omg off topic …. but need a rant

I’m so pissed off, had my surgery on Friday any how my partner had to start back work today, so I only got 2 days to actualy try n recover cause I’m back to looking after a 3yr old n 11 month old on my own, had to get up with kids wen my bf went to work at 4 45 cause He has to carry youngest downstairs, any how so I’m exhausted n 7.10pm my partner puts youngest to bed as you can imagine huge weight off my shoulders and then 10 mins later there’s a load of shouting outside from the kids on the street who stand outside our door all time, banging there balls on wall, so then my lil boy got woke back up now I never normally say a word but tonight I opend door and just simply said could u stop shouting u have just woke baby up, the said Yes that was that, half hour later my aunty who lives round corner comes round and said ny uncle had got a text from the bloke who lives a few doors up from him saying I’d upset his son I didn’t even say anything wrong, so anyway my partner goes up just to say she didn’t say anything really wrong but sorry anyway n just explained its been a long day for and He had woke baby up, so she was been a cow about it saying u have to get used to kids etc, which I’m fully use to I have 2 of my own, but everyday all we get is balls thrown on are walls screaming shouting climbing over are back garden wall which is fine kids will be kids but at 7 30pm its not really neccesary, and there making such a big fuss over me just asking him to stop shouting I feel so terrible now like I’m in wrong xx

Hi, I don’t think you are in the wrong at all. You have a right to ask the kids to keep the noise down especially at this time. You shouldn’t even have to tell them their parents should. I have a 3 year old and it’s so annoying when I have got him to sleep and then something wakes him up. xxx

Agreed with cazz24…but can’t you get some childcare rather than doing it all yourself? You don’t want to hurt yourself and it must be so stressful doing it by yourself. You still have loads of healing to do and need rest x

Thankyou it is, she said u have to get use to it but they never are outside her house lol its always mine and they day its fine but at night its not acceptable. But I feel awful still now even though I didn’t say anything out of tune or wrong I just asked n He said Yes n that was it I THOUGHT things like this upset me coz I Hate falling out with people xx

Thankyou it is, she said u have to get use to it but they never are outside her house lol its always mine and they day its fine but at night its not acceptable. But I feel awful still now even though I didn’t say anything out of tune or wrong I just asked n He said Yes n that was it I THOUGHT things like this upset me coz I Hate falling out with people xx

My mums been cumin round in morning to dres them lol and my aunty takes oldest to.nursery, and I just have to sit there trying to say no to an 11 month old lol Dusnt work though, but my bf is on 5 30 til 2pm so its not too bad once He gets in I just make him do everything lol xx

Well at least your getting some help and not completely alone then that’s the main thing x

Yea its not too bad just bit tiring but not much a can do ma mum works all time n had no annual leave lol n mi bf only started this job last Monday so they wasn’t very pleased wen He told them He had to have Friday off to.come to hospital with me, it landed on a bad time xx

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