ohh duno if im having 2nd thoughts now :( Started by: xxweeclairebearxx

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    just read a couple of horror stories about infections and poor aftercare (starting to think everywheres the same, once they have ur money ur not the no1 priority anymore) and i duno if im bottling it now :-s i have 2 small kids and they r my world, would feel like scum of the earth if i put my family thru that nightmare of additional ops and all the misery and it was all self inflicted…is it worth the risk?! aahh i duno wot to do :( i breastfed both so from my shoulders to my hips i look like a 90yr old and im only 23 so was 110% sure about gettin a BA and i wouldnt look back, but not sure if its worth it now, need advice!x

    jojo123
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    yeah i know what you mean about the horror stories but i just keep telling myself that nothing is going to be 100% perfect for every1, the chances are it will be al be fine, theres a small risk with whatever you do in life. i really want this op and despite the stories of things going wrong i think im gonna do it anyway.

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    yeh..jst scary when u hear 1st hand accounts of peoples experience, makes u realise how bad an infection would be :-s …think its just coz im a mum, if i didnt have any kids i dont think anything would put me off, would just feel like a huge failure if i couldnt be the best for them and it was ongoing x

    jojo123
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    i know, im a mum of 4, youngest is 3 and i feel the same, just gotta focus on the success stories and stay positive. if i wasnt so desperate id manage with what ive got but as thats nothing! i think i have to do this

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    yeh..i couldn’t imagine not doing it now..think theres a line u cross and once u have and uve made up your mind theres no going back, but now i duno haha…think i’ll put it off til end of the yr give me time to think…good luck tho jojo hope u get what u want :) xxx

    sarah85
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    Hey girls, I’m a pre op as well so I agree the stories do put u off.

    However I think everyone needs to be aware of the risks and surgery involves, even if it’s just to have a toe nail removed! So it’s gd that your all concerned.

    I honestly believe thou every doctor or surgeon out there will not risk their licence/reputation by messing up anything on purpose or making a half job of it, it is their livelihood at the end of the day. There are alot more good stories than bad ones, and always remember if u felt like u receive bad survice you will alway complain and warn as many people as possible. But if u receive good service do u always rant about it? One of the forums is all about the after care, there some gd chats on there hopefully these will make u feel abit better about things :-)

    becca1
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    Hi girls I’m six weeks post op iv got two young children I had a haematoma which meant they had to remove implant clean and drain the area and put implant back in so my point is I had a rare complication and came through it with the thoughts of it was the best thing I could have down my surgeon is amazing I have no regrets and I love my boobs x

    alexmink 1
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    all i would say is don’t panic about every little thing mentioned on here – every case is individual. A lot of what is on here is informative, remember you will always see good and bad on a forum x

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