Op tomorrow and you're the only ones who know!

Admission time is 9am tomorrow and the only people I’ve told are my boyfriend (who’s accompanying me) and about 4 close friends… And now I’m kind of regretting it cos I feel like I’m lacking in support haha!

You girls on here have been so helpful though and it’s been really reassuring any time I’ve ever have a question or concern.

Couldn’t tell my parents because they would freak out (this isn’t an assumption.. It’s a fact! My dad’s a vicar.. And my mum thinks I’m just being stupid and vain!). My friends from home and Uni wouldn’t understand why I want it done, and there are a lot of nasty gossips about as I’m sure some of you will have experienced… But I’m doing this for me and don’t want others opinions to get me down and it’s why I’m so grateful that this forum is full of such lovely, helpful and supportive girls xx

Jessbell that was a lovely post. You go girl! Despite what others may say your doing it to make you happy. Well done. You’ll feel FANTASTIC for it.

I hope all goes well tomorrow and can’t wait to hear your story. Your bf will be there to support you chick. Just think, this time tomorrow you’ll be at the hospital just goin’ in! Less than 24 hours! Excitiinggggg!

Good luck and take care.

p.s, see how long you can stay awake for with the GA, countdown from 10!

xx

Good luck for tomorrow Jess xx

Hi hun,

I’m the same, so far I’ve only told my boyfriend and two friends. I don’t think my parents would freak out or anything, but I just don’t want to worry them if anything! My friends are supportive but my boyfriend is still not 100% which makes it quite hard. So its such a relief for me to have this forum too!

Sod the gossips hun, U know it sounds like a cliche but they usually are just jealous or insecure themselves, at the end of it you’ll have amazing new boobs and they won’t!! Lol xx

Gooooooooooooood Luck xx

don’t worry about what people think x its your body x

i am having mine done purely for my confidence… i am def 100% not a vain person and would freak if i got called that lol. People dont understand how we feel about our Lady Lumps!!

Good Luck hunny x x x xx as long as you have support from your BF you will be fine x

I had my op 3 weeks ago and not told my parents! Even now they don’t know!! Only told 4 people. Don’t worry about it hun all will be ok x

Im in same boat hun my boyfriend whos funding it and 2 close friends dont want anyone else knowing and quite frankly none of there business ha people are so judgemental xxxxx

I have told everyone – and i am getting a lot of support and a lot of negativity.

I DONT CARE – its my body and my money which i have worked hard for.

If they dont like it, it simple – GET OVER IT!!!!!! and dont be asking to look or feel when they are done.

My hubby is 100% behind me, and thats the only person in my opinion that counts.

Too many idiots out there with an opinion – NO LIKEE NO LGHTY!!!! LOL XXXXX

Thanks girls, your words all mean so much! It’s good to know there have been others in the same boat too.

Claire1985, my boyfriend still isn’t 100% either which has been hard at times, but I know he’ll be there for me when I need him!

Feeling very lucky and excited at the mo! Will make sure I post my story as soon as I am able to type again lol.

Thanks again girls xxxxx

cuks im exactly the same as u hun, at first i didnt wanna tell anyone but then ppl cudnt exactly not notice, some have been negative but most r all postive reactions, if ppl dont like it then (pardon my french) fuck them, its got nowt to do wi them, i did it for me nobody else and im happy so to me thats the one and only thing that matters xxx i wish u all the luck n happiness in the world jessbell let us know how it goes xxx

Lynz28 u hit the nail in the head – i was dying to wot u said ur right FUCK EM.

Jessbell all the best xxx

Miss Jessbell aka my fuck face ( sorry ladies private joke from our uni times)

I’m gonna make the effort to come up and see you tomorrow because we’ve gone through this process together and although I should have had mine done today *sighs* I’m gonna continue to give you the support you deserve! I’m so proud of you for making it this far and now your time has finally come!

You’re doing it for the right reasons and that’s what matters! If the time comes if/when you do finally tell your parents then hopefully they’ll “try” to understand. However, during my journey I’ve realised that it’s not important to get reassurance because no-one you tell (I mean people who have negative opinions about it) are ever gonna understand. Yes, it’s comforting to feel you have that support, but if it only the 4 close friends you’ve got (and yes I am one lol), the BF and these lovely ladies on here, then that’s all you need!

Keep your head up beautiful, and see you soon!

By the way, if I turn up to the hospital with banners and a live playing band don’t be surprised lol!

I got ya back girl! <3 xxx

Thanks girls, couldn’t agree more! Fuck the lot of them lol and Gabby, you’re a star xxx

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