ok so recently ive become obssesed with self image always wanting to look nice for me and my bf anyone else like this or am i just weird lol ive become obssesed with my house too always has to be perfect x
Woah Mrs!!
You should want to look perfect for you and to make you feel better, not for anyone else or you b/f. He should be happy with you just the way you are. Afterall, he wouldn’t have started going out with you if he didn’t like you?
Try not to look too much into it. Give yourself a little confidence boost and reassure yourself your perfect just the way you are. Getting a BA is only an enhancement to the beauty that’s already there.
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My bf hasn’t had a say in the matter…If he doesn’t like the fact i’v had my boobs done then he knows where the door is x
Haha jo I like it, im exactly the same my boobs are for me to make me happy no one else. Xx
pahaa xxjoxx thats the way na my bf says im perfect atm and hes excited about my boobies and hes supportive no matter what ive just all of a sudden become this way its weird he says im just being silly and im naturally gorgeous anyway even without makeup x
HAHA! He knows where the door is. You go girl!!
lol nikki exactly, i did it for me and me alone and to hell with what anyone else thinks!
Buttons you sound like you’ve got a good one there hun – i mean don’t get me wrong, my bf has been supportive but i was doing this with or without his support xx
im having my boobies done for me too and i said to my bf when i told him before he said anything was like dont like it theres the door he was like babe im here for you no matter what your gorgeous with fake boobies or not anyway i felt so bad lol x
Lol I completely agree, I had my ba for myself wanted it for years and saved for it all by my self. My bf wasn’t happy about it at first but after a few years of me going on about it he understood and said he wanted me to do it if it made me happy
lol until now he always said he was a bum guy but I think my new friends have opened his eyes ha! Xxx
yeh thats true ye he is lovely
i am a lucky girl his reaction was lovely compared to my ex x
haha my bfs a bum guy too
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Come on tho girls we aint completely had our boobs done for our eyes only! we didnt want to get our old ones out 4 our boyfriends! now our new ones are gettin thrushed in there faces lol xx
haha love it x
There are always bein flashed now lol! My neighbours family and friends have all felt them
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have they get em out haha x
haha yeah true hush! its nice to have something to show finally! lol when my bf saw them properly for the 1st time when I had my dressings off he said he got a bit excited ha!
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cant wait for mine
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I bet he got excited lol! xx yeah,They start askin to have a look then there like can i touch them lol xx
Funny you should mention showing them the door because I am on the brink of doing just that. I could swear my boyfriend is gay given how little interest he has in my boobs since I’ve had them done. I think he might have touched them once since my op 3 weeks ago. He’s more interested in football and the playstation. x
Lmao lisa! Blimey ask him if hes battin for the othere team xx
I know I was putting oil on them last night and he was trying to touch my nipples but I told him off cos the really sensitive ha!
He might just be a bit nervous of them at the moment lisa, I’m sure he’ll soon get used to them and love them 
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He tweaks his playstation controller more than he’s ever tweaked anything of mine. x
Jj what did u expect oilin up ur breasts in front of a man lmao! xx
Haha! omg lisa,get Rid! find a man with a sex drive! have u noticed when u get ur new boobs u want more action? its the new confidents they bring x
Problem is Hush that neither of us have any sex drive. I never have had and I thought the boobs might help a bit with that little problem but haven’t. x
Horny goat weed
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haha
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I’m definately going to take a look at that. I’ve complained about low sex drive to docs for years. x
i’v never tried it myself but one of my mates has and she said it was good!! Its a chinese remedy and completely herbal x
To be honest I’m not feeling up for “it” at the moment, still quite sore as only a week post op lol, I’m trading back massages for bj’s with my bf ha!
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Aww Lisa give it time once they settled and he’s nor scared of hurting you or maybe play a game touch and feel just to see if you have and numbness anywhere on them lol may give him some confidence touching them.
I think he is a bit scared. I’ll have to do my bit to encourage him a bit more. Can’t blame it all on him I suppose, as much as I like to. Lol. x
Boyfriend will definately be surplus to requirements then. Although he has just fitted a new toilet flush and I don’t think I could have done that myself. x
I think when u enjoy the sex with somebody u want MORE it lifts the sex drive! xx
Oh I enjoy it when it happens. But actually making the effort to do doesn’t come easily to me. x
Think I’ll just smack him around the head with it, drop it to the floor and stamp on it instead. He’s 39, he needs to bloody well grow up. If he wants to shoot people all day he should have joined the army. x
Omg don’t complain keeps him from being under yOur feet all day and you at least you know where he is hehe. I’d recommends you get a silver bullet or buzzer see lovehoney.com you can use it together, can guarantee you’ll both be wanting it more often
Right then, that’s it. I’m going to drag him to Anne Summers very soon for a bit of a shopping spree. x
Girls, just thought I’d report back that I’ve had a chat with my boyfriend and told him we are going to Ann Summers this weekend. I told him to get on the website and see what he likes the look of because I know he’ll get embarrassed looking at things in the shop so thought looking on the website will ease him in a bit. And so we’ve both spotted things we like the look of so we’re both quite excited for the weekend! Oh and Jo, I’ve ordered the Horny Goats Weed! x
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