Needing some reassurance!

Hi everyone, I have been thinking of boob job since in my early 20s, am now 35, 2kids, not planning anymore and a miserable 34, very empty A cup. Have had my consultaion with Mr Kazzazi, decided on implants etc, but am having trouble bringing myself to make the appointment for the surgery. I am sooooooo scared! have had 2 sleepless nights worrying about being vain, things going wrong, if I’m not happy with my new look etc. Has anyone else been through this? xx:cry:

OOOHHH GO ON AND DO IT!!! I TOO HAVE HAD 2 KIDS! AND WAS A VERY EMPTY 34B! AND NOW A BRILL 32E!! THE CONSULTATIONS ARE JUAST LIKE A CHAT!! YOU ARENT FORCED INTO ANYTHING! AND THEY ARE VERY NICE AND JUST SJHOW YOU B4 AND AFTER PICS!! SO GO FOR IT! THEN YOU CAN THINK ABOUT IT MORE THEN DO IT! I SWEAR IT IS NOTHING AT ALL!! I GOT REALLY SCARED, IT SEEMED LIKE A MASSIVE THING FOR ME TO DO! BUT WAS SO EASY! AND THE OP WAS NOTHING AT ALL! BELIEVE ME ONCE YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH CHILD BIRTH YOU CAN HADLE A SIMPLE OP!! IF YOU WANNA SEE MY PICS! JUST TEXT ME ON 07540555799 ANDILL MESSAGE YOU MY B4 AND AFTER PICS! YOU CAN ASK ME ANYTHING!! COS I WAS IN THE SAME POSITION AS YOU B4!! SO DONT WORRY!! AND YOU ARENT VAIN!! IN THE END YOU BROUGHT TWO BEAUTIFUL BABIES INTO THE WORLD AND ARE A WOONDERFUL MUMMY SO ITS YOUR TIME TO HAVE SOMETHING BACK! SOMETHING TO MAKE YOU SMILE!! TEXT ME! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Cath
I haven’t had my ba yet, but I am booked in to have it done in Jan at Manchester with Mr Traynor. I’m aged 35, had four kids and a empty A cup also. I’ve been wanting a ba for ages and now that I’m definitely not having any more children the time is right. From what I have heard and read about MYA you are definitely in safe hands. I think all the girls who have had their breasts procedures with MYA are pleased with the outcome and wish they had, had it done sooner. Everybody speaks very highly of all the Mya surgeons. This is one of the reasons why I have booked with them. I’m very unhappy with my breasts, I have no confidence and they are certainly a no go zone in the bedroom department. You will love the outcome I’m sure and as for being vain that doesn’t come into it. You will be doing it for you and if you think it will make you a happier person then you should go for it. I’ve had mixed emotions too. Being nervous and scared are all natural emotions when making a decision like this. But you know Cath, these surgeons will make you look and feel amazing. I’m putting all my confidence in them. I’m also very positive that others on this forum who have had their ba will be able reassure you. Hope you get the reassurance that you need to go ahead the surgery. xx

Hi Cath
I know how you feel. Im the same im 33 have 3 kids but never had any boobs was only a B cup when ever i was pregnant! Im a 32A now. But i have wanted a BA since the boys at school used to call me fryed eggs! I decided 3 months ago to go for it, save hard and have my dream. But with 3 kids i worry that its selfish of me to spend all this money on me. But if i dont do it now i dont think i ever will.
Im booked in for 16 Dec, I have to pay the balance tomorrow and then there is no turning back!
But a part of me is still worried, im i doing the right thing? What about the money? What if something happens to me? What if after all this i dont like them?

But having said all that i am still sooooo excited and cant wait to have boobs and fit my clothes! :bigsmile:

thanx 4 your lovely msg, have texted u as would love to see your photos. Just can’t think of anything but boobs and ops at the moment (had to switch off holby city last nite!) and am worrying all night & dreaming about it if I do drop off. Booked in for 21st Dec, really excited, but terrified. AAARG! Is this normal?!?!

Jane I’m so glad to hear that, as I think I’m going thru the same feelings…should I be spending the money on the kids, what if I don’t like them, what if sthg goes wrong etc etc. Even worried that I’m being selfish with the recovery period as won’t be able to run around with the kids. I think this is all just mum-guilt! When I’m being rational I think as long as you know it isn’t going to change your life, just your breasts that’s ok, but when the panic sets in and my thoughts run away from me I’m a nightmare. Am driving my husband crazy as he says I don’t need it (LIE!) but if I do want to do it he’ll support me, so entirely my decision, and I’m bad at making them!!!! I’m just fed up having fried eggs.

this is so helpful everyone! Just to update you, I am now booked in for 21st Dec in Doncaster with Mr Kazzazi (saw him yesterday), having had another conversation with my co-ordinator just now who was fab, so have just paid deposit! Amongst all this fear and worry is a lot of exitement too about wearing nice clothes for a change, and eventually a pretty bra instead of my usual double gel in white or black!!!! I have wanted to do this for 15 years, and I am going to go for it!

Everyone who is sane has all those worries! I was bragging I wasn’t worried for ten weeks, now 9 days to go and I’m scared s**tless! Still want those big boobs! If anything goes wrong I’m sure mya will sort us out! Get it booked and good luck x I have a little girl and I suppose it’s the thought “what if I never wake up” I couldn’t bare not seeing her again x x

Emma

Does anyone know what sofem is? seen it in some other discussions, is it to see photos of before & after? How do you get on it? xx

Hi Cath my hubby is the same he says im fine the way i am. Bless. I wonder if he will feel the same once they are done!

i am going through all sorts of emotions is horrible i do try not tothink about it but its hard lol!!!

i am the same one min excited the next scared nervous aand thinking should i go through with it

20days till my op aaagggghhhhh!!

xxxx

Hi Cath
Sofem is another website where you can find out lots of information and reviews on various things. It has a forum where you can chat to others simular to this. A lot of the girls on here are also on there. This is the web address http://www.sofemanine.co.uk You can private message/email people on there. If you are a member they will send you there password so you can view their pics. I’m not currently a member but I think the above is right. I’m sure someone will correct me if i’m wrong!
I’m so pleased you have booked for your op!!!! We all go through different kinds of emotions its only natural xx

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