Reactions from family and friends.. Share your BEST and WORST

Just a little bit of fun and a space to vent about narrow minded reactions!

Best:

I told a friend of mine, she was my maid of honour at my wedding. When I told her she was like “THIS IS MINT!!!” she then asked how much I was forking out she said “YOUR BOOBS COST LESS THEN MY EDUCATION. I NEED ANOTHER DRINK!!” Haha.

My little brother (who is my best mate) simply said I was a freak – in jest though

Worst:

It wasn’t really a bad reaction but I’ve only told three other people, my Mam and Bro and Sis in Law and they were like “Whhhhhy?? They is nothing wrong with your boobs”

Urrrmmm, well YOU’RE not the one walking around and living with them so HUSH!!

Share yours xx

My mother in law couldn’t even look me in the eye when I had it done. And the only comments I’ve had really from my bf n friend are “well they don’t look like DDs” ……

Best – A male friend at work “Wayhey!! – you do realise that i won’t be able to look you in your eyes when i talk to you anymore!”

Worst – My Maid of Honour “Right.. – you’re not going bigger are you because you’ll look stupid”

I did go bigger and i’ll remember her reaction and her lack of support after the op xx

Bestest – was absolutely shitting me nickas to tell me mam- so i text her.while i was.at work, she.rang me bk crying saying she was sooo proud of me , since that text she supported me 100%! Met with julie and she sat telling julie sh never knew i had a.problem but my step dad had picked up on it.

My bf tho he has been fab right from start! I would never have booked if it werent for him, he took me to the hosp too. Hes never once made any awful/snyde comment about me.

Worstest- my “friend“ who i have stuck up for for years at work, when everyone else hated her i stood by her.

Anyway… We both watch snog marry avoid, so one night she text asking if i was watchin it, i tb “aye“ she then tb saying “thats what ul look like soon a tranny with big stupid tits“

There was a body builder witha crap wig and massive boob job on there. She was female!! I was well gutted!

I seen her in toon on the drink after my op and she came over and said she loved me.dress and was.well jelous of how me boobs looked, could have twated her!!

Xx

Best- 1 of my friends rli tuk an interest asking if i was still going ahead n am i excited/nervous? n then said “oooo ul have to let me have a look and a feel wanna touch em!!” lol.

Worst- my best friend in the beginning, when i was showing her pics of boobs i though looked rli nice on here, she said “well youd luk like ud fall over if u have those!!.. u can tell ther fake!” etc etc, then recently when friend i mentioned above started asking me about it showing an interest, my best mate said “god il just be glad when you get them dun then i wont have to listen to all this boob talk any-more, but then again me and my bf said even when youve got them dun ul still probs talk about them!”

oh and also when my best mate went to seaside for the day with her bf she fout it would be funny to buy me a “present back”.. a bag of “tiny titties rock”…nice 1! x

Haa guy this is a good topic!! (apart from some nasty comments)

When I showed my sister she text my Dad asking if she could borrow some money to have hers done. My Mum had a go at her telling her not to be silly, just because I’d had them done —When I showed my mum she was like “WOWWEE they’re great….I I wonder if your Dad will let me have mine done!!

My worst comment was when my friend told me she now felt inadequate compared to me, and then felt self conscious when we were doing some professional pics – I felt bad for making her feel like that, but was gutted she made me feel bad xxxxx

Best: I have two! One day post op and my mate practically sprinted into my house shouted ‘welcome to the boobie club!! giz a look!’ . And my hubby yesterday when i let him have a feel as they have softened a bit and he was over the moon! look on his face said it all!

Haven’t had any bad reactions, just the usual ‘you don’t need it’ bla bla bla. Feel super lucky that all of my friends have been excited for me x

wonder if the bad reactions are genuine care for us as a person, not to look silly, doing something they dont think we need, surgery risk when un unnecessary etc …. or just jealousy???

im guessing the nasty comments a jealousy … just my opinion girls .xx not all boob jobs have to look fake!! some people like the fake look, some girls natural,,everyone does it for there own reason, and im sure a lot of girls here have wanted it for years because they have low self confidence and it will make them feel better about themself,,,, no one has the right to judge,,, you have one life and we are all aloud to be happy and enjoy it , so what ever makes you happy……

I recon most is jealousy cause not alot of people know all the ins and outs about it, they just think oh ther gunna go get big boobs! but like the comments my friend has made -shes 5’1 with natural 34dd boobs, so how can she say id look like id fall over with the same size! also why is she so bothered when she has boobs herself?? green eyed monster coming out i recon with most. cause not once has she expressed worry about the procedure and risks etc, to be honest i rli dont think shes interested in hearing about it x

My best was my best friend (he’s a guy) he just had a massive grin and was like i’m so getting to feel them right??’ haha made me laugh so much! he’s ace!

My worst was horrible, a girl at work, who’s a bitch was like ‘ well shouldn’t you sort your face out first’ I almost punched her fucking cow!!

All my other friends have been really great, luckily I don’t see or speak to anyone in my family so didn’t have to say anything to them xx

omg xxtamzaxx i woulda punched her right in the face, what a nasty piece of work!she is so obviously jealous! anyways very proud of u for not ripping her hair out and staying composed xx

I so wanted to Abi, but I just thought she wasn’t worth it! People like that don’t deserve the time of day!!

My bf was disappointed I didn’t smack her lol.

