RANDOM REQUEST & FAKE PROFILES………..!!!!!!!!!

GIRL’s I wont accept any friend request from people that i believe are not real, i have recieved a few request now from people that havent made any posts, not spoke in the forums or havent sent me a message.

Iam getting a bit worried about adding photos tomorrow after my BA as it is very easy for anyone to make a fake profile on here and you dont actually know who is looking at the pictures.

It is soooooo easy for men to make a profile on here.

Girls beware and bare in mind that anyone can make a profile on here and look or take copies of your personal photos.

Girls if you want to add me on facebook so i know you are real feel free –

best way to find me is by my email address – sarahgolden@hotmail.co.uk

PLEASE MESSAGE ME FIRST SO I KNOW YOUR NOT A RANDOM ADD xxxx

Im happy to show my pictures and help girls out but like i have already said im worried about who can see my pictures on here.

I also think if you are unsure about displaying your private pictures,you can upload them, set them to private that way no one sees them unless you open them on request,not even friends.xx

I see what you mean hun, but rather than that hassel i would rather not add any at all. as you really dont know who you are talking to on here xxx

Hold on Golden16 I have just had a request from you and never spoke to you on the forum or had a message!!!!!!!! So rejected you!

I have spoke to you 2CUKS………!!!! in the forum, no need for the attitude either.

However if u read my profile it does say message me first!

Attitude? PMSL

dont think displayin your email address is a good idea facebook is full of fakes

This subject has been raised so many times,and to be honest not many people will listen,the amount of times we have seen similar post,2 cuks actually had it on her profile please message me before you add,it just polite,she added new pics and was totally flooded with requests.Requests from people she did not know,then people become upset and offended when they are rejected,personal pics are personal pics,so a short message I think is appropriate.We are all here to help each other,and every single member that logs in here needs support,I don’t care who sees my pics,at my age Im happy someone wants a peek,but to other members it has taken a lot of courage to show their pictures so please just be aware of this.A little respect goes a long way.

If they are any fake profiles that want to see my pics,knock yourself out.xxx

2cuks just actually checked and i made a post in the forum titled…..

2 more sleeps until MR traynor does his magic soooo excited.

YOU commented, i then wrote this back…..

golden16

HA HA HA 2cuks, sent you a friend request hun, hope you dont mind xxx

Posted 20 hours ago #

so please get your facts right before you write comments like above…..!!! this was not a personal post about you i was saying what i thought and wanted to warn girls on here that have personal pictures, that it is very easy to make a profile.

I wasnt being nasty and it wasnt aimed at you. i have not sent anyone a message or a friend request without speaking to them in the forum or by private message, so please dont say i have.

Tina2011 totally agree the subject has always been raised. Totally agree with your comments above.

Wasnt havin a go at u golden merely making a point.

haha that was funny Tina i agree though takes a lot of courage and its really helpful of other girls willing to show there pics

I dont get it, have u actually had any fake profiles contact u? Ive been on here since 2010 and i never have. This thread is just going to make alot of people paranoid.

I dont get the whole msg me first thing, as long as youve spoken before i cant see a problem. It pisses me off more when i dont get a thank you. Just ignore em…simple. Each to their own though

FB isnt much safer hun

looool tina u go girl. why would u bither making fake profiles time on hands or what!!!!!!! agree thats why its called fakebook. I do have please pm first but some dont si i look to see if theyre having the same size surgeon if not i dont accept tbh we are all big enuff to reject or accept so stop going on about it and do one or the other really. When i first came on here tina accepted me straight away nearly 4 months post op i have chatted to a lot of girls on here and they have kept me sane fairy abbi gem tina lisa and loads of others thats what this foum is for isnt it xxxx 🙄

YES i said in the post that i have had fake profiles add me that havent spoken to me, havent spoke in the forum and havent made any posts on there wall.

It is a lot easyier to tell a fake profile on facebook than it is on here.

Well im sorry if the subject has always been raised i havent always been on here and i have only just joined so i wouldnt know that.

The way you wrote that 2cuks sounded as you were having ago with all the exclamation points you put on it and by what you said, when actually i had spoken to you and i had asked you if i could add you as that is polite. and you said you werent having ago, you were maikng a point but your point was wrong.

The reason i have give my email address is because im hidden on facebook so you can only find me by my email address.

You all have your views, i have mine im not going to start arguining with people on here im 30th years of age.

like i said i dont mind helping people and showing my photos but i want to know who is looking at my photos, what is so wrong about that….???

i just hit the reject!! if i haven’t spoken 2 um simples x

I did have a transvestite add me once who had, had a ba – that scared me a bit but it was a while ago now! x

You’ve been a member for a week hun, they probably have made threads but you havent been around to see it. Just reject the people you dont trust.

Also thats just how cuks writes….if anything your the one thats slightly hostile hun

Sorry golden dont recall every conversation i have on here……….

But seeing as u can read and recall conversations its a pity u cud not read my prfile status. Anyway lets ageee to disagree…. and u talk to me about attitude – reality check darling…

golden16 you were not to know that this subject has been raised many times honey,and it always seems to get heated,we are all here to help and support each other but because we are individuals we will never all agree on the same issues.

I am sure on this thread no one wants to cause offence to anyone,or make them feel excluded in any way,I have been on this forum a long time helped and supported lots of people,having a BA can be an emotional roller coaster,we all need support,everyone here has their own way of dealing with requests,but we are here for the same reason to help and support each other.I stick around because I think you are all fab,we all bring a little something special to this forum,and the main thing is we are here,always around should someone have any worries,and that all we need to do.

