PLEASE HELP!! Am i ready for this?

Iv considered having my boobs done for about 3 years now, ive had my first consultation with Helena, and decided i wanted 350cc (im 34a at the moment) I was so excited when i left the clinic, but since then ive been having 2nd thoughts. I want them to look really natural and was worried that 350cc would look too big (im 5″4 and slim) so ive arranged to see another surgeon for 2nd opinion.

But i am TERRIFIED at the thought of losing my little boobs, i know i want bigger boobs as i’m sick of having to buy gel bras, and as soon as i take the bra off its all gone! but im worried that they’ll never feel like my own and that ill regret it!! Does this mean im not ready to go ahead with the surgery. Iv had other ops before so im not scared about the op itself, i just cant seem to find anyone else on the forum thats having the same worries as me (( Please help! xxx

Meeeeeeee…. Im all booked for the 23rd march. Im having 380 unders. Im a 32 back with no cup at all. Im 5ft 7 tall and size 8-10. Im 22. I keep thinking bout if its right and what the heelllll am i doing!! However im more.than sure i want this as i hate looking like a boy!! I even have dreams about waking up in surgery or even bottling it when im in the hosp!!I have a good body but my boobs never grew!!! Lol. I think 350 will be a fab size for u!! I think this is all completely….normal

Let me know how u get on xxx

P.s 2 of my friends and my sis in law have boob jobs. One under the muscle and two over the muscle. They all feel and look very natural xx

awww hun….i think you think you should wait and that why you asking…but i havent spoke to one person who has regreted there BA this forum realy helps about any worries girls are realy helpful just go with your gut feeling xxx

Thanks im sooooo glad im not the only one!! Thing is my boobs arent that bad at , theyre perky and a small handfull… but thats the key word.. SMALL! I suppose its just cos once they put that needle in my hand theres no turning back and its an awful feeling. Its weird it comes in waves, one minute i cant contain my excitement, the next i cant bear to think about it! xx

Thanks donnamay, i know iv looked through this forum for hours and cant find a single person that has regretted the op, i think after meeting with the surgeon its just kinda hit me how REAL this is!! Its not just a dream anymore! Ive paid my deposit, now its just a case of picking a size! xx

im booked for 8th feb…it so not sunk in yet!! sooooo scared!!!! lol xxx 😯

Im sure you will be fine hun, from what iv seen all the surgeons are great here. Please let me know how you get on! What are you going from/to? xx

Im like that i have up and down days and the same bout the needle.lol. When u booking for?? Be my boob buddy xxx

hay im 32 a/b and want around dd natrual look! no cule what size ive picked tho going back to see my surgen on 19th jan xx

I dont know yet im hoping sometime very soon like in the next 2months. I wanted to be all healed up and settled for the summertime so i can buy a new bikini!! :)when are you thinking? what size are you going from/to? xx

Cool let me know how it goes xx

Im booked on the 23rd march. Im going from completely flat to hopefully a c/d with 380 unders. Id be really happy with a c. Cannot wait to get new bikinis for my hols in sep!! Hopefully theyll be nice and settled by then. I wrote a list of why and why nots. My whys totally out weighed the why nots xxxx

katie i feel the same as you some days im full of excitment and some days im questioning myself. i honestly think this is normal as it is a big decision. i think its good that ur askin alot of questions ur researching and thinking about is it right for you.

i was having high and low days about what to do but its a natural reaction to have i just didnt want to say anything cuz i thought peole would think i were silly but wanted to respond to u so u know im in the same boat.

but i no its what i want i have wanted it for 7 years im now 26 and im sick of wearing my chicken fillets and having to buy speacial bras and bikinis with double gels. ive had a baby and my boobie are still small round and perky they have not changed.

so ive booked to see mr traynor on jan 18th hopefully to have it done on 23rd if he or another surgeon can. if i do have any probs with my boobs when i get them done then i can honestly say i done all my research and i did it for the right reasons- but that is a small possibilty. But there is a high possibility that i will have boobs boobs which suit my frame. i think what will help me is feeling comfortable with my surgeon as i wont book it untill i feel comfortable and confident with my surgeon.

i hope this helps you. x x but your not alone im on a high now maybe ill unsure on monday x x

Good idea! i reckon ill be gettin them done at about the same time then if i decide to go ahead i just never thought in a million years it would be sooooooo scary lol xx

