New GUY……………

had my ba done in may, just met a new guy n hv not told him about it, boobs r a bit soft but have not gotten ”there” yet. Has anyone been in this position, cos am tryin to figure wat he’s thinkin without askin him…..

I’m wondering about this, just split with my bloke and thinking apart from the waiting to get over him how long should i wait to meet someone else, only 4 weeks post op so there still looking quite round and fake! lol!! Don’t want them to put anyone off at the moment ha! x

Just tell them whenever you feel comfortable or if you dont think the relationship is gonna serious then why tell him? Just let him think you have naturally nice boobs

if he loves them then if shouldnt matter if theyre real or fake!

xxx

Can I ask have you split since having your boobs done? Was your boyfriend supportive before but then insecure? Just wondering cos my husband paid for mine but he wishes he hadn’t as other men now look at them.

As for telling a new boyfriend do what feels right….. I’ve told everyone cos I’m chuffed with them and no good at keeping secrets but thats just me. Good luck! xx

Hi spmo

My husband was exactly the same, he kept going on about others looking, and i just said so what if they look i cant do anything about that, all i know is that im doing it for me and not to make people look.

Hey no it wasn’t cos of the boobs, he was really supportive and absolutley loves them, but the whole year and half i’ve been with him he had commitment issues so it was just never going to work. He was actually quite proud that he had a girlfriend with big boobs hehe!

I’m sure your husband will come round, i’m sure he knows your not going to run off with anyone, so he just needs to realise that he is even luckier to have you now. People may look at you but at the end of the day its him that you are with! xx

Thanks ladies, it seems its gonna be a serious one, but u cant tell cos its early times, dnt wana tell him and then we break up, well guess i ll just wait…

hmm well, i would just ask him, as your not a mind reader and you won’t be able to guess lol x

if he likes u then he will like u regardless as to whether ur breasts r real or fake.. at the end of the day, it was your decision x

don’t rush into telling him if you have to question this you know now is not the right time , just enjoy your new start and all will work out x

Except it’s really obvious, I wouldn’t mention it, what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him. Mine look very natural so not telling!

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