NEED cheering up girls :-(

so im 20, i have one son who is 14months old n i got stretchmarks on the lower half of my stomach n on tops of my legs they have gone a silvery faded colour but they get me down soooooooo much,i feel ugly fat n unattractive im a size 8-10 so i know im not fat deep down but i just rele h8 my body so much. my boobs have also shrunken 2-3cupsizes since havin him, hense me saving for a breast enlargement. i am also just finishin payin for my wedding which is in march n i am sooo excited about it i just wish i cud have my boobies sooner so i dint feel half as bad.N god i love my son to pieces hes the best thing ever i just feel so **** every day i just wanna feel good about myself. i know i shudnt feel like this but i cant help it. my hubby 2 b does a fantastic job of cheering me up its just in my head n i cant knock it out sorry to rant on just need some cheerin up xx

Oh hun, I sort of know how you feel. I also have a 14mth old little boy and since him have virtually no boobies and big thighs lol, I feel huge but I’m still a size 6-8 so know I’m not deep down but still want laser lipo and a boob job. My op is booked for the 11th Jan as I’m putting that before the wedding, I will then be persevering with exercise for my inner thighs before our holiday in June. My OH keeps telling me to stop stressing about the future and having dates for everything in my head but I’m not that kind of person I need dates for things to focus on to keep me happy….maybe you need to have some dates set as well. xx

thnks hun i exercise evry day, but just still feel ****** xx i am hopin to pay the deposit for my boob job very soon but wedding is very costly were r gettin married abroard in kenya so i wont b able to have op done til oct nxt year my pc said i can pre book it so mayb i wil feel slightly better once ive done that x

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Hey I know what your talking about Hun. I’m 25 I have a 2 and a half year old and a 18m old, I got really bad stretch marks from pregnancy and fluid retention from my calfs upwards, I was contemplating a tummy tuck to get rid of all the excesse skin on my belly but I went for just my boobs in the end. I’m 8st size 8. I’m so glad I had them done, it’s given me a massive confidence boost!! Your time will come. Try and look at all the good things in your life. A man who loves you, beautiful child plus your getting married in Kenya!!! Well jel! Xx

thanku so much newkaren i do try n look at the positives just a mind problem i guess xx thanku again. the things us mums go through hey!x

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