New to dating…need help!

Yesterday my 2 year relationship ended. We have both gone to university, he moved away (not too far but far enough) and we saw it coming; he told me he still loves and cares for me but university has changed us both and he didn’t see how it was going to work (we had been having arguments since he moved). I was needless to say devastated even though I knew it was for the best after dropping half a stone in stress to why he was acting differently; I am pretty sure he has found someone else, but we have been together since we were 16/17 and we have only really experienced each other so I guess we both expected this day would come sooner or later.

I need some advice on how to get over this and how to get back into dating, obviously haven’t been on a date in a long time and not sure how it goes anymore, what to expect, how to act

If you could give me any advice, id be so happy!

hey hun, keep yourself busy! The more time you spend seeing friends/doing something, the less time you’ll be thinking about him and what he’s doing.

Don’t concentrate too much on finding someone new/dating cos you’ll put pressure on yourself and get upset if it doesn’t happen right away, just concentrate on having fun, going out and being free to do as you please with no-one to answer to :)and have a good flirt while you’re out x

good call hollybol! And when u do meet sum1 who u want to keep seeing just be yourself so u dnt need to try to keep up an act! i say wear ur heart on ur sleave and if they like u for who u are great and if not just move on! and try not to talk about the ex too much lol! we live and learn so if there was anything from ur 1st relationship that made u unhappy jelousy/contolling/not showing enough efection u know this time round not to put up with anything and nip it in the bud and move on to the next guy whos better for u! x

Thanks guys, you’re right! Lack of affection is deffo number 1 of what I dont want. all us girlies love a bit of attention!

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