Op on Sat, just told mum

Ops on Sat & I just told my mum… She’s been crying the whole time talking about cancer, and how much she loves me & me being her only child.. I feel soo bad & I’m soo close to cancelling.. Not nice seeing her like this & I’d be the same if it was her 🙁

My excitement has turnt into pain 🙁

Ahh hun… That’s what mummies do… they worry about their babies. She may not like the fact you are having surgery but I bet you she will be there fussing over you while you recover 🙂
Try not to let this be a downer… Xx

I’m with mrsrich its a mothers job to worry my mum done the whole are you sure you want to put yourself through it and what about the risks the only thing that stopped her was me telling her the little white lie that I was getting it done under the NHS don’t think I would of heard the last of it if she knew how much I had paid lol. I’m sure once its all done the worry will be over and she will be fussing looking after you good luck xx

Aww thank u girls!! Really reassuring… I’m soo scared I’m making the wrong decision, I don’t want to regret it!! I lied to her about the price but she instantly told me I was lying and she knows it costs soo much more! Looool xxxx

Thanks again girls! Means a lot

I still haven’t told mine. Show your mum the stats that show there is no link between implants and detecting cancer. She’s just worried and think if it positively, that’s really lovely. X

I think my mums secretly hoping I’m gunna change my mind, she knows how much it makes me unhappy tho, I think we’ll both b glad when I’ve had it done lol xx

@janet oh wow when’s your op & when do u plan on telling her? We’ve had a good ol’ chat and I’ve answered all her questions and given her stats, she’s much better now.. Just really hates the idea of me being cut -_____-

@Rachel snapppp!! She’s said she’ll support me but isn’t happy and doesn’t agree :/ can’t wait till its all done! We’ll defo be happy 🙂

We sure will chick, it’ll b worth it 🙂 xx

Honestly chick don’t worry about it. I took my mum with me and she was proper loving it! Her and me traynor got on like a house on fire ha! Obviously she was nervous as a mother should be but she was excited for me too. Try to involve her as much as possible so she knows what you’re going through and I’m sure she will appreciate that and if she knows the facts she will realise its not as scary as people think it is! Good luck doll x

Your so so right! @belle she’s actually coming around, and it is fear as u pointed out, I think meeting mr f will really help her too. Thanks for the advise, really getting excited now xxx

You should be excited! 🙂 it’s a positive thing you’re doing, remember that! Message me if you have any questions before sat hun, best of luck xx

I had mine done a week ago and only my boyfriend and best friend knows at the moment! Dreading telling mine :-/ x

I’m having mine done in 4 weeks, and I mentioned to my mum that I’m thinking of it but didn’t tell that I’m actually going through with it. She got all worried about being cut and “what about a baby?” . So still have to let her know, but I’m so worried about my dad, he will go absolutely crazy, and I already know what he’ll say ” you’re mentally ill girl” :))) so my plan is, from now on, wear only loose, big clothes whenever I go round their house so he never notices :)))

Hahaha omg you sound like me Maria, my dad won’t notice if I live in loose pj from now on! Humm jumpers in summer will not be a good look! 😀

Haha, Emma I’m sure in summer we’ll figure something out 🙂 I’d tell him they decided to expand because of heat lol

My mum was okay but my nan was crying I felt so bad ! But I knew this was about me and not what anyone else wants! She will come round my nan doesn’t care now xxx

Not much to add as PP have said the same as i would say but if its Dr Fallahdar you have then you are in the best hands. He is a lovely man and will put you both at ease, cant recomend him highly enough 🙂 it will all be ok, and if things dont go 100% (like with me, one side not dropped etc) then he will happily take the steps to fix it xx Best of luck

Aww thanks Belle! I defo will 🙂 xx

Haha @Maria @emmafrog Complete opposite with me, my dads really cool my mums the 1 with the reigns! U can’t pay 4k for boobs and hide em under a jumper! I’m flaunting mine even in the snow haha

Kate that’s exactly how I felt with my mum, but she’s coking round now and realises its beyond her control. Your right it’s about us, we have to live with it. They’ve lived their lives and had their choices.. Now it’s our turn!

Aww Minisha soo glad u had Mr F and have all that good stuff to say! Really puts meat ease =D thank u xx

Is till haven\’t plucked up the courage to tell my family :-/ haven\’t been over since my op :-/

Aww!! Well the worst is over now! All thy can do now is talk loads and loads about how much they can’t believe you’ve done it! All you have to do is counteract all their responses before u go over! They might not even notice, espesh if you’ve been in triple gel bras like me haha x

Without clothes you can’t really tell cos I also used to live with huge padded bras and gel fillets :-/ I know you’re right, I’m really happy just dreading the all having a go and judging me xx

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