PARTNER NOT AGREEING WITH MY CHOICE Started by: beatrix26

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    I have a partner for eights yr who is not wanting me to get a BA. He knows for yrs that I wanted the op but he thinks it’s just a passing thought and dat i wouldn’t actually go through with it. I’m more certain now than ever to go through with it. I think he feels once I get the twins I be out the door. One of my reasons for d op is because I want to fill out my wedding dress!

    Ladies wat do u think?

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    My fella of eight years paid for mine as a wedding present, so I could feel more womanly on the day, we get married in 20 months, and has been great, has literally done everything I could have asked, and more :)

    There’s others in here who’s partners where the same, but they still went ahead and are still with their other halves, and most of them love their new curvy bubbly women better :) just sit him down and tell him your reasons, go through the process together, and make him aware it’s for you, not other people to stare at them xx

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    Wow what a great wedding present!

    My partner has been behind me 100% with it, and really looked after me and put my mind at ease.

    Once your partner sees the new confident you he will realise how silly he is being. You just need him to support you after.

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    Thanks :) coz I got it early, I know he will surprise me with something else, lol xx

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    Awesome :-)

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    Your lucky ladies. Ur right now that I am committed I should start inform him what the process actually involves. I’m of the opinion that it’s been eight years wear am I really going to go!! Funny thing is he two is going to enjoy them as much as me, so why the negativity!!

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    Oh Hun my partner is the same & my Ba is in 8 days.. He doesn’t want me to have it done but fully understands why I’m having it done, he explained that he only wants me to do it for myself & not for him & that he’s worried that I’m signing my life away,

    I’m also certain he thinks that I will be out every weekend flashing my booblers ( not like this at all btw)

    They just love us & worry Hun, don’t give up on your dream honey, life is too short for regrets!! We discussed me getting them done as like you I’ve wanted this for ten years & he told me how he felt & I listened, told him the reason why I want it & then saw a couple of surgeons fell in love with Mario Russo & booked my Ba..

    Good luck sweetie xx

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