off topic but I really need advice help am I pregs?

Ok so I started seeing this guy, he’s amazing been about over a month. I’ve been waiting for my period, I’ve had cramps like I’m coming on, eating ravenously (but I do eat a lot) I have awfuod swings, I come on usualy around now and I’m not on pill I no I am so stupid but I’d stopped pill 4 op never started again and well could be in this situ. I’m sure I’m not pregs but my friends like do test but can’t u do 1 2 early? I am getting my period cramps though for about a week now? I’m scared any advice girls x

Oooo also super tired and a faint headache a lot? X

When were you due on? Don’t beat yourself up, we all do things in the heat of the moment n think about it later. X

Well thing is I’m due on from around 17th onwards (kinda changed after op had 2 periods 1 month) so I’m not 2 sure…normally 24th onwards, I’m so bad with dates etc but for about a week and half had bad cramping now and again then nothing? X

best thing to do is get a pregnancy test or see your gp ? it might be a late period x

try n relax hun stress can cause ur period 2 b late so if ur stressin this may b why, hope ur ok, n if u do turn out 2 b preg its not the worst thing in the world its one of the best things so head up hun x

hi i had same thing altho im almost 8 weeks post op and i am pregnant so worried about my new bobbies haha x

Hun defo take a test I was sure I wasn’t pregnant, thought I was going through change lol n I was only 17, stupid now I know, I was tired all time having hot flushes, period pains without a period oh n needing a wee a lot took a test n was posative, you can go to poundland n get them and there Wot I used and are as good as any other. It could just be hormones all these symptoms but its best to know now rather than later xx

Hmm, it prob would b to early to do a test but you could try. Worrying about it doesn’t help though, u might not be and the stress of you thinking you are can delay periods. My friend does this ALL the time. I know it’s easy for me to say ‘don’t panic yet’ because it’s not me with the worry. I’d try n relax, do a test, if it’s negative and you still haven’t come on in a week, do another. X

Arr girls thanks I shall do a test Tonight with my mate I’m certain I’m not but this hasn’t happened before. If I don’t come on then I’ll have go docs. Gosh my new boobs if I am nooo. I no babies a wonderful thing just month in could be shocking x

You never know though hun, I was 17 got with my first ever boyfriend, fell pregnant 3 month into it, everyone was like omg silly girl hes your 1st bf its not going to last etc, but I’ turn 22 in June and we have been together nearly 5years now, and we had another little boy in April last year. And things are great. Don’t worry bout any of that till you know for sure, maybe if you get a more sensative test it will be better, with my 2nd I got 1 and did it 5 days before my period was even due and I got a posative result. It could all be stress etc it makes funny things happen to our bodys. Good luck xx

Hi sweetie, your doing the right thing by doing a test. I don’t want to freak you out but this happened to me twice and both times it turned out I was pregnant, but decided not to go through with either of them. But remember everyone has different symptoms so try not to stress too much. If it turns out that your not then you might want to try the contraceptive implant, I have it and it’s never failed me…yet lol

Let us know how you get on xxx

Hey sweetie I had exactly the same sitaution except mine was heat of the moment wih an ex I am sure u will be fine, I was worried about exactly the same but I just did a test nd was negative, I am sure your period is just late becasue of stress I know its hard not to be but please try to not worry an I am sure ur period will make an appearance soon, I am sure they are like men sometimes, there when u dont want them but when u do they dont turn up! haha

Hope u get this sorted

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Fuck done test 2 – 3 weeks pregs

congrats hun, how do u feel mixed emotions?? x

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I can’t explain how I feel to be honest. I was putting tights on as got whole at work glanced at it ready take pic send my mate and saw pregnant 2 3 weeks holy fuck I laughed. I’ve not cried but omg girls x

I only went docs last week because I had the cramps thought quick go get pill so when I start your mena take pill 1st day, well never arrived did it! Omg fuck how do I tell this guy omg omg I’ve not cried or done anything but laugh and feel sick. Shit sorry girls ur all starts helping me x explains why I’m super tired slept all day sat! Soooo could it b a positive but I’m not pregs? X

Aww hunni congratualtions

i know its a shock but ur guuna have a beatiful baba

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No hun if it’s positive u are defo preggers, congrats Hun an good luck with everythin xxx

Hope your ok. You’ll be in shock. When I was preg first time (16) I didn’t tell anyone til I had my head together, I was 5 months gone by then!! I wouldn’t tell your male friend until you’ve got your head around it yourself first. Thinking of you. X

omg coco! congrats!x

Take time to get your head round it hun let it sink in xx

Congrats coco xx

Personal question but were you using condoms? x

well congrats hun! hope the new baba brings lots of joys! and if the guy doesnt stick around, then hes deffo not a guy worth having if the situation was different!

