partners reaction to your decision to get a boob job?

i dont think my bf thought it was actually going to happen, now my (first ever) appointments sorted n its become more real, hes really quiet with me, if i talk about it he doesnt answer, an he said “i dont want u 2 start doin modelling or something after getting it” (i couldnt anyway!!)

how did ur parter react??

I’ve been with my partner for 9 years (since we were 14) so he knows how long I’ve wanted one.

He says to do what I want & that he’s a bum man not a booby man it’s only cos I’ve never had boobs. Wait till I’ve got some he’ll love it ha ha ha x

My bf didn’t get a say, I just said to him if you don’t like it you know where the door is! I paid for them and it’s my body, end of!

My hubby has seen over the years since kids how bad I feel about my breasts. He is fine with them but I am always on edge about them. He is very supportive but has also joked that I’m going to get loads more attention after which he a little worried abt lol! I wear a padded bra so I dont think he got anything to worry abt!

My fella is fine with it. Totally supportive comes with me to appt and is taking 2 weeks off with me when I have proceedure in jan . Think he’s getting excited now I’ve booked it

My ex did NOT want me getting a boob job, he didn’t even really like me going out either lol. I think it’s natural for men to get a bit jealous though, it’s only cos they care. x

Jealousy is normal but I don’t think it’s normal for guys to stop u doing things because of maybe losing you coz of your new confidence or attention from other guys! If a guy is comfortable in the relationship and secure then he knows that your coming home to him at the end of the day! Ahhh it’s hard but you shouldn’t be ruled or made to feel bad about doing something that will make YOU happy

My bf is supportive, although he isn’t taking any time off work, he is picking me up the day after and knows how down I am about my breasts now xx

Like joanne said he’s worried about the extra attention I mite get but I wear such a hugely padded bra it won’t make much difference! Yehh he could say anything n it wouldn’t change my decision, I just wish he would stand by me abit more, I said to him surely uv relised how I never ever show u my boobs?! I even face away frm him when getting changed, n all that would stop!! I’m sure (like all men) he’ll love them once they’re here I’m jus very very nervous n need his support! X

My partner was cool to begin with. I originally went down the NHS route and while I was arranging my GP appointment etc he was so supportive. Even saying he couldn’t wait to get a shot of my new boobs lol. Now, however, he has turned around and said he hates fake boobs and is refusing to help me fund the op. Feel so let down by him as he was my only chance of getting a loan, and just a few weeks ago he was perfectly happy to get a loan for me. I think now he knows just how much the procedure I need costs, he’s freaked out. He was expecting £2000, but I need nearer £6000!

In all honesty, I think he feels safe with me at the moment. He knows how self concious I am about my breasts, he has even admitted he thinks they are very saggy (he also said he loves them how they are), so even if I wanted to, he is confident I wouldn’t have the balls to cheat (not that I ever would!) He was cheated on many times by his ex, who he totally loved, so I think he’s worried I’ll do the same thing once I have great boobies and lots of confidence. I wont, but I believe it’s still a massive worry of his. Most men hate the thought of other men ogling their girlfriends and wives too…I think our fellas think we’re going to have huge, whopping great big Jordan-style knockers lol!!!

I hope he comes around to it and supports me like he used to. He knows how miserable my boobs are making me at the moment, so I am hopeful he will understand eventually. I know he will love them when I eventually get them done! And if I just save rather than get him stressed over a big loan, I’m sure he’ll relax soon enough about it!

aw hun its sad he changed his mind on how he felt, we really need them when going through this, my bf was cool with it at first too (when he thought it wasnt really gonna happen lol!)

now hes also said he hates fake boobs and theres no need for me to get them, erm he hasnt ever seen my breasts! and doesnt realise i wear a bra with AIR pads, cringe!!

yeh i think a big part of his problem with it is thinking im suddenly gonna get lots of confidence and find a new man, like u said, they feel safe where they are rite now with us, but asif we would ever do that to our boyfriends/hubbys!!

They will be all over us when we’ve got our new boobs! And we can be like, no honey, don’t touch! You don’t like fake boobs, remember…? Haha! 😉

my partner always wants me to be happy,he knows how dissapointed i got after every pregnancy with my boobs nearly hitting the floor, i felt like i was losing part of my woman hood, he totally supported me on my descision and helped me with getting my new boobies, i love him so much and im so glad he loves my new additions to coz thats important! even though im having a few probs with them atm hopefully these probs will get sorted soon xx

He understands when he wants too and also uses it against me when he wants too! Vanity is his fave word at the moment, oh and the fact I have nearly 6k attached to my chest. ASS HOLE!! 😯 xxx

I first net the guy I’m seeing now as I was looking into it, so he knew from the start. He just insisted he came to appointments with me as he wanted to play with the implants haha! Was well funny coz mr kazazzi kept talking to him and he really wasn’t listening, just happily playing with the implants like a child the little perv lol! He got posted to Scotland 2 days before my op thou so won’t gettoo see the real thing for a while (both military) he was also disappointed that there were no picture books of boobs in the waiting room!

Mine hates the idea, he said “do what you gotta do to be happy” but wont really enter into conversation about it and doesnt want to come to any appointments with me. I’m not really that bothered because I think although I know he doesnt like fake boobs I’m not doing it out of spite and I’m not doing it for him or anyone else. I dont like the way they look at the moment and whilst I’d like to be supported, if he knows how much it means to me he knows I’ll do it regardless.

Haha that’s sooo true gnasher!!

