Off topic- Dont know what to do :'(

Hi ladies I know its not surgery related and completely offtopic but I feel I need to let out my emotions here.

I met up with an ex bf monday and we got talking and it felt like we had never been apart. I had only just gotten over him really, then everything took over and we ended up having sex.

He wasn;t horrible to me he was so caring and attentive morning after and texting me and stuff but I cnat help feeling like im falling back in love with him again, But I dont wanna ask him how he feels cuz I dont wanna ruin our friendship and im pretty certain he doesnt want the same.I feel so stupid

sorry for this just had to tell someone cuz obviously couldnt talk to my mum about it.

thanks ladies

XX

Babe you only live once so enjoy what u can when u can just do it all on ure terms dont jump everytime he rings etc make ureself busy he needs to want u babe dont be too available x x

Don’t ever feel stupid honey,you can not choose who you fall in love with it just happens,and it sounds to me deep down you were not really over him anyway,otherwise you would’nt be feeling the way you are now,has he asked to see you again.And why are you certain he dose’nt feel the same.xx

Hey Tina-I know it sucks ‘(. I dont think I am really over him tbh. I tell myself that I am but deep down I think my heart knows different. He did say he wants to see me again but I dont know how to feel, because one part of me says that he still cares for me because he hugged me before I left and texted to make sure I got home ok, And he is so caring and attentive making sure I was warm enough but was that just because he is a nice person anyway?? but then another side says that is he doing it just because he thinks that he can get what he wants from me. Im not certain about him not feeling the same but I am scared to ask because I dont want to ruin the friendship we have.

Hey Supercoops- I know hunni I dont make myself too available. When he texts I leave it like 20 mins before I text him back. And I say to him that I will have to get back to him about whether I can see him or not.

I just dont know what to do I feel like I am stuck in a rut because if I don’t ask then I will never know his feelings and for all I know he could be thinking the same but I wouldnt want to assume.

But if I do ask I risk losing our friendship

xx

Hi Romani, it’s a difficult situation but if it was me I’d just ask what was happening and if there is a chance of getting back together. If he says that there is great and it will save you all this worrying but if he says there isn’t at least then it means you can move on. Is being just friends with someone you are in love with doing you any good.

When me and my ex split up he was still in love with me and I cared for him and wanted to stay friends but it wasn’t doing him any good and he couldn’t move on and think of meeting any one else. In the end I just stepped back and now he’s happy with someone else.

Really hope you work this out xx

Hey Cazz I know I need to get some balls and just ask him but I have always been sensitive and I think it would just completely rip out my heart again if I didnt get the answer I want. Which of course that he wants to be with me.

But I am just guna have to bite the bullet and ask

Thanks for your help

xx

It’s hard isn’t sometimes it is easier just not knowing than risk feeling like that. But he may feel the same as you. Good luck xx

Atleast then you’ll have an answer and know where you stand and you won’t have the unknown feeling, also he could say he just wants to be friends in a hard to get way so if he does your best tellin him to jog on! Don’t let him take controll babe u do it!xx

Thanks ladies u all been so helpful

xx

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