Paid for my lipo but really don't want to have it now! Help!! Started by: dominique88

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  • dominique88 -39
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    Hey ladies, please give me advice, I’m 23 years old had my two kids and thought I really want to get lipo so I’ve paid for it out right and now I’m regretting it:( I’m soo scared incase anything happens to me. My aunt had told me about Colin hendrys wife who died bcos of lipo. Really in bits now. What should I do? Please wb! Xxxx

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    try and be calm hun, you must have really wanted it to go ahead and pay. just think life is way tooo short and if it is something that will make you happy and feel better in anyway then why the hell not!!!. I know its scary when people say things and you google things but you have to think it does NOT happen to everybody. Go with your initial gut feeling. if you still really really don’t want to in a few weeks time then try and sort it out so you don’t do it. big hugs xx

    dominique88 -39
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    Hey honey thanks for that, I paid for it on Friday and all I’ve thought about since then is what if something happens. Everyone seems excited or a bit anxious about surgery but I’m honestly dreading it now. Hate GOOGLE!!!! And the surgeon I’m having seems to specialise in like boobs. So think that’s another reason why am a bit apprehensive. Xxxx

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    maybe try and see if you can maybe go for a consultation with another surgeon as that might make you feel abit better. Im having a uplift and BA. I originally had my op booked with one surgeon. then after research..the dreaded GOOGLE!!.. I got scared as I realized his comments were not that great so I freakked our big time and had to see somebody else .. Im sooooo happy I did as now I feel so much better and confident in him. You have to think this is your body and soo important you want to look and feel the best. The nurse totally understood why I wanted a 2nd opinion so maybe do that. You defo have the right too xxx

    acorn88
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    Which surgeon?x

    dominique88 -39
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    Thank you soo much honestly I needed To hear that tonight, Yeah I think that’s what al do.al phone my co ordinator in the morning and tell her how I feel! My surgeon seems a really nice guy and his reviews are good too but on for BA. Nothing else! Well I hope everything goes well for you honey! Keep me posted! Xxx

    dominique88 -39
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    Acorn88 it’s professor harte x

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    Aw i’m sure it will be fine, after my ba i’ve gone through days of wanting lipo and rhinoplasty! the sudden change gave me such a rush! need to get me back in the gym i think, stop thinking so lazy! i asked as i thought it might’ve been dr russo as he is known for ba but i know someone that had lipo with him. never mind, best of luck xxx

    dominique88 -39
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    Well I have been gifted with big boobs lol I’m an 8 to 10 but my hips are out of proportion since I’ve had both girls bottom of my back and outer thighs, I can guarantee you I have worked my ass off at the gym and I can’t get rid of these areas of fat. I loose weight on my tum and other places but not my problem areas. This is last resort chick. I wouldn’t do this if I could get rid of it at the gym. Xx

    acorn88
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    Oh no hun i didn’t mean that AT ALL. I have lost weight at the gym before, but i will always have big thighs, i meant that if i were to do it i’d have to get strict with myself first! The girl who had lipo the same day as my ba, i couldn’t believe it, she was tiny on top, i couldn’t think why she wanted lipo, but she wasn’t in proportion and naturally there was nothing she could do. She told me that dr russo told her that with lipo fat cells are taken out and your body never reproduces them, i never knew this and it’s what made me seriously consider it (before i thought that if someone got it their body would naturally go back to the same shape) xx

    dominique88 -39
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    Oh sorry honey, I picked you up wrong. I’m just obviously nervous/anxious/apprehensive lol. Just obv want it to go as smoothly as possible with no complications. It’s more my kids and partner I’m worried about incase anything was to happen to me. Lol reassurance is much needed. My man just says aw you will be fine don’t worry about it. Lol. Then a few of my family members think I’m crazy and tell me horror stories about people having lipo. Xxx

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    dominique88,I think anyone considering cosmetic surgery gets a little scared,It is still surgery,when you consider the amount of people that have had surgery,the few horror stories that people will always tell you about are nothing in comparison with the success stories,horror stories have the most impact,your man is right,do you think for one second if he thought you would be in danger he would let you do it,no way,family members perhaps think your crazy because they care about you and dont see what you see,they think you look great,but you obviously don’t like what you see otherwise you would’nt be paying out all this money to make this improvement to your body,its how you feel about yourself that counts,we are all here for the same reasons,we want to make the changes to give us the confidence we need to be happy with the way we look.

    Your surgeon will be very experienced in this procedure honey,otherwise he would not have agreed to do it,if you are worried that your expectations will not be met,then ask for a second opinion,almost all of the surgeons are very good in several different procedures,but because we don’t see posts about it,we worry that they can only be good at breasts,there are thousands of members here,but imagine how many people have surgery and don’t use the forum,the numbers will be phenomenal.

    Try not to worry,you’ve made a massive step booking and going to the consultation,be positive try to focus on the results and the reason you are doing this,honestly honey,you will be fine.You will have all the members here to support you emotionally,and your man seems to be behind you all the way,and when this is done and you are healed and feel fab,you will be able to spend less time in the gym working like mad,on your problem areas,because you wont have any, and more time on you.xxx

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    Every surgery has a risk hun but MYA never really have any bad reviews, one reason why i’ve chosen them. It;s quite a common op & your bound to get nervous before you go, everyone does. You obviously wanted it from the start and i’m sure if you cancel your’ll be thinking what if….go for you & i guarentee your’ll be soo happy you did. There are bad reviews for everything so don’t worry, MYA are a fantastic team :) xxx

    dominique88 -39
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    Tina2011 thank you very much for that! I spoke to my co ordinator today and feel heaps better:) I know I’m in safe hands!! Xxxx

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    Well done you,im around if ever you need to chat,well done honey.xxx

    dominique88 -39
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    Charlottem88 thank you honey! Your soo right! I’m just going to go with the flow! I know this is going to make me soo much happier:) xxxx

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