably argue with me! I know it sounds silly but now I am starting to feel a little down and thinking should I of had this done? I’ve got such a big secret held from everyone but am to scared to tell my family as I know what there reaction will be. I am 22 and married but my parents are very over protective and still think they can tell me what I can and can’t do! So I thought it was best to just do it and not tell them. My husband was 100% behind so that’s all that matters right?!
I know this all probably sounds silly but deep down I am glad that I done this and have wanted it done for some time now! It’s weird as I am glad I’ve done it but am also regretting it a bit. 🙁 xx

Hiya hun long time no chat xx Arhh Amy i think from the min we embark on the boob journey and i think for ever after we will at some point think was it the right thing. I am 39 and as mad as it sounds i still feel my parents have a hold on me. I told everybody i was having the op all except for my dad as he is sooo old fashioned and think i was wasting money and being stupid blah blah but it’s what is best for you hun at the end of the day and if they have a difference to your life then stop worrying. I completely understand how you feel tho me and my husband have seperated but are still living together for the boys which i know some people would find a strange set up but we have lived like mates for years. Thing is tho we still haven’t told my parents only friends but i am just scared of the what they will say !! crazy isn’t it the hold they have on us and our lives XXXX

Hello hun. I know! how have you been? x Oh I’m glad it’s not just me! I was feeling so silly and was getting my self down but you are right it has made a difference to my life and I should be happy. Oh my parents are old fashioned too, they sound similar to your parents… it really is crazy isn’t it! xxx

If you’re happy then that’s what should matter. I had mine done on sat and noone agreed with it really but I knew I wanted it done. I’m in my early 30s and live in a different city to my parents but my mum still wasn’t impressed at all lol and when I spoke to her on
The phone Sunday was abit funny but at the end of the day it’s my body and I wasn’t happy with it so I’ve changed it and am soooo glad I’ve done it and if other people arent in agreement with it then tough as it doesnt concern them. I probably sound harsh but I know inside how much I wanted it done and I wasn’t confident wearing certain things etc and it was making me unhappy and now I’ve got the boobs I wanted I’m happy so sod everyone else’s opinions lol xx

Your 100% right Liz! I just need to stop worrying about other people and be happy that I’ve finally got the boobs I’ve always wanted! I’m sure when my parents find out they won’t be happy but it’s one of those things they can’t change it and will just have to suck it up! lol. Thank you hun 🙂 xxx

Ummm how the hell havent your family actually noticed youve got bigger boobs lol hey its your life and whatever makes you happy they dont have to agree to it but they can try understand your view and in the end it will be old news… so ide get it done and over with and I would also state theres no point shouting opinions as its done now and you coudnt be happier but you just prefer to be open with every1 xxx

Lol! I think they haven’t noticed because I used to wear really padded bras and when I see them I wear things that tone them down slightly… but don’t really know how they haven’t! haha. Thanks hun you’re right and I think I would probably feel better once it is out in the open to! xxx

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