post opp girls, what have your boyfriends reaction been to your (.)(.)

Im quite shocked at my bf, I jokingly ask my bf to massage mine earlyiar (nurse advised me to massage them) the look of discust on his face was a picture, dont get me wrong I know they not that pretty in the begining but not sure hes overly fussed on them at the moment lol xx

Boyfriends are funny fish. I have my BA on 15 March and for past few weeks I’ve been looking online at pictures of models boobs and showing him and asking which ones he likes best. He says he feels like a right perv, whilst his friends are saying they have no sympathy for him, his girlfriend is making him look at other womens boobs every day and he’s whinging?! What a bloody shame for him.

oh no! not what you want. i know Fawn on here got a bad reaction from her BF and it really upset her.

Was your bf ok about the BA before you had it??

I kept showing him boobie pics before ba too lol. Ye he was ok me having it done, but said he didnt want me too look like i have shiny globes stuck on me, asked him did he like them earliar, he said hed pass judgement when they healed proper, but its in my favour at the moment lol xx

I kept showing him boobie pics before ba too lol. Ye he was ok me having it done, but said he didnt want me too look like i have shiny globes stuck on me, asked him did he like them earliar, he said hed pass judgement when they healed proper, but its in my favour at the moment lol xx

Your pics look fabulous, how can he not like them? They’re gonna look great once you’ve healed and they’ve settled!

i hope so the solid,up to my chin shiny look is not doing it for him at the moment xx

aww nikki! i only got with my guy a couple of weeks before i had the done (was so scared of telling him incase he ran a mile!) but he’s been super. really helped me out with everything i needed and been a great support. think he was a bit taken aback when he first saw them (”it looks like you’re smuggling water balloons!” at day 3 haha charming!). he loves them now though!

when i first told him he said ”i’m worried that you’re not going to want me after you get them done” so maybe there’s a hint or jealousy or paranoia that you’re going to dump them as soon as you get your new boobies! just had to reassure mine and he was fine after that

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well my bf suffers with the green eyed monster anyway, ive done a bit of underwear modeling and was a ring girl from the cage fighting before BA and he told me now im banned from doing it lmao, hes given me a whole set of rules lol, i really hope he gets used to them ive wanted them so long, he an awesome bf so wouldnt wanna see a stupid thing like boobies coming between us xx

They soon start to look fab and then you won’t be able to keep him away.

Just concentrate on healing and show him when they settle a bit x

My other half is reacting in a strange way! I think its prob because I have talked non-stop about boobs, I literally non-stop about them for 4months!

op on the 5th April, and now he keeps dropping in little comments like ” I hope you dont change once you have them don” he’s super confident, however I think in any man there will be a slight anxiety that their other half is going to become some sort of vixen with new boobies! showing them off and attracting extra attention, its just a case of reassuring them the boobs are for no one else but you and him, and also trying to not chat on and on about them like I have!! its like a man getting a ferrari and going on an on and on about it, I’d start to think – why do you want it, who are you showing off too! bless our men! I’m sure once we all get the new boobs they’ll love them….unless I do turn in to a different person argghhhhh!!! ;o)

OMG girls this is the thing which is freaking me out! I no for 1st month they will look pretty rubbish as they need to settle, but if i show me bf me boobs before they settle I dont want him thinking ‘jesus what the hell’ lol. I rather show people once they have settled down ect. So im thinking I might no show anyone until 6 weeks is up, keep em hidde away under bandages and sports bras until they look good lol xxx

i wish i knew what they were gonna look like in 6 weeks, i dont particularly like looking at them at the moment, def not the prettiest of things in the world lol, just really hope the grow on him, i dont get these men they love looking through nut and zoo etc what they think half these girls got, most of them r fake and they dont mind perving at them lol xx

sounds to me like he is jelous hunni! ignore him,hes just scared ur gunna run away with another guy haha. Funny how our bfs automatically dont trust us the minute our boobs get bigger! strange. My bf absolutly loves mine so i suppose im quite lucky but dont worry nikki ur boobies r goegeous and so are you. dont listen 2 ur bf like i said i think its jelously and paranoia xxxx

thanx sandy fingers crossed 6 weeks down the line his opinion will change,especially when im in a nice sexy lace bra and matching knickers lol xx

exactly, im pretty sure it will. and to b honest hun i bet ya he loves them already! he just dont wanna keep sayin it incase u get a big head! Im such a NEEDY gf tho my bf has to tell me all the time how nice i look or i get para! haha so i suppose im like the female version of ur bf cuz i dont compliment my bf as much as i should incase he gets a big head lolololololol xxxx how selfish of me