It’s like you said she is probably jealous!!

Made me feel all grown up being the better person haha!! xx

lol i agree you were definitely grown up about it, she was very childish saying that, typical reaction of a jealous person. imagine her face when uve had it done

omg can’t believe how horrible some people have been to you girls, especially friends?!

I am really nervous telling people-haven’t told anyone yet (not even housemates!) apart from a friend I stayed with the night before and another friend the night after. The 1st one didn’t really say anything but I called her afterwards and she was just like ‘I wanna see/touch them!’ and the other was really supportive-said I didn’t need them-but was really reassuring afterwards. Am v scared of other people’s reactions tho-especially family. People just don’t get what it’s like to have been self conscious of something and think about it every day since teenage-hood!

Any advice of people NOT to tell/people you’ve regretted telling?

xx

Oh and I only had 250 moderate profile ones so will prob be a C and always wore padded bras anyway so will prob only be noticeable in VERY revealing outfits or a bikini!

Best.. My partner’s ex saying I was a ‘plastic bimbo’, she obviously thought it was an insult but was told to try harder next time .. loved it

Worst.. none really, my Sis said that feeling the implant inside me made her a bit squeamish but hardly an insult.

Hi elle im not gunna tell my dad, i dont live with him see him about once a year at xmas and hes rli against surgery, he hates anything fake, so no point telling him as i kno the reaction il get b4 i even say!lol so any-one who u already know to be against anything like this i wouldnt bother telling cause you will get a bad reaction no matter how good you make it sound x

Yeah, am not gonna tell my Dad for the same reason, he hates me even dying my hair and wearing makeup! Haven’t told my parents about my tattoos for that reason…! x

I thought my Dad would be really angry with me so I let my Mum tell him. He was really good about and said it was my body and my money so completely my choice and desicion.

I haven’t told anyone. I just can’t do it, I keep chickening out xx

yeah my dad doesnt know about my other 2 tattoos and belly button piercing lol, he found 1 on top of my back cause my top moved lol n he wa like whats that! haha x

Best: I saw all my friends for the first time post op yesterday and they all said how great I look and how well they’ve turned out and are so pleased for me etc.

Having sex with my boyfriend the other day he said in the heat of it “your tits look massive” lol!

Worst: My dads still not said anything! My mum told him for me pre op. I think he’s just to embarrassed to say anything about my boobs really! Bless him.

Yesterday my friends boyfriend asked me why I did it as it seems like its interfering with nature. He wasn’t having a go though, he just didn’t quite get it.

Xx

ive not told any of my girl friends – i think girls tend to be most jealous!

but my bfs impatiently waiting to play with them lol.

my bfs bosses wife has had a boobjob, so we spoke to them about it cos i was nervous and they were really supportive, completly understood why i wanted it.

best – my bf told his best mate and me, mf bf, his best m8 and his gf went on hol together last year, haha he said “ohhh so this year were going skinny dipping then!” x xx

am sensing a pattern here-guys love it (except dads!), mums are surprisingly supportve and girls are jealous/bitchy! Good job most of my friends are male lol! x

My hubby is well excited.

My 6 year cant wait either.

Funnily enough all the lads at work are like wahaaayyyyy.

My snr boss is over the moon …. male off course.

My female boss -who has AAAAAA cups is well jealous and has told me to take the time off hol – but I’m going on sick so F**K her she will get over it.

My bro, sis and ma are like “if it makes u happy do it”

I get a lot of spend the money on your son, spend it on ur mortgage, go on hol, invest it….. i told them all when u earn my money tell me where to spend it – til then shut the fuck up, dont look at me tits or ask for a feel.

Ask Abi and Cheezies – I’m really diplomsatic lol x

I can’t get over the fact so many people ask or say “I want a feel” Fake or not, they’re still my tits so NO! you may not feel, hubby only!!

AGREED PetiteSnowball……

All the guys that have said they want a feel – I tell them

“Show us your knob and I’ll let u feel my boobs”!!!! They soon shut up lol

lol cuks yep u r sooooooooo diplomatic lmao!!!xxx

cuks you crack me up hun x x x x

I haven’t had mine done yet, I’m due in to have it done in ten days but so far I’ve been really really lucky.

My best friend is soooooo supportive, she’s coming with me to the hospital and driving me home

My fiancé is paying for me to have it done and is so excited to see them lol

My family surprisingly have been brilliant, helping me to get a loan and planning who will look after me.

And I started a new job on Friday thought I’d better be honest and tell my two female bosses why I was taking a two week holiday and they were so excited and supportive!

I feel really sorry for the ladies who have had people trying to make them feel bad, at the end of the day they really are jealous and probably too scared to sort their own body issues out so are taking it out on you, just remember your doing it for you and you will look FABULOUS after!! Xxxxxx

My BEST was coming home and my best friends just been so very happy for me,wanting to see them taking me too appointments doing absolutely everything for me around the house for me telling me i looked amazing bless her,,my WORST was a girl at work saying you should sort your face out first,she soon shut up when i said that;s next,but im in no rush cos no one looks at my face any more including your boyfriend,haven’t you noticed he cant take his eyes off them,she has never said a word since.

Tina I can’t believe someone said that to you! You know, I used to love this forum, now it just makes me angry lol!!! Glad you gave her what for x x

Tina that is the best response ever! Good for you! x

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