OMG – Very stressed now

Hi girls, I was due my uplift and implant on Mon but got phoned last night to say they can’t find an anaesthetist and so I now have to go in TOMORROW!!!

Am mega stressed now. I am not ready, have things planned this weekend that are really hard to get out of, my macom bra is due to be delivered next week and to make it all so much worse, I have really small kids that my husband and I arranged to be looked after for the Monday and now it is such a mess.

I decided not to tell ANYONE about the procedure and so I can’t just be honest and explain why we need the kids looked after tomorrow now instead. To make it worse, the only babysitters we have are busy tomorrow afternoon, so my husband can only stay with me till about 10:30 a.m and then I’m on my own all day I’m a self confessed wimp and am scared stiff of the whole thing!

On the plus side, I am really excited about the op (though obviously feel sick to my stomach with nerves too)! Am just really feeling the burden of keeping something massive like this all to myself so it’s nice to be able to have a rant on here!

Feel really gutted that this has become such a mess.

Oh Hun!! I feel for you!! I have lil ones too. I travelled 5hrs the night before my surgery, stayed in a hotel and went to the hospital by myself, honestly when I was there I was so calm! And the nurses are always great support! You will probably find you will be much calmer by yourself anyway. Look at the big picture………your going to have pert boobies!!! Lol xx

Have you got any close friends/family you could talk to? Xx

Thanks hun, I really hope I am calm too!!! I have heard that I should be first in, so hubby will be with me in the morn but not when I come round

No, apart from my hubbie, no one else knows. There are lots of judgemental people in the family and so I’d rather keep it to myself. I was an E cup before kids and since, have been wearing heavily padded bras, so I’m hoping no one will notice when they’re back again lol!

I know it sounds silly, but I really hate keeping big things like this from people, it actually makes me feel a bit sick! But I really don’t want any arguments or to be judged by my boobs so rather keep it to myself! Hopefully this time tomorrow I’ll be feeling great!!! xxx

Char you will be absolutely fine honey,I know its come as a shock and you may have a fair bit of organising to do,but by the time you get to the hospital,you will just be so pleased that you are there, you will have the nurses to look after you,you will be nervous but excited at the same time,and you havent got all weekend to dwell on it,you go girl,get your boobies,and we will all be here ready to give you any support you need.Good luck lovely,not that you will need it,xxx

Thanks Tina! Keep your fingers crossed for me! Am flitting between thinking I’m gonna be sick and getting really excited! xxx

I dont need to cross my fingers you will be fine,cant wait to hear your story,im so excited for you,ill pm you my number then if you feel a bit lonely or worried at the hospital you can text me and ill call or text you,wooooohooooo boobie time.xxx

Awwww thanks honey, you’re such a star! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Good Luck hun!!! xxxxx Us girls will be thinking of you xx

Don’t worry hon I have two little ones and my husband stayed with me for an hour or so and then went off. I think it definitely made me feel calmer, when I came round I just wanted to go back to sleep again anyway. It will be worth it!!!

My hubbie was there for me going in, I did not see any point in him waiting for me so he went to work and i txted him when i felt ok. your husband will be there when you go in, that will calm you down, that is when you will need him. You will be fine, put it this way although it is a little more inconvenient for you, you will be done sooner, not as much build up. I was at my worst the few days before, kept thinking something would go wrong. Like you I was sick thinking about what will people think, will they judge me. My mum and husbands family have not even noticed. I feel great, i am three weeks post op. My boobies have blended in great, trust your surgeon, try not to worry. I think we all have this worry about people pointing , looking and judging. truth is everyone is too busy getting on with their own lives. My husband says, its no one elses business, everyone is entitled to their opinion, but if they dissapprove they should keep it to themselves. You are not doing harm to anyone else you are doing it to make yourself feel better about yourself. Believe me you will be done before you know it, you will love your new boobies, I have no regrets. My sister in law said act your age, behave yourself when i told her i was thinking of it. I am 46 and i did act my age and so glad i did.Sorry for ranting …good luck xx

Aw wot a lovely post! Thank u for that.

Am so pleased to hear ur so chuffed with ur new assets, good for u hun. You’re NEVER too old to want to feel fabulous! xxxxx

Hi Char i’m sure everything will work out and I completely agree with allie12, at least you wont have as lont to get yourself worked up about it. Im now 5 days post op and so glad I finally did it, i know a lot of the girls on here are quite young im 47 and some people were like why do you want it doing now, well why the hell not, we all deserve to be happy and if this is what it takes for us to be happy then its up to us. Big hugs and kisses hun you will be absolutely fine xxx

Aw hun, you will be fine, i know what its to stress and be worried. But honestly you will be fine. I had my hubby and little girl with me the whole time they stayed at the hospital. But when you wake up you will prefer the quiet as you will wana sleep. Where all here thinking of you xxxx

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