no one happy for me!!

any of u girls found that no1 seems happy 4u… even mates! id be so happy 4 1 of my mates if finally getin what they want!!

my friends have been supportive, but my sister in law been quite abrupt with comments saying gonna look stupid and that im mad.

really hun? so im not the only 1.. seems like every1s bein that way wiv me! id jus love a bit more support instead of bein made 2 think im makin a mistake. think they mite jus be jel!!hahaha xx

Most of the friends who ive told have been supportive, even if they don’t agree with me they say if it makes me happy then to go for it. I do have one friend however who thinks its a silly idea and says im gonna look stupid with them. It does annoy me cos I haven’t come to this decision lightly and it won’t have any affect on her so why behave like that and make me feel stupid?! Ive she’s 100% happy with her body then lucky her, im not that lucky unfortunately so am doing something to change it. Chances are people like that are jealous hun even if they won’t admit it, just ignore them and be happy you are doing something that will make you more confident and that you really want x

like u said this is a big decision weve had to make. and i one of those girls done like my boobs ive had 3 beauiful children and do not wont anymore so ive decide to go through this. my husband is my rock and is giving me the postive attuide i need. but this forum is amazing and weve all got sumthing in common. NEW BOOBS so we can support each other as well. keep your chin up girls and if they cant be happy for ya then dont sweat over it.look wont us girls are gonna have boobs and feel confident in ourselves cant wait. boob tube tops maxi dress halter neck tops sad i know but exciting..lol

My mum thinks I’m mad and my bf is excited my dad thinks its a waste of money and my best mate said its stupid pahaa sod em x

Hi,just ignore everyone….. you will be so happy once its all done & you only live once…. x

some people just dont understand hunny unless theyve been in the same situation. my mum and stepdad who i live with have been so supportive, a week or so ago i told my dad and stepmum as it was coming very close to my op and its not something i cud of hidden lol my dad says if its what i want then hes ok with it, but my stepmums being iffy with it. we went over last nite (1st time since telling them) and she mentioned it in the pub and there were other ppl on our table i was so uncofortable coz its something ive kept quite secret n only told a few people. and then on the way home so asked bout size and said oh theyll be massive and that when im older theyll prob grow even bigger. was really undermining, im not stupid i have my head screwed on and ive dun my research for yrs!

all i can say is its your body not theres so who cares if you have it dun r not if it makes you feel more womanly nd confident then go for it xx

People chick are jealous that is what l would say. One of my friends seen my before pics yesterday and said they looked alright before but to me saggy and horrid, Some of my friends on the other hand cant wait to see me.

My sis in law said that she had seen fake boobs before and no need to come and see mine so guessing its jealousy.

people are funni xx

We are all happy for each other on here lol

Ps l have not even told my mum or dad cause they would freak.

I know what you mean babes. Recently my mates have started making stupid remarks like “haha you wont be able to wear cute bras anymore” or “you’re gonna be in constant pain” Like how the hell would they know they’ve never had a BA and as for the Bras im not exactly going to a ZZ so why wont i find bras? Kinda annoying now. But oh wells! Once they’re done I’ll whack em out nd shake em in their faces lol. x

My friends aren’t bothered jus say there’s nowt wrong with me n I don’t need it or they say there jelous cos they want one lol but my mum said I’m vain and I’m stupid cos it’s a waste of money but she’s alright saying that with her DD/E’s, I’ve not told the parent in laws cos I know they won’t agree especially his mum but anyone else I’ve told is fine with it n if anybody isn’t I couldn’t care less really it’s nit fir them its fir me X

ive been through enough with nasty people and there awful bullying towards me. so i cant wait to have my boobs and feel confident in myself again. and to feel alot happier.. people are nasty in this world and majority is down to jelousy. make u laugh how stupid sum can be.. i would never judge anyone. and if sumone wonted them done or any cosmetic surgery i would be happy for them and support them.

Getting my boobs done had really made a positive difference in my life, luckily I’ve had a good support network from day one but honestly girls, you’ll get support here on the forum morning noon and night! It’s your body and if you think you’ll be happy post op that’s all that matters! I think with friends, jealousy does play a part because you know what girls can be like. Some ppl just don’t understand surgery, it’s like tattoos and piercings I guess. But forget everyone else. It’s your body and getting a nip and a tuck to look your best in this day and age is no biggi! Solong as your responsible etc. Good luck!! xx

Hi Hunni,

Don’t worry about other people’s thoughs. At the end of the day you’re doing it for you. I think some girls feel threatened by other girls having what my male friend would call ‘an impressive rack’ and its guys who say things like him who get people’s backs up.

Also my friends say ‘i bet you cant wait to have big boobies’ which annoys me cause I’m not going to have big boobies I’m going to have AVERAGE boobies from tiny wasp stings lol.

xxxx

Well said misspea they talk like its Jordan or dolly parton or something! xx

Hey, any1 that doesn’t support u is either ignorant or jealous! People get BAs for all sorts of reasons and anyone thats nasty about it isn’t worth bothering with as far as im concerned! I say hurrah to fake boobies! F the rest!!! 

wow thanks a bunch ladies feel loads better after reading all ur luvly comments!! i guess i jus have 2 stop worrying about wot other ppl think.. as im doing this for me and no1 else, so why shud i care!! my mum looked at me like id lost the plot, my dad doesnt know (hply never will) seems my mates r jelous n my bf jus doesnt want uva guys oogling! thats how i see it anyway. in a gud supportive bra my boobs luk good but out of it i hate them! so they wudnt understand cos they dnt see them like i do! tam19 u nearly made me wee wiv laughter wiv the shake em in ther faces comment!hahaha may hav 2 remember that trick its true i jus need 2 come on here n all my worries r gone n ur al so supportive of each other, its great! gna stop spkin 2 any1 round me about it now cos they jus try 2 put me off..xxxx

Ignore the haters ladies.. it’s a cover-up of insane jealousy. As I say to people, this is not about you, this is not about any ex boyfriends or future boyfriends, this is about me and my body… stay strong and don’t be swayed by other people’s personal and thoughtless comments. To be honest I haven’t told many of my my friends as they just wouldn’t understand and they have mouths like the Mersey Tunnel so before long every fecker and his dog will know.. so I would say just tell those people that are closest to you xoxo

o ignore bitchy people! ive taught my self not to even listen to someone if what their saying is negative, its a complete waste of time!

Having said that i already have large boobs so some people are baffled as to what im doing….one friends sister said recently ‘ahhhhh jen i dont think i want to go out with you when your boobs are huge, it’ll be embarrassing’…..just said back to her ‘well we all walked around with you in a mini skirt before you lost that 6 stone…..’, no ones really said anything since hahaha xx

haha Jen…love that xx

Haha Jen! You tell ’em.

Jasmine, it’s your procedure, it’s your life, it’s your choice. Don’t let anyone steer you away from you goal.

I’m the same, no one wants me to go ahead but it’s my choice. Everyone will need to like it or lump it.

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