Thank you nessy :)Im on a high too at the moment, but as soon as i go upto bed and catch a glimpse in the mirror ill start to tell my self ‘i dont look too bad as i am now… what am i thinking!’ but i know deep down that ill never be happy with my chest. Im 20 now and mum keeps telling me iv got time to grow, thing is my mums still an A cup and my dads size dont have big chests either, so i know im always going to be small. Iv got a feeling theyre going to have to pin me down before they put me to sleep hehe xx

im sure u will be ok. if u want u can just think about it more maybe write down all the questions u have and answer them. i think they will be pinning me down too. what is helena like x

Me neither katie hun. Woop book for same day as me we can both cry together haha. Mr traynor has v good rep and v neat scars.xxx

Ah Im so glad someone said this!! I am also pre- op and keep getting nervous when i think about it! I have booked my first consultation and surgeon consultation together so that I can book it and leave a deposit on the day- I know if I dont Ill prob just change my mind again! Im a 34 b/c and to be honest, mine are’nt that bad either. my fiance is really not impressed and doesnt want me to do it so Im also under pressure from him not to to it. Ive been unhappy with them for years as they get to a C when I put weight on and become a size 12, but then if I lose weight and go to a 10 again, I lose my bust and go to a B- but not firm and look horrid if im not cold- I dont mind them when my nipples are hard( sorry for the graphics girls!) but Im sure you know what I mean?

Im also worrying coz I am flying to america end of april and want them to be done very soon so that they heal in time for my holiday. I know that flying with them will be fine but I just want to make sure they are fully healed and to allow time incase of any problems. I want to have a very natural look and go up to a dd/e maximum. So I also worry that I’ll end up with stuck on footballs! Im going with mr adamo and ive heard some really good stuff about him and he is renowned for the natural look so fingers crossed! Thats if I dont freak out beforehand!

I havent seen anyone say they regret doing it and Ive read a lot about girls saying that in the hospital they have cried with nerves and panicked so it is more than normal. And remember, people are mostly quick to complain on sites like this and all we are reding about is success stories so I think we will be fine…

Good luck girls and wish me luck! EEK! xx

Nessy, Helena is really nice, shes very firm and straight to the point but she made me feel really comfortable, i just dont want to put all my money on her, i want to meet with a few different surgeons before i make a decision. My next meeting is with Mr Aurakzai, but iv heard so much about Mr Traynor and that he’s really natural so i think ill meet with him too them make a decision from the three. I dont really know if i could be any more informed, ive asked everything i can possibly think of, now its just a case of gettin my heart on the same page as my brain if that makes sense!!

Bchj i think that sounds like a great idea haha ) where are you getting yours done? xx

Linzi i agree with you about there been hardly any comlaints on here, i expected to find at least one horror story!! And the ‘stuck-on-footballs’.. tell me about it!! iv been looking at loads of before and after pics on the internet and to be honest i struggle to find ones that i like as they all far too un-natural. And im the same, when my boobs are warm i hate them, and my boyfriend isnt too happy either but i think he’s just got the same worries as me that i might hate them more after than i do now! It sounds really cheesy but its like you read my mind!! Hahaha good luck with your consultation hun xxx

Im from newcastle.but getting mine done in manchester. Keeeeep in touch chick xxx

Im going to manchester too:) will do hun xx

Yeeeeeyyy xxx i need someone who understands what im going through all my bf says is. . And i quote”my broken ankle was a worse opperation” bla bla bla xxx

I also worry that too- that I wont like them afterwards or they wont be big enough or they will be too big! ha ha! I have read soooooo much amazing stuff about Mr Traynor- so much that I really wanted to book him without even a consultation- well not quite but you know what I mean! He is renowned for the natural look and Ive seen his before and after pics on jamielynn- she’s on my friend list. her’s look amazing and just how I want mine- however, I live too far South to travel to him so I’ll be going to London and seeing Mr adamo who is my 2nd choice. I havent heard much about the other surgeons hun and i know that Mr traynor is always fully booked so I’d get in there quick if I was you- you’re lucky you have him as a choice!! Good luck with it all and let me know how you get on!! xx

Hey ladies

I had doubts about whether I was doing the right thing or not right up to the point of them putting me to sleep.

The thing is, I knew deep down I wanted it… I was just worried I’d regret it. But then I reminded myself why I wanted it done:

To feel sexy

To have curves

To feel less boyish

To wear nice tops and dresses

And when I thought of all those reasons I knew how much I wanted it.

We are only human and of course we are going to fret about it… But I can honestly say that I have NO regret at all!

I am only 2 weeks post op but have some gorgeous boobies now that look natural on me.

I wouldn’t turn back the clock at all.

It’s a big decision to make that shouldn’t be taken lightly… But u will know when you ARE ready to make the commitment babe.