Nikibockerglory that sounds exactly like what my bf will say when mine are done! Men!!

My bfs taking me to my appointments but only coz he doesn’t like me usin public transport, incase I meet a man!?

my husband has been very supportive he came with me for my consultation and has let me book it as it will be him getting a loan for me, he has said tho once there done im not allowed to wear anything to revealing, im not gonna get them out or look like a tart but i will show a bit of cleavage, for not having nice boobs for years i think i have a right to show them a little lol x

My partner knew how much this meant to me and paid £1000 as christmas and birthday pressies for a while and then leant me the rest. At first he was why do you want it. But I have had 5 kids and lost 5 stone and I am 47 so I wanted it now rather than later. Now my day is tomorrow hes like cant wait. Hes looking forward to the “Twins” lol. I am sure he will enjoy when you get them. I think they think we will go off as we will get more attention. They get a bit insecure. Up to us to reasure them that they are for “our” benifit. Godd luck with it. x

My husband cried and begged Me Not to. We alsofought a lot and he was quite unpleasant about it. I had it done and my husband kept asking if I regrEttted it yet. That really annoyed me. Anyway now I’m 13 weeks pos op. He thinks my boobs look amazing and he is glad I hAd them done xxxx

Rele anchovie! I jus had abit of an argument with my bf over it he said “u will look really sexy but think of the future that money cud go towards a mortgage for us,and what about when ur 60 n u hav to hav them taken out coz u look ridiculous” erm for a start I’ve just turned 20 n I’ve only been ina relationship with him 5 monthes, talkin about a mortgage already lol?!

My boyfriend was so-oo supportive pre-op, even paid half for me!!

Now for some reason he has turned into an absolute dick! Hardly been there for me, always out with his mates and just generally being awful! Think this is upsetting which is why I probs have such an issue with my boobs and not liking them etc also, I haven’t felt like sex so he’s probs narked about that!!!!!

Yeh my husband said that we could get a new kitchen! And he went on about what about having to have a re op in ten yEars time! I just told him I was sure and that I needed him to either support me and stop going on about it or don’t support me and I’ll cancel. He said he’d support me so every time he Saudi something negative I reminded him he’s supposed to be supporting me. Men are idiots

They r so strange at times!! I can tell how much its gonna be thrown up in my face in arguments!

Exactly!! i have the same problem..he never asks how my appointments go and i’m not allowed to talkl about it..come 4th Nov i think ima be single!! he just doesn’t understand how I feel…… im sure once there settled he’ll like them lol..i can start wearing cute sexy bras and not ugly padded ones im sure he’ll like them loool

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my husband was great about it all he new how depressed i have been for years……he says its my body and as long as i am happy he is!!!

but he does hate the attention i get when we are out xx

My fiancé was really supportive! After listening to me moaning for over 3 years about my boobs, he paid for them and even said to me “I love the way you look but I know how unhappy you are which is why I want to do this for you”. I was really worried about what he’d be like once I’d had them done but hes been fantastic. At the end of the day, if hed been unsupportive I wouldn’t have cared because my boobs are everything I’ve always wanted!!

Don’t let your partners get you down girls, it’s your body at the end of the day and I bet most men would get penis enlargements if they could!!! Xxxxx

My boyfriends been quite supportive ive been paying up every month for a while now hopefully get them done in feb! Im going to see my surgeon again on wed and my bf is also seeing my surgeon after me to see about getting his ears pinned back! so its all good love him lots xxxxx

‘They shouldnt be called fake boob, they should be called Better boobs’ quote from kirk off only way is essex and i love this quote!! lol just thought id share xx

Yeh I wasn’t allowed to call Mario by his name. My husband said it was too cute and familiar. Was so threatened by Mario haha but now he honestly loves my italian breasts and praises them daily ! til i say ‘Worth every penny?’he then remembers the kitchen that we cd have done blah men!!!!!

omg he won’t stop lecturing me, we could save up n get a mortgage with that to start us off. what if we’re skint n have no food u can’t cut em off n sell em. big boobs but no money they aint gona feed us! all the feeling goes from them my cousin told me his friends wife had them and she can’t feel her boobs anymore! oh please fcuk off, so insecure he’s tryna stop me doing it

Fingers crossed so far mine has been really good about it but I’m only still in the early stages of consultations! He was really against it at first saying I was crazy and there’s nothing wrong with me but as I’ve become more determined and more boob obsessed, he’s said whatever makes me happy and it’s my decision.

He hasn’t come with me to any appointments but I haven’t asked him to. Just asks me how they went afterwards. When I asked him if he had any questions he wanted me to ask my PC, the first one was ‘how long before boyfriends can fondle them’ haha, think I’ll give that one a miss! xx

Haha imagine if u asked that!!

My bfs getin worse about it “well I don’t want hassle from men pestering u,I don’t want u goin big,don’t u think it shud b a joint decision what size u go I don’t want shit frm my mates? Wot about wen we wana put a deposit on a flat” Wtf iv only been with him 5monthes he’s actin like we married

It’s your body babe, it should be your decision not a joint one. You’re not married and haven’t been together ages so do what’s right for u. I bet anything he’ll be all over them post op lol n he should see it as a bonus that you’ll be confident enough to whip them out for him! Xx

My fiancé was the one who finally talked me round to it ! I had thought about it for a long time, but after several conversations with him we both agreed it was the best thing, having him encouraging me helps alot, he will be there at every appointment and he is paying for half!! He is currently deciding which one he will own lol

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