ok girls help!

Ok so my bf is going to be transferin camps as he’s in the army and he wants me to move with him near by but family keep sayin they won’t see us as its about 2 hours away from then I’d like a fresh start as I hate livin here just scared bout a new place etc any advice? X

NEVER Leave ur family for no man hun! xx

Yeh but I see it in some way them not wanting me to move is selfish cause they aint thinking of what I want just what they want x

Thats not selfish hun they love you loads,and want to know that ur alright are u a close family?xx

You’ve got to be married for army to provide accommodation. It wouldnt be far for him to travel home weekends and on leave? Besides what about your other commitments work for instance, it’s a lonely life sometime being with an army man, afterall army comes first and own life and family second, just some food for thought.

Yeh he said u had too be married but he wants 2 live offa camp x

Why don’t you go to where he is proposing you move and spend a weekend there, going for walks, checking out the local pubs, jobs that might be available, and how friendly the place is? Might help you decide if you want a fresh start. I know some people who are really close to their family but prefer to live away from them. Depends if you’re the outgoing type who can make new friends easily. x

2hrs away aint too bad, you come and see them. but u gotta understand, ur bound to feel alone, isolated and miserable away from ur family at some point (if ur a close family)then u might move on and get used to it, but ull lose something some sorta childhood spark u cant explain. xx

if you dont like where ur living now then why not move, god i would if i could lol your family will always be there and 2 hours isnt that far its easy enough to jump in the car at weekends and nip back to see them. if you love your boyf and you see a future with him then do it, but make sure u do it cause you want to do it, its not your family or your boyfriends decision to make xx

yeh ino see i hardly see my family as it is my mum pops in but doesnt stay and i see my sister now and then im never down my mums house and i barely see my dad see my grandad once a week if that i just feel like my parents tryna sort of suffacate me ill be engaged or married by the time ive moved and was looking at houses and its beautiful and i would like to have the 4 of us together thats all i want x

Do it! It’ll be a great experience, try living somewhere new. Doesn’t have to be forever, you can go for a year or two and move back to the area where your family are. 2 hours is nothing, if your friends want to stay in contact they’ll make the effort to come and see you and you will go and see them! It’s a couple of years out of your life, you might really enjoy it….you never know until you try! xx

P.s where do you live now and where are you thinking of moving to?…. xx

cardiff to chester x

suzy p’s right, if you have the opportunity you should at least try it. like she said doesnt have to be forever xx

Yeah! Do it! Why not, isn’t Chester supposed to be really good to go out? Think of all the new experiences you’ll have. If you don’t like where you live now then what have you got to lose? I know it’s a big change and must seem really scary but once you’re there it’ll be great, or it might not be but then that’s a risk you take i suppose. No harm in trying and coming home if you’re not happy.

Sorry….i love traveling so i might seem a bit keen ha ha! I went traveling on my own a couple of years ago when my friend let me down, i was terrified but it ended up being the BEST experience ever and the best thing i’ve ever done! So i’m a big fan of just going for it and throwing yourself it to new situations, really keeps things fresh and stops you getting stuck in a rut xx

Yeah, listen to Suzy and do it. Wish I had the guts to move away from my home town. Well, I did try and be a holiday rep when I was younger and hated it so much that I hid behind a wheely bin to escape my boss and legged it to the airport to fly back home! I should have stuck it out. x

Ha ha lisa!! How funny!! At least you tried and you have a funny story and an experience to take away from it! xx

yeh deffs my bfs dad said its one of the most beautiful places in the world haha yeh will do it me thinks thanks girls xxx

Yay! Let us know how you get on, you’ll be fine….it’s exciting and new xx

awww cheers girls will do im excited now yay lol x

huni im a army wife have been for 7yrs its hard being away from family and your friends from bk home, 2 hours isnt really anything. im 4 hours away from where i from. but if you love this guy why not give it ago.. its a big life changin coz he may not be home all the time, if he is thats a bonus. im sure your get a wee job and make sum friends. and u may love it.. we only lives once in this world.

do you enjoy living away? or are you miserable? x

huni im married so i get sick of moving around all the time. but i have 3 kids too and i just wont them settle. i have been miserable and was on anti d for yrs. but i hate the army life and had sum problems along the way. ie jelous wifes and them generaly being nasty,etc

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