i am due to have my first conslultation in a few days the sorts of things i will be asking is things like recovery time, size,how many ops he has performed, how many years experiance he has had (although i think they are all great at mya)
also just things to put your mind at ease what to expect before and after so nothing takes u by suprise.
i hope everything goes good for u i know exactly how u feel i made a list of questions to ask my surgeon (mr singh)
also things you might might not know such as under or over, and what size you would like to be after your op ( the implants look smaller when they have been placed)
good luck 
karleyx