not BA orientated i dont think but sooo :(

well im at my aunties hen night, paid £50 each for a run down pool club

that we know was free to hire and a £20 or so tesco broughg buffet??!!?

to make it worse i let it slip earlier that was having BA on tues anc i

dont know if thats why but my entire family are being really nasty to me

to the point of drawing on a saintary towel and pretnding it had cone from

me or throwing things at me, well my mums an alcoholic and dad killed himself

when i was 10 then i was lucky to get through school without killing myself

with what i went through. you`d think theyd be a bit nicer!!

im now sitting on the toilet windowsil to get away from them waiting for

my hubby to pick me up.

sorry for the rant girls dont really know who to turn to if not even got my family

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Oh my god hunny that’s awful! I hope your hubby has picked you up and you are home now. Did you tell them about your BA today? And had a few drinks already been consumed? There is no excusing that sort of behaviour but maybe it just came as a bit of a shock and their reaction is very immature but maybe they don’t realise what affect it’s had on you. Maybe in a few days you could talk to them again? Have you got anyone in your family you cam speak to, a sister or cousin maybe?

Unfortunately not everyone you know, even your family will agree with you havin a BA, my mum isn’t happy I’m having one but if it’s something you really want then dont worry about what anyone else says. It’s your body, your life, your decision!!

Also please don’t feel alone in this process, this forum is full of brilliant ladies who will offer you all the support you need!! What has your hubby said about it all?? Xxx

Oh my god that’s awful, sorry to say this but fuck em you don’t need people like that even if they’re family! To treat anybody like that is disgusting childish behaviour so stick with your husband n friends that don’t treat you like that, big hugs X

Oh hun I’m so.sorry to hear you’ve had such a shit night. Are you close to these people? Because if not I would suggest staying the hell away from them. You should only have room in your life for people who care for you and support you, you shouldn’t put up with mean and spiteful people. Family or not, you’re not obliged to have them in your life. Sorry, I may be quite harsh but I stand by it!

Really hope you’re home safe and sound and your hubby is cheering you up! Xx

You can choose your friends hun but you cant choose your family,jealousy makes people very spiteful,i would keep as far away from them as possible.You have your hubby,thank god…….. the girls here will always be here if you need to chat,take care hun.xxx

You poor thing, i understand what it’s like to have a bunch of tossers for a family, i was kicked out at age 16 and i have nothing to do with my parents. You’ve got one life hun and you can choose who you spend it with as harsh as it sounds. I would suggest distancing yourself from them and find comfort in your hubby and friends around you, how childish and spiteful!! If you need to talk at all, private message me xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Huni buni, That is horrible like all the girls are sayin u have us and message us anytime for a chat.

l left home when l was 16 cause my mum tried to marry me to a TURK did not talk to them for 6 years!! l married a alcholic divoreced got away from him. Now with a loving hubby. Talk to my mum and dad but they do not know about my boob job cause they will be nasty to me luckily l now live 4 hours away. My parents are my parents but never are happy for me in fact they want me to fall a the 1st herdle! Family are mean like Tina said u cant choose ur family.

At least ur hubby is supportive he is ur family chick xx

ahh babe really just want to come and give you a massive cuddle but my tits are too sore still, listen we all have pasts but it is the future whats makes us what we are. i have learnt in life to avoid all the people who bring you down and stick like glue to the ones who are there for you. so when your feeling low just log on you know we are all here 24/7 xx

sending you lots of love and jelly tots xx

wow what a bunch of childish pathetic bastards, theres only one place for them hun and thats the jeremey kyle show!! disown the bastards!!!!! x

lolol thats funny, but so true, needless to say im completely ignoring all of them now and just going to concentrate on the things that really matter and the people i cnan count on!

Thank you so much for the posts your all so amazing! and sorry about the moan was just all alone lol

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wot a bunch of wa****s. i dont see my mum we got taken off her cos of neglect when we were babies! but ur family sounds a right bunch if jealous people…… it sounds like a skool yard or something. u will b having the last laugh with ur lovey boobs and new found confidence that no one will be able to take from u big hugs doll x x

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Ignore them all……. obviously small minded idiots.

Ur way better than that hun x

hey hun so sorry u had to go through that last night! i hope u feel bit better today! just wanted to say met u thursday and found u were such a lovely girl and really friendly so dont deserve what u got! just remember you have got that gorgeous little girl who loves u unconditionally and a hubby that is there for u no matter what u dont need them. you have ur own family now and that is all that matters xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx hope ur ok xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thank you sweetie!! hope your little princess is ok bless her. Just gonna look forward not back and def look forward for Tue hey xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

def!!! she is doing fine just spotty bless her lol! xx take care and see u in two sleeps!!

I’m soo sorry to hear that alisia! If I get to see you on Tuesday, I’ll give you a hug! This is the exact reason I havnt told anyone! It’s your body not theirs and you should be able to do with it what you want! Don’t feel alone, there are so many of lovely like minded girlies on here for support. Chin up, we get new boobies tomorrow chick xxxx big hug xxx

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