iv been with my fella for 8 years now, we had a brief split when i was 18 (he was being a c**t and jack the lad, so i walked), and i got pregnant very quick (three weeks) with a guy who just walked, i told my fella all about it, through floods of tears, and we got back together, and never looked back since, he is my sons dad (as anyone can father a child, it takes a special man to be a real dad), we are now getting married finally, and planning on having our own in a few years, as for my little mans sperm donor, i havent had a single word off him, and as far as im concerned, he is worth then scum, and i pity the girl he actually ends up with (i hate absent parents, male or female, as its not the childs fault) xx

Girls thank u all 4 your support. I am not sure if I’m ready for a baby! Just told the bf and he’s kinda in shock it must of been literally the 1st time. I’ve not eaten since I’ve done the 1st test done another one to check defo pregs. God girls what to do now I’m in shock I’m laughing yet sometimes crying. He was great though but I do not think we are ready oooo god I do not no girls I have been so stupid but u girls are great x

I will reply to your message as soon as the inbox starts working again hun, I saw what you wrote through my email. Doesn’t look like it’s going to get sorted tonight so I will chat to you more about what we discussed hopefully tomorrow! xxx

Congrats babe hope your ok. Remember what’s ment to be is ment to be everything happens for a reason I tried PM you. Facebook me instead may form isn’t working. Kristy Ruth-rayan Rosenberg x

Congrats!

I knew when i fell pregnant because i was so tired all the time and it was totally not me, even my husband was shocked to see me fast asleep in the lounge during the day.

Take your time and decide what is right for you! Sounds like you both need some time to come to your head around this.

I hope everything works out for you and wish you all the best for the future!

I have a 9 month old daughter and I can honestly say she’s the best thing thats ever happened to me (though she was planned which takes the shock factor away). They bring so much joy I promise.

Congrats huni ! xx

Hey girls, you are all amazing thanks so much for all your comments. I’m going to the doctorstoday have a chat. Have say its hit me today yesterday was shock totally shocj and today was like big slap in the face of emotions I’ve actually just stopped crying. Me and the guy spoke last night, he’s been great and supporting what I want to do, I am so tourn on what to do. I never imagined this situation but I just need think what’s best for me and my possible childs future. I think it would be easier if I’d been with the guy for longer but these things happen I spose. Let’s not ever risk the pill being in ur system for 6 months girls lol

Thank you all for sharing your story been so helpful x x x x

hope your ok honey, i’ve had two babies which wasnt planned, it is a shock, makesure you give yourself time to decide what to do either way, i had lots of support from the hospital regardless of what i wanted to do, i hope i can say congratulations! xxx

Good luck today sweetie, you’ve got to do what’s best for you!! It’s such a difficult thing to go through, I’ve got four children & I wouldn’t be without any of them but I’ve sacrificed a lot to have them all..

My daughter is 17 & her partner wants her to have a baby when they are 20!! I will tell you what I’ve told her, i said that you are only young once ( was only just 19 when I had her) live your life first, have some freedom get a good career, see the world & then settle down…

Hope all goes well x x

good luck today hun, what ever you decide to do make sure it is what you want and not what anybody else wants xx

Good luck with your appointment and remember everything has to be your decision. I had my first when i was 21 wouldnt change it for the world now but it has to be right for you xx

Hey love, good luck today. I have two beautiful babies but both weren’t planned was only 18 when fell with the first one and was actually on the pill, was with the only guy I’d been with but were sti going strong now 8yrs on, married nearly 3 and wouldn’t change it for the world but it’s petrifying to think of doing it alone (I told my man he could walk if he wanted to if he wasn’t ready) or if your ready full stop. But in your heart you will know what’s best for you and that’s all you can trust. Sending you my love xx

Hello you beautys. Sorry not been on today been a tad ahh. Really weird thinking I’m pregnant still but I went to the docs and spoken about my options and everything like that. I’m 70% sure

I am not ready for a baby but 30% of me isn’t so I do need make sure its 100% before I make my final decision. I just have so much planned for my life seems selfish but I want my baby have everything to never go without, like I have. I still live at home and everything just isn’t how I pictured it and I think if things where different for me and this guy like we said maybe if it was a year or two down the line be a different situation but in 9 months time may hate the boy haha. I don’t come from a broken home luckly pretty much our whole fams the same so I spose I want same. But then I think this has happened for a reason this is your path you should keep it oh god I’ve done this all days girls was with a girlfriend laughing crying sooo much. But honestly thank u all so much for your stories and support. Means a lot x x x x

Keep us updated sweetie, what you’ve said is 100% correct and weirdly similar circumstances to the situation I was in last year…and you sound like you have a clearer head now which is good

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Hey dolly92 I don’t have Facebook what’s up with the forum at the moment then?

I’ve stopped crying today just sooooooo tired and have the worst headache ever smells are making me feel so sick god this is pleasent have say lol. I am feeling positive today and believe what’s best for me so we shall see how Saturday goes really. Going to tell my mum aswell today as she’s getting tad suspicious why I’m sick and stuff.

How u doing sweet x x x

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