All the best xxxx

Ahhh can u not get to manchester? I know jamielynns are amazing!!! Amado done rachieboos have u seen hers hers are.fab too x

I know me too hun xx Tell him he didnt have a choice to have his ankle operated on, your having your op because you choose to, its a massive deal and loads of pressure!! Its so hard going through it all from start to finish and being sure that you’ve made the right decision with the company and the surgoen, it will definately be one of the scaryest things i will ever have to to my body (except childbirth!, im so glad that this forum is available, its made me feel so much more comfortable that theres real people that you can talk to on here going through exactly the same thing xx

Thanks for all your help guys i really didnt expect such a quick response to my post but its great and ill let you knwo how i get on.

Cherrycheeks i want mine for all same reason, just to feel sexy and confident with my clothes off. I know im going to go ahead with it at some point i just wish this worry would go away and let me get on with it lol!!

I dont know if i should do more research into other companys? They always say you should but im really happy with MYA so far, what do you think? xx

Hey babe

I did lots of research. I really liked MYA but continued my search. I saw other companies but went back to MYA.

The surgeon is obviously the most important factor.. Along with aftercare.

Take a peak at my pictures if u haven’t already babe. Just accepted my friendship and u will be able to see them.

Xxx

Ive sent the request hun xx

Hey katie

Accepted babe – let me know what you think x

To be honest, this forum was the deciding factor for me choosing to go with MYA. First and foremost, Mya were the first company to get back to me and have been efficient all the way till now. I had been looking into mybreast too but the girl who called seemed frustrated with all my questions and didnt seem to want to help. they also charge £25 for consultation- which comes off surgery. I also looked at the hospital group too and also have a consultation booked with them at the end of the month- but to be honest after speaking to MYA so much, and speaking to so many happy girls on here- I think MYA are the one. Also I am seeing the surgeon next week and if he feels right then I’ll just book and pay deposit.

I have looked at lots of girls before and after pics on here and I have to say, they all look amazing. Jamielynne for me has the exact boobs that I want to end up with- she went with mr traynor. Rachieboo’s also look great but its not the look that I want for myself… It hard to tell as her pics are with a bikini- but they are amazing if that’s the look you want. She went with my surgeon- if all goes well! But he is renowned for natural but also any look that the individual wants.

Gosh its so exciting- I just keep thinking about the end result- amazing boobies!! xx

Cherrycheeks- who did yours? Im sorry if you’ve already told me! Just looked at yours again and they look awesome! Gosh I feel like a perv!! Ha ha!! My fiance thinks im turning gay looking at all these boobs!! lol!!I keep forgetting who’s Ive already seen. What size were yours beforehand and what are you now? xx

I phoned mybreast aswell a while ago and they just didnt seem that interested im helping me so i didnt bother with them. Iv been thinking about the hospital group and bupa but i just dont want to waste any time LOL! Rachieboo’s are great but theyre a little too big for what i want, im trying to find someone with pics of about 350cc starting with Acup. Any ideas?

Cherrycheeks yours look amazing!! Theyre so natural! What size were you before and what size implant did you get? Oh and who did them? If mine turn out looking as natural as that ill be very happy xx

Hey Linzi

I was a 34a and am guessing i’d be a 34D/DD now.

I had Dr Singh at Highgate

Whoop Whoop xxx

Oh and ladies I had 410cc HP Overs.

I am going to add some more shortly… the scars are healing soooo well now that I have taken off the sterile strips

xxxx

Congats hun! they look awesome!! yeah add some more so we can see up to date ones!! how do they decide over or under? xx

Your surgeon will decide based on the amount of breast tissue you have.

If you dont have enough and there is a risk that the implant will be seen through your skin they put it under the muscle.

I’ll add them now… xxx

Did you not get any stretch marks? Im really worried about stretchmarks going from A to big C, the implants looked huge at the consultation, but you dont look to have any! xx

hey babe

I know !!!! I must be very lucky! No stretch marks at all!

It does depend on your skin type babe… if you are prone to getting stretch marks then yes, you might get them!

It was my worst nightmare too! xxx

Ive never really had a big problem with them, and when i have had them theyve faded pretty quickly so hopefully ill be ok xx

You should be fine then babe. New piccies added now (last three )

I keep updating them week on week as I think it is helpful to see how they heal… xxx

Wow they look fantastic hun, the scars are healing so well!! I hope you dont mind me asking but what does your boyfriend think of them? Was he very supportive before you had them done? xx

Hey sweetie

He was soooo supportive honey. He was fab.

And the first 8 days after the op he was an angel. He did everything for me. House work, cleaning, cooking, washing my hair etc. I’d have been lost without him!

He does love them… although he cant really touch them still! lol They are just for looks until they heal!

xxx

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