On another note,lol,avoid posts about friend request,nhs boob jobs,and unfaithful men and youll be fine.love you all,xxx

2cuks get that bar open we all need a drink,Im t total but ill make an exception today,lol.xxx

Ticky88 it doesnt matter how long i have been a member for im allowed to say what i think and how i feel.

I dont understand what is so wrong about my post im allowed to be concerened at who is looking at my pictures.

when have i been hostile…?? i simply replied with what i had actuially done which was to ask if it was okay to add her after a conversation in the forum.

2cuks if you dont recall every conversation you shouldnt comment saying i had done something when i hadnt.

You joined my post so i didnt look at your profile i replied to you in the post like most people do.

and you dont think that is having attitude again with your last response. no need.

and reality check – no need hun.

a simple apology to me after saying i had done something when i clearly didnt.

Golden, dont recall the conversation or may or have seen the post. If u want an apology dont hold ur breath!!!

Tina the bar is open as always…drinks all round its happy hour xx

OMG I can’t believe how this conversation has got out of hand!! I don’t see what the problem is at all and there is nothing wrong with your post golden16….just a warning to us all and it’s appreciated from me as I’m still pretty new to the forum thanks hun xxxx

Mines a double of what evers on offer,come on lovelies the bar is open.xxx

I wasnt 2cuks after seeing your attitude on here, i think the way you have been is a lot worse than my original post… wow how to make a new person welcome……….!!!!!!!!

Before you call me or say things about me get your facts right. you were inj the wrong not me.

IF YOU DONT RECALL A CONVERSATION DONT WRITE THAT I HAVENT SPOKE TO YOU WHEN I HAVE….!!!!

RUDE is an understatement end of conversation.

I didnt mean it like that golden, i simply meant that maybe people have made posts or replied to threads but because you havent been on here that long u wont of seen. Either way your fighting a losing battle, as tina has said this is brought up weekly and people still send requests.

I didnt mean it like that golden, i simply meant that maybe people have made posts or replied to threads but because you havent been on here that long u wont of seen. Either way your fighting a losing battle, as tina has said this is brought up weekly and people still send requests.

i am new to the forum too and im glad to see that someone else shares my concern @golden16 as its easy for someone to say they are someone they are not. ESPECIALLY on forums, there’s plenty of weirdos out there and a site like this is not hard to find.

This all seems to have gotten out of hand though and is beside the point of this forum, i like looking on here to see what advice and guidance is out there before and after my op, not to read bitchy comments. Lets not add to the stress of surgery itself ladies. x

Browneyedgirl – thanks hun, you know yourself who i know at MYA and it was them that said about all the fake profiles on here and all the complaints they get about it from girls.

When i mentioned i was on here they told me to becareful and said that some girls can be rude, but on a site like this i didnt think you would get girls being rude as we are all here to help each other, which i tried to do.

I wont bother next time!

See you tomorrow hun, sooooo excited new boobies time xxxx

TICKY88 – im not trying to cause a battle im just stating how i feel, and the ones that have been on here along time cant just jump on posts having ago at someone and calling them hostil because someone else brought up a subject or a post weeks or even months ago.

this forum is going to have new people coming everyday for advice and to share there experience and the way you guys jumped on this post saying it has already been said ect ect is not very fair.

It is going to happen all the time so you need to get used to it and let people say what they want to say, if you dont agree with it dont have ago at the person.

If some of you arent bothered who see’s your pictures thats your choice, iam bothered and thats my choice. but at the same time i would like to help others as it has taken me 10 years, lots of research, lots of consultations to decide that this is what i wanted to do.

so if i can help people and give them advice im willing to but i will do it my way.

I dont want a battle at all i simply stated that some people might not be fakes. Yes your right, ‘newbies’ do make the same threads as you have after a while and on every single one of them people will explain how often they get made and how some take no notice because they have no manners. Either way i was making a harmless comment and im sorry if you feel people have jumped on you

I don’t know of any man that would want to set up a fake profile to look at boobs that are not even healed yet/bandaged up!! Im sure they couldn’t get off on that and would be better off buying a porn mag!

At the end of the day….if you’re unsure who is viewing your photos DON’T UPLOAD ANY…..simple!

Ticky88 – people have jumped on me you can see that for yourself in black and white.

Like i said just because you have been on here a while doesnt mean people that havent can not say what they think or how they feel.

The inbox messages i have recieved about the comments people have made because of my post is good enough for me.

A Certain person that has made comments on this post has only made them self look bad.

TRACY2010 – ARE YOU SERIOUS….??? I know for a fact that guys have been blocked from this site and fake profiles.

I have to admit I dont want to put my photos on here as I just dont trust the Internet and from what I saw there is no way to make them private. I prefer to just come on here and read stuff and comment where I can if I think I can help someone whos been in the same situation.

Yes golden 16 I am being serious!!! Beats me why they’d wanna do it! They only have to google ‘big tits’ or something along those lines and they’d see much more than they’d see on here!!

Lmao at search big tits on google! to true.

Hi all

I’m going to delete this post as it is getting a bit out of hand. If any of you have any concerns or are worried about fake profiles/ abusive messages please do take a screen shot and we will look into this.

Many thanks

MYA Mod

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