OFF TOPIC!!! Eptopic pregnancy. Wtfs going on!!!

Sorry to rant ladies but been back to the hospital today to totally confirm my miscarriage to be told that I hadn’t miscarried but looks like I’m having an eptopic pregnancy that can be detrimental to my health and could even result in my death!!!! Don’t believe it. I’m sooo freaked out right now. Being operated on next Tuesday they even said there may even be a possibility that I’ll have to have a full historectomy (or however you spell it). Kinda scared at the min. The family has been great tho. Just can’t wait till Tuesday now so that I know my three children will still have a mum. Hope this is not payback for even considering a termination. All I’ve done since I’ve found out is cry xxx

aww chicken u poor thing, my friend has just suffered an eptopic preg, and she fine and still able to have more children, dont be so hard on your self about thinkin about termination, u had to do what was bext for you and ur family chick xxxx

Aww hun no don’t Think that it will have been like this from the start. Im sure if you get preg while on contraception as you did that ectopic can happen. Very very sorry hun I hope all is ok chin up, all the forum ladies are also here 4 u xx

Oh Hun. Thinking of you. Big hugs xx

Thanks Amanda Hun. Glad ur friend is ok and it’s great she may still have children. At least there’s still a light at the end of the tunnel then xxxx

Thanks Beckie. Just knocked me for 6. One day I’m preg next day I’ve lost it then next I’m still preg but it eptopic. All sorts have gone thro my head. Tbh all you ladies are amazing. Xxx

Thanks 19fair hugs feel great right now. The hubby so worried bless him and won’t let me lift a finger to do anything. I love him so much xxx

So glad you have the support you need right now hun, you wil be ok I’m sure of it, Think posative chick, msg me if u need to talk xxxx

Thanks hunni. Xxx

Whoever told you it can end in death deserves to be struck off, as if it isnt traumatic enough! My best friend has had 2 ectopics, on the first one they removed her fallopian tube and on the 2nd she just needed some medication. Try not to work yourself up (easier said than done i know) if theyre leaving you until next Tuesday it cant be on the high end of dangerous.xx

This happened to my Mum shortly after she had my brother 16 years ago and she had to have a full hysterectomy. The main thing is it’s been caught early so it can be dealt with. You will be in good hands so try not to stress too much. This isn’t ‘pay back’ hun, this is something you had absolutely no control over. At least your BA isn’t until September so you can still get your boobs. I am truly sorry this has happened to you. Stay strong xxxx

Thanks ticky it was in the information they gave me and even doc said it can be life threatening. I too wa hoping that because try weren’t operating till Tuesday then it’s obviously not at that serious stage. Xx

Exactly hun. Try to remain calm if you can. This isnt payback at all, you considered an option that dosnt mean you desrve this!xx

Thanks dolly. Tbh I didn’t even think of me ba lol. All I thought about was leaving my three babies behind without a mum lol. But yes can still have my boobies yay lol. If they don’t do hysterectomy then tbh I think I’m gonna go in for sterilisation anyways. But that only 99% effective too so theres always a chance of getting pregnant again xxx

I know ticky thanks but still can’t help feeling it. Just gotta try and take my mind off it for a few days and hope this pain stays as mild. It’ll all be fine I know it will xxx

Just trying to keep positive

You won’t die hun, that only happens if it gets left reaaallly late and even then it’s very rare; I’ve never heard of anyone dying from it. Try not to be too upset xx

Thanks. Feeling a little better now getting hugs from my babies xxx

My sister had this as well but as others have said, she caught it early on and had to healthy kids afterwards. I hope that kinda helps although I cant imagine going through the range of emotions and feeling great. Hugs xx

Thinkin of u huni stay positive xx

Thanks ladies xxx

awh you poor thing really feel for you luvi. this certainy isnt payback hun, its just something unfortunate that cant be controlled! you were only thinking of what was best for you and your family so dont be too hard on yourself! chin up chick, hope you get it sorted soon xx

awww bless ya huni sending love to you xx

Thinking of u hun, sending big hugs xx

awww thats awful news, one of my best friends had one, and lost a tube, shes now gone on to have two lovely healthy kids, and is planning her third! with mine they thought he was, and i went through hell and back with all the thoughts, when i managed a scan, thankfully he wasnt, but they didnt scan for 5 hours after they told me it was, was literally the worst time of my life, i really feel for you. keep your chin up hun, i know its hard, but just keep looking forward xx

Let us know how you get on babe, will be thinking of you. Don’t be thinking its payback or karma hun, it’s just awful luck xxxx

Ladies thankyou for your support and kind words. Means a lot to me and my family xxx

Aww hope ur ok babe, sending u lots of love n hugs xx

so sorry to read this! my friend had this she had an op & has since had a baby girl! chin up miss ul be fine x thinking of u x

Big hugs hun! Stay positive! Thinking of you xx

Thankyou ladies xxx means a lot xxx

thinking of you hun and really hope your okay….awful news…sending hugs and support your way xxx

Thanks Ali Hun. Hows the healing getting on. You been measured yet babe?? Xxxc

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