Hi Girls would you be able to send me some before and after pics as there are quite a few bad things being said on here at the moment i want to book my BA and needs something positive to help me on my way. lublu74@googlemail.com. Worry i will have them done and hate how they look like some of the girls comments on here. x x x
Hi Lublu I had my BA just over a year ago and i used to look at the forum and think the same thing, but then like my friend told me everyone has different opinions, i was really nervous and now i have had them done i realise that my friend was right! Its the best thing i have ever done and i would recommend it to anyone.
Im sorry but i dont have any pictures i stupidly deleted them off my old phone 
Have you spoke to your pc about this yet because if your worried you can always go and see ur surgeon again, thats what i did and it helped me 
Hope this helps hun 
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Hi loopylou, I went to see Dr C and then asked if i could see another sergeon and went to see Dr F, Dr F made me worry i said i wanted to look as natural as possilbe and he said at the end of the day they are fake boobs and they are going to look fake!! this is not what i wanted to hear. Also my husband was really looking forward to me having them done and i felt really pressured like i had to have them done or her would fancy me witht my own boobs. Its made me feel really down. While i was saying i was getting them done he was being really nice to me, now i have said that my not and to stop discussing it with me he has been really distant and off with me. i need to make the choice myself as I feel it is almost blackmail without him even knowing. i feel worse about myself now than i did before. Sorry to go on ha did you have anything like this? x
OMG Lublu!!I really feel for you.Just because someone else wants you to have them done does not mean you should,the only person who can decide this is you.At the end of the day you’re talking about having Breast Surgery which is a big deal.Your Husband married you with the body you’ve got so I think you should remind him of this & tell him how you’re feeling then he might be a bit more understanding.
I’m having an uplift & ba next Tuesday & although my chap is keen for me to have it,ultimately it’s my decision to have it.I really hate the way mine look after Breast Feeding two kids & losing weight & won’t let my fella near me or see them.I’ve also wanted it for 3 years so I’m not entering into it lightly.
It doesn’t sound like you’re ready for surgery to me but I would like to say that if you should try talking to a different Surgeons until you find one you’re comfortable with.
Take care
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p.s I do think it is possible for them to look natural if you get implants to suit your frame
Hi Squeezylou, thank you for replying i was beginning to think no one on here wants to talk to me ha, i just sound like i am moaning but im not honestly i am a really happy person generally. i have been asking for before and after pics on here so that i can see how natural they look at different stages but i must have asked about 20 and only two people have sent them i am starting to sound a bit like a perv lol! i have wanted this done for 10 years myself but maybe for the attention off my husband thing and not totally for me. have you noticed we are all Lou’s ha x
Hi lublu I had my ba done by mr chantarasak 3 weeks ago I asked that I wanted a really natural look and they do he did a good job they look so natural with him xx
Don’t worry Lublu you don’t sound like a perv & you don’t sound like you’re moaning either more that you’re concerned & quite rightly so!Although you’ve been thinking about it for years it still doesn’t sound like it’s what you really want after all you did say you always thought they were okay.If I were you I’d sit down & have a good heart to heart with your fella & find out what he really thinks.You can find lots of before & after pics on the net & I’ll send you mine if you like when I’ve had them done although I’m having an uplift aswell so will have considerably more scarring!If you just have a BA I think the scarring is pretty minnimal.
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Seren10 thank you that has helped, i am not stupid i know that if you have implants popped in there they are going to look a little fake, just i have been on here and read all the woman that are so happy then them and all of a suddent there seams to be loads of girls saying they are disappointed with them. what size did you go from and too? have you showing before and after photos?
Thanks Squeezylou you have helped loads. I have sat down with him and spoke to him and he said its my decision and he likes me as i am but his is not going to lie he would love for me to have them done and if i am trueful to myself so would i. i not really scared about the op and i am sure i could cope with the after pains as i just i would have to lol. its ending up with something i hate and have to live with.
Girls you have been great thank you for your support i feel so much better x
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