my bf dont need complimenting hes vain enough as it is lol, hes really confident something i never was i wouldnt even change in front of him pre opp id happyly walk round in my undies (chicken fillets in my bra haha) but the thought of him seeing my ugly flat chest was def a no no, even though he was totally happy with my lack of boobs lol, i justwish theyd hurry up now and drop and soften coz i think they’re ugly too lol, how do you feel about yours looking they way they do now??i dont really like looking at them xx

my bf dont need complimenting hes vain enough as it is lol, hes really confident something i never was i wouldnt even change in front of him pre opp id happyly walk round in my undies (chicken fillets in my bra haha) but the thought of him seeing my ugly flat chest was def a no no, even though he was totally happy with my lack of boobs lol, i justwish theyd hurry up now and drop and soften coz i think they’re ugly too lol, how do you feel about yours looking they way they do now??i dont really like looking at them xx

I think there is something in this because my boyf has been going on the sunbed and doing situps since I booked my op lol Maybe it does make them feel a little insecure about their own bods? Your pics look fab and like you say once you got the nice undies on he won’t be able to resist. Loving your tattoos also! x

thank you nic, glad my bf aint the only one, he seems to be a bit better today when i showed him they had sofened a bit xx

my boyfriends been so supportive, its a shame not every1s had the same reaction though i remember when i talked about it to my ex he was adamant he’d finish with me if i got them done, he turned out to be abit of an a-hole any tbh

my boyfs not one to sit down and talk to me in detail about it and look at boobies but he just wants me to do what makes me happy, and i know hes there for me. im sure i can blag him into being my slave for a week after it aswell hehe :p

booked my op today for 19th april ;DDDDDDD xx

Helloo…I’ve been away for a bit haven’t been on here for a while, but saw this post nikki and I have some advice as I have been through exactly the same thing.

Jealous boyfriends do not react well to boob jobs FACT. However, I posted on here how badly Tom reacted and all the girls that were in on the conversation will agree he was pretty apoorling. HOWEVER!!! Now he LOVES them. He grabs them and moves them and goes does that hurt? No? ACE! haha, he’s like a different person. All happy and smiles again and we giggle non stop…and well the bedroom is FANTASTIC. Mine look sooooooo much better than they did before, and healing wise they are starting to look natural and I can push them together which equals an impressive cleavage…(even if I do say so myself, but it would be impressive, I’ve never had one before!) My advice is to reassure him…but stay covered up, the healing process is scary for them. Once you feel more confident with them he will to!! Trust me. I have had a job that I was banned from doing too, so they sound pretty similar. It’s hilarious good luck, and he will come round!! x x x

awww i’m glad he came round fawn! congrats on the cleavage xx

i remember reading bout your bf fawn is great to hear hes come to his senses, i remember you saying yours were to big too, did u get used to them coz i kinda hate mine at the moment too, hope my bf will love them when they drop xx

I think it’s deffo an insecurity, I haven’t had mine done yet but it’s been a rollacoaster ride already! One minute he’s all excited with me n helping me chose sizes and surgeons. The next he’s sayying he really didn’t want me to get them done n theyl look horrible

He’s admitted that he’s scared I’ll get overly confident tho n leave him which is pretty ridiculous, I have to constantly reassure him I’d just like to actualy have some boobies… Dosnt mean I’m going to be a F cup n feel the need to get then out on every oppertunity aha men ay xx

Hi nikki198324 please dont worry !! i have had mine done twice before and having a 3rd ba on friday ! my first time i was told they would look like german helmets for the first few weeks then will start to look a little bit more normal ! but you just wait he wont want to leave them alone once they have healed and settled down !!please dont worry xx

thanx girls, i feel like i been on a emotional rollarcoaster this past 2 weeks, i just cant wait till they look like real boobs, my bf is warming to them already so fingers crossed he’ll love them once the’ve dropped and ill love them too. xxx

Hey hun, I’m sooo used to mine now that I asked Tom yesterday if they look small and he looked at me like I’d shot the dog. I think you do get used to them and now I can’t wait to be able to buy a push up bra haha! Your bf will be fine, Tom can’t leave them alone now. Good luck sweety. Just a waiting game. 18 days and I’m setting my alarm for 8 oclock and hitting La Senza at 9 haha woooop! x x x

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