OT- :( feel like my hearts been ripped out

Soo I had been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months

and I was around his earlier today after staying the night

and then “sorry for this bit” after having sex this morning the windows

were quite steamy and I laughed about it and he said “oh yeah that happened on Wednesday night too” but I wasnt round his Wednesday night I was at my friends.

I said to him about it and he looked really sheepish then blurted out that he had been cheating on me for the last month with a girl I dont get on with and he was really “sorry” BLAH BLAH fuckin BLAH.

I really thought he was different from the others but he’s just the same ‘(

Sorry for being miserable on the forum ladies but just needed to get it out

XX

oh god hun thats awful!! really hope your ok…cheaters are the worst! you’re so much better of knowing and now you can focus on being happy and finding someone who treats you right. Try to stay focused on the good things you have and not let him make you miserable or keep you down. Lifes too short to waste on people that make you sad hun, xx

What a feckin cheating scumbag. If there are two things I detest about people, it is (1) liars; and (2) coniving manipulative people.

Good job you found out now, rather than it be a year and 5 months. Have you had your BA yet, there’ll be no stopping you if you have and if you haven’t. Don’t worry about being miserable. I’m afraid there are a lot of men out that that don’t have a backbone and be honest. Let’s hope she give him a dose of summat.

Keep ur chin up chick! nxx

Once a cheat, always a cheat! Don’t let him get away with it! Walk away with your head held high hunny! And kick the bar-Steward while he’s down xx

OMG how awful!!! I hope you stormed out hun and didnt look back. Some men are just tossers hun and dont deserve decent girls. Big hugs to you xxxx

Wat a horrible creep, hope youre ok x

men are f*ckers.

So sorry to hear, I know that is the worst feeling ever. Cry and then move on. And then just look forward to your boobs. Hope you feel better soon.

Ah hon, you are so better off without him, i agree, once he’s cheated he’s likely to do it again and you’re not really ever going trust him. Shed some tears then goout with your girlfriends and get them to cheer you up. xxx

sounds like he doesn’t deserve you acting like that!! sorry to hear!

minute I had my op my boyfriend never once looked after me and decided then to fall out and want a break and I’m staying at my mums it’s all hit rock bottom…it’s the worst! But I’m staying strong, hope you can be strong too! xxx

Sorry to hear that babe, it really does hurt when someone does that to you x

dirtyharri, thanks for accepting my friends request. WOW, I can’t beleive a post day 3 how fab you look. They really are great and your surgeon has done an amazing job. Thanks for sharing your pics x

Omg what a absolute pr**k!! Deserves to have it chopped off if you ask me, I can’t stand men like that. He will realise what he’s lost and you can laugh in his face whilst walking away. Chin up lovey find someone better who really does care. He don’t deserve you at all! Xx

Hey ladies thanks so much for your support.

I wont be taking him back dont worry about that!

yeah i’m so glad that I found out now,I am not

having a BA I had laserlipo back in December.

Im just scared now that might have something nasty got a test done yesterday just waiting on results.

aww JAF thats horrible, the time when he should be there for u the most

oh believe me emz I would love to chop it off, but I dont really want blood on my hands!! haha may just tie a string around it and slam the door shut!

@emmaelizabeth I am moving on hun, it will be hard but I have to. I have uni to look forward to in September so can forget about him and find myself a nice teacher trainee

I would have just rathered he walk away then hurt me but as usual men have to have ther cake and fu***ng eat it!

thankyou ladies for your help

much love!

X

What a nasty piece of work!! Look after yourself hun…..your worth more xx

What a cunt!!!! sorry to be so harsh but he is the lowest of the low, you deserve so much better! Get rid Hun xx

@gemzstone6902 I am thankyou hun

@flossy dont worry hun call him what u want

I couldnt say anything to him after he admitted it

I just left his house cuz was too choked up

but I have called him some choice words since!

On the plus side I have lost 4lb since it happened!

Im carrying on with losing my weight steadily and toning up

then i will show him what he’s lost!

I am 21 so am still young I dont need a loser!

Im not upset so much anymore just angry!

I NEED TO GET BOOBS!! haha cuz since losing 1st 8lbs my boobs have shrunk and I didnt have any to start with! haha

need to save up!

much love to you ladies you’re all wonderful!

X

Like I said it hurts but I can imagine you’re a good looking woman so his loss and not yours! Xx

@brownsuga aww thats sweet thanks hun

but this is just the thing he knew I felt shit

about myself and my looks etc and he fed me all the bulshit of “your the most beautiful girl to me” but he just proved that i obviously wasnt and to make it worse the girl he cheated on me with is really slim adn so pretty ‘(

I just have to focus on me and prove to him he is the one that has missed out and fucked up!

X

aww try not to compare yourself with her, shes just a slapper if she knew he was with you, and your worth so much more, your young so go have some fun, and as you said show him what hes missing…xx

Trust me babe he is right you are beautiful but sometimes people dont value something until its gone! like the other women have said on here he will regret it! X it hurts but remember you did no wrong, he is a d*ck and the girl is a slapper!

Yeah she is known as the village bike!

I think that is what hurts the most that he would go with a

cheap slapper!

I just hope that she gives him something nasty then he will

learn his lesson!

Just hope I dont have anything now .

And when he wakes up and does finally realise what he has lost

I wont be there waiting for him! Even his mum said I was the first decent

girlfriend that he had brought around! so its his fuckup!

X

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