Photos and friend requests

Hey girls I don’t want to sound like a meanie but if you are approaching me for a friend request just to have a look at my photos please msg me first. There was no real interest in me before I had them done now I’ve had over twenty odd requests in two days!

I don’t mind sharing my photos but would be nice to have a “hi how are you” before I bear my boobs!!! It’s taken a lot for me to post my photos as I’m not the most confident of people and was so unhappy with the way I looked but I do think it’s good for people to have an idea of whats what.

As I said I don’t mind sharing but would appreciate a msg first – but don’t be put off asking – I’m not that much of a meanie.

Thanks girls and hope you can understand

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Hey Nancy yeah I think that’s typical to be honest about this forum. What makes me nervous is that there could be men posing as women on here just so that they get to look at lots of boobies.. lol. I’m sure there aren’t but that thought always goes through my head! x Was it you that had the 260s/300s? xx

Yeah I don’t add people unless I’ve spoken to them first. I am still pre op and get so many random requests too.x

That was riggers, she looks fab. I had the 435cc lmp on Tuesday. As I said i don’t mind sharing but it’s nice to have a thanks or to be asked first.

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Yea I know how you feel girl xxxxxx Thats why I messeged you on your wall post first! lolz xx

Yeah yeah totally agree.. ah yes I know Riggers had the 260s but for some reason I thought you’d had the smaller ones too! Anyway, hope you’re healing nicely xx

Im the same nancyg.. I have about 15 people waiting but until they message me I wont accept… never had so many requests… Just courtesy isnt it! xx

Oh I never even thought about men posing as women to get a look at pictures! So sick but so true and obvious, should of thought of that. I dont think you’re being mean at all anna! Im still thinking weather I will put my photos up when I get mine done, especially nervous about putting up the before pics Hope you’re healing well xxx

My hubby was worried about all these people with no pics are they some greasy man watching over our boobies xx l had loads of req’s too x boob facination on here lol

Since adding photos i have had a bout 100 requests. Im glad to help people, Its nice to get a hi and thanks, but im not overly bothered. So many people helped me b4 my op, Im just happy to repay the favour.

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to be honest, I dont really see what the problem is? I mean..this is a forum (mostly BA’s), and people are obviously gonna wanna see pics to get an idea of what they wanna achieve.

I totally agree that it could be anyone wanting a look! But maybe dont put your face in any pics if it bothers u that much!! There’s been sooo many posts like this lately- it gets abit boring!

No offence!

No offence taken… but just think that it’s all personal. As I said I don’t mind sharing but it is nice to be asked.

I’m quite happy to help and think it’s a good thing that we are able to share our experiences but still doesn’t mean that some courtesy can’t be shared too!

This kinda thing is being posted quite a lot because people are feeling quite strongly about it, it’s what the forum is for too.

Although you can’t see my face it doesn’t mean to say I’m not still conscious about myself. It would only take someone in my local area to find out that I’ve had them done and the whole village would be on for a look.

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Haha. Just been having the same conversation and rant on my post. Right there with ya hunni! xxx

Dont get me wrong.. i agree with what u r saying!!

But as i said, it’s been posted a few times on here now- and it seems that as soon as someone gets their BA, a message like this comes up!!

Most girls have said before how they easily forget or theres so many to msg- it can take forever!!

Doesn’t mean everybody is discourteous!

I dont have a problem with what ur saying anyway, just wanted to say that it may not always be intentional rudeness!!

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Lol pinkbutterfly. Just posted this exact thing on the other post exacly the same time you did you here. 😆 x

I dont mind,if i hear from people or Not and i dont expect a thank you! I do Get abit uncomfortable When its a name i havent seen on here before tho xx

I tend to only accept ppl that hav a photo on there profile or I’ve previously spoken to them. Xx

Melissa I always think that about pictures but I can’t put pictures on off my iPhone n we’ve not got a laptop at the min! I wanted to put my before pics up even though I’ve not booked yet just to get some advice off you all but I’m on Facebook so I am a real girl lol X

I still accep ppl if I’ve spoke to them butbthey don’t have photo chick. Just wary of no photo and never spoke to them b4 xx

I think if you are 100% happy with your boobs after your op (which thankfully most girls are) then you have less reservations about who sees your pics! Me personally I hated my boobs for quite a few weeks and also had a lot of scars/cuts due to having an uplift so after I put pics on I only accepted people I had spoken to on here and who knew what I was going through and how I felt about my boobs! Anyway it’s each to their own at the end of the day! They are your pics and you are entitled to show them to who you choose x

Well said all! Pinkbutterfly, couldn’t agree more. It is somtimes difficult to reply, I’m always flittering back and forth (cant it on my arse for 5!) and somtimes when I come back on I loose where I’ve been and I dont find this forum very easy to follow! Nancyg if I have friend requested I would send a message first. It’s a very personal thing that a lot of you have already had done and some of us are about to embark upon. At the end of the day we wouldn’t be having the procedure if we were happy with the way we looked. I hate my boobs at the mo and cant wait to get my new boobies out when all is done and show them off! Like a lot of girls on the forum though I dont think I’ll be brave enough to show my face. If it wasn’t for you girls I think the decision would be even more difficult. So well done all and keep getting your boobie out!!! XXX

Never thought that men could be pretending to be women on here to get a peek at pictures, think I’ll be careful who I accept now

i think this def an individual thing, sum care sum dont, i personally dont mind at all i dont want thanx coz i think their just boobs, i just see them as photos, ive seen more boobs in nuts mag and on the beach than on this sight, but i think we should all just respect other peoples preferences and opinions coz as an individual we all feel diffrent about this topic xx

lol like that guy that was pretending to be admin. creep.x

this reaaly annoys me too! i no some people dnt agree n think we r being petty, but at the end of the day it is a forum for people to share experiences and ask for advice, nt jst to c pics, so i think if u wnt to see someones, send a lil message explaining if uv had ur ba or looking into consultation with a certain surgeon n curious about size of wotever..then we can help n give more advice. bt thers so many people just add u without having a picture aswel and it could be any pervy old man! so at least if u get a message u can communicate and no that the person is genuine. sorry but i wouldnt dream of sending a request if i hadnt spoken to the person on the forum or messaged them. infact i been on here for over 6months nw n think i only sent my first of second friend request last wk, with a message. i have bout 200 friends n they av all added me! …mostly wen my pics went up!! xx

im only rude because i cant work this thing out!!! im really strugglin here!! i dont do computers!!! i write my messages then i dont know what happens!!!! im trying!

You’re not being rude hun – i was the same!!! Didn’t think this post was cause that much of a stir!!!

I’ve gotta be careful coz I don’t want the blokes in my local pubs to find out – they’re a sneaky lot and would probably find out where I got em done and try to find out what they look like and flash my piccies round the pub on a saturday night!!!!!

I only told my family and my bezzie mate, but my mate told another friend of mine and ahe has one hell of a gate, won’t be long till they all know ha ha!!

As I said would just like to be asked so I can at least keep my piccies a lil’ private!! xxx

This forum is great and it has really helped me to decide to have them done. Really appreciate all the help and support you girlies gave me and seeing others ba piccies gave me the nuts to have them done and to get an idea of what to expect. Didn’t mean to sound like a meanie – was never meant that way!

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