Parents found out, not how I intended them too

ok so I’ve spoken before on here how nervous I am telling my parents about my decision to have a BA. I just knew my dad would blow his top and argue with me about how silly I am to think about it, i have been thinking about cunning plans i can do to not tell him.

well, i have booked my consultation with mya for this sat, and my parents opened my letter from Mya today and thats how they found out!!!
I work away from home, so my mom phoned earlier to ask me what was going on, she guessed it was for a BA and I couldn’t stop crying on the phone to her. I was so mad they opened my letter (which they never normally do, but my mom sometimes does if letters look important so she can tell me). I asked if dad was cross but she said no he is just concerned.

Well we hung up and i went for a bath and couldn’t stop crying. i was dreading going home on friday night to confront them about it but when i looked down at my phone my dad text me saying that he is ok, just concerned please call him.
anyway i did and i am so relieved they now know and are supportive. my dad wasn’t cross at all, he even made a joke about me not wanting to be like katie price and i was like no way! haha but we spoke for ages about my decision, feelings and how my consultation is about me finding more info out.

they said they will support me with what ever my decision is and will buy me a bigger bra so i can support myself

such a weight off my shoulders.

it just goes to show girlies that if your worried about telling ppl, don’t be as parents just want the best for you. xxx

oh thats so nice – good for you! you must be so relieved

That’s really nice, I know what you mean… Your story reminds me of mine, I was 23 and terrified to tell my Dad I was pregnant (even though that is hardly a young age now days!!!) My Mum opened a letter up from the midwife (even though I told them not to Post Anything for fear of this) anyway, my Mum told my Dad and he was over the moon !!!!!!!!! And one year on my son is the apple of his eye ….. On the note about your parents opening your mail, my Mum is the worst for it and always opens my mail to ‘check’ that I’m not in any trouble with any bills or anything, she makes me laugh. I just think they don’t want us to grow up, and now I’m a Mum I can see why.. I never want my little man to grow up and leave me ………… Anyway, good luck hun, it’s nice to have the support xxx

i’m glad they are being supportive, , i was the sam, my mum was fine with it but i was worried about telling my dad and i left home years ago and am married with a child, i wanted to tell him so he wouldnt hear by accident but was chicken cause thought he would give me an ear bashing, so i emailed him lol, he emailed me back saying he thought i was perfect the way i was but wished me luck and said to do what makes me happy. phew, hope your consultation goes well chick xx

God use r braver than me.im havin my ba in 2wks and stil havnt told them.im 26 so not a child but I cant bring myself to do it.my mams pretty cool but my dads so old fashioned I think he wud hit the roof.im not sure if I cud hide ba frm them.im sure the bigger bras in the wash wud b a dead give away lol x

louise, why dont you ask your mam to tell him, get her to say you didntwantto tell him because you didnt wantto fall outand it might guilt him into being ok, i really thought my dadwould go ape, so suprised with his reaction, good luck, got mine this friday eeek

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