Off topic-Having generally a few crappy days

I dont know whats happening in my life at the mo but everything I do seems to be messing up. A couple of u on here know about the whole feeling crap thing because of an ex bf and things and now its just escalating! I was meant to be going out tonight with a few mates but because of the snow-(its quite bad down here) I cancelled because I am not drivin in it and risking my life to get to my mates house, Now apparently I am a let down- Im always such a nice person and in my own admission quite a pushover so people always expect me to say yes and because I have done this they are now bitxching and being horrible about me then when I confront them they are each blaming the other one ‘( it just gets me so down.

sorry for rant guys and girls

but I just feel so alone

Hey babes, your mates need to grow up by the sound of it! How old are they?!

Take no notice! All will blow over & you will be happy your own-self very soon! Have some “ME” time instead tonight!

Well your not alone you have us,and we are happy that you are here and feel confident enough to talk,just ignore them honey,you know that you are a good person,it is everyone else around you that needs to buck their ideas up,would they risk driving in the snow,no they would’nt,don’t you feel bad honey,they should know that you would have been there if it had not snowed,and you can not control the weather,so that’s not your fault either,what you need is a big bar of chocolate,sending you a massive hug,because you deserve it.xxx

aww romani, i agree with roxanne, and im sure things will pick up soon, chin up hun and we always here for a rant…your never alone .xxx

Pathetically enough they are 20 and 21

not some stupid little girls, or so I thought!

I know hunni but just everything seems to be piling up,

I know everyone gets times like this but I just

feel like all mine have come at once

and I dont have many “real” friends as it is and it

just sucks that this has now happened. I just need to

find some real people but always get sucked in with users.

I would love to have an amazing group of mates like my bro does but I dont

sorry to be such a miserable cow

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thinking of u hunni, chillax 2nite like tina said big bar of chocolate, few chick flicks, do some pampering, by 2moro im sure ull feel better.Sorry to hear ur havin a crap time at mo hun, but if we all focused on the negatives in our lives instead of the great we’d all b unhappy x chin up hun xx

Hi Romani

Have a lovely relaxing night in, not worth going out in the snow.

Sounds like your friends need to grow up a bit.

Take care, and don’t let people push you around. Xxx

Thanks so much ladies,

I can always rely on you to be here

for me when I feel like crap

Now the one girl(the younger one)

is texting my mate stirring things up arggh!!

I would love a big bar of choc but hvent got any in house and I cant get out of my driveway because of snow so thats just meh

Have been trying so hard to be strong today but just find I have been cryiig at the drop of a hat when I think of everything, especially my ex who im so confused about but dnont wanna ask :,(

damn hormones

Thanks ladies

Love u all

xxx

sound like your having a really hard time right now.

just ignore the friend if thats what you can call her??

and ex’s well they always make things harder,

your young and beautiful though, just remember its there loss not yours..

((((hugs))))

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Ignore the “Friends” now as she has managed to get the other one to be mean and guilt trip me

I am having a really tough time atm. I would have loved nothing more than to go out tonight especially seems all this rubbish came up about my ex but it just isnt safe. Its alright for them because the one doesnt even drive so she has no idea and its always me who gives her a lift and the other is the one we always go to her house. So neither of them have to make an effort. And I just love the way they are trying to guilt trip me into it cuz usually I would say yes. But because I havent they have thrown a pissy.

Thanks ladies

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Big hugs. I’m sat up alone with my ahem 3rd glass of red chatting to my new friends on mya. Hope u r ok chick xxxxx

Hey Chick I think I will be ok thanks,

just everyhting seems to be happening at once

and tbf I just think I am going to forget those girls

they obviously arent real friends if they can talk about me

like that

So as hard as it will be I will just have to get on it.

Thankyou

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Girls can be so horrible to each other at times. I found the best way is to be strong and get rid of the negative people out of your life. You don’t need them. There are genuinely nice people out there, don’t waste your times on these “friends” cos they have a way of making you feel shit. That’s not what friends are for. I’m feeling a bit like you are at the moment, nothing is going right!! Just keep smiling hun!! Its gonna get better!! Xxx

Aww hunni whats wrong??

I know its pathetic cuz I really wanna

forget about it but everytime I think about it

I just find I start to cry ‘( I hate being like this.

It so stupid!

Hope u feel better soon aswel

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Hope you are feeling better today lovelies,xx

Not really Tina

but thankyou for caring

I need to take a leap and just ask the boy in question but I am just so afraid cuz we are really good mates and he hasnt given any indication that he wants to be more than friends and I dont want to ruin what we have aas friends, as its always sticky territory when ex’s are ur friend after

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Just not really happy with many aspects of my life. Don’t like my job, don’t like my body and getting bored of saving for my BA even though I know its going to be worth. Just feeling sorry for myself I suppose. But to top it off my grandad died on monday 2012 has been rubbish so far, I need to turn it around. Hope you’re ok huni. Sorry to go on. Xx

Take the bull by the horns honey,at least you will know one way or the other,at the moment you are stuck in Limbo,I know you must be scared of the answer but at least you will know,just say,look mate is there any chance of us getting back together as a couple or do you want to remain just friends,see what he says.Just go for it honey,xxx

I agree with tina. Don’t waste time wondering, just ask and then you can move forward either way. Xx

I agree with tina. Don’t waste time wondering, just ask and then you can move forward either way. Xx

Aww Jade I am so sorry to hear that hunni well u know us MYA girls are here for you if u need an ear. Dont be silly let it all out babe. If u need anyone to chat to I am here.

I know I have to Tina its just picking up the nerves to do it.

Thnks ladies

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Thanks Romani!! Life could be worse…that’s what I keep saying!! Ill be ok. Maybe you should have a couple of drinks…bit of dutch courage xx

jade4939,sending you massive hugs honey,xx

Thanks Tina. Definitely need them at the moment. Xxx

Oh yes ask him when a little tipsy

and when he says no cry like a fool!!

and blame it on the drink

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Yeah just say it was the drink talking or a joke, lol. X

Haha well done Jade well thought out

Right maybe that is just how I will do it then. Get a little tipsy not too much I would want to remember what he said afterwards lol and not so noticeable that he cant tell me its the drink talking, but just enough to give me abit of dutch courage.

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Yeah literally one or two, you don’t want to be slurring your words, lol.x

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