Refund please

Please help girls.I’m booked in Friday n need to no procedure of a refund,will I loose my money or just deposit.please get back to me.

I’m sure you loose your money Hun I think you got to give them notice I’m sure she said to me 21 days but I’m not 100 percent. Xx

aw hun have u decided not to go through with it? please think carefully before u cancel it and dont do something ul regret, pm me if u wna talk, i kind of know what ur going through xx

I think you just lose your deposit, if you check your terms and conditions in the pack they gave you, it gives you some info in there!!! Like abi said though, make sure you think carefully before you cancel, you don’t want to end up regretting not having it done sweet! Just do whats best for you. xx

just read this post after commenting on your other….please think it through hun dont let him control your discisions do it for yourself!!! xx

Oh no! I’m guessing this is related to the husband post? I don’t know about the refund policy, get in touch with the clinic asap.m and speak to them. Are you ok though? Xxx

It’s because some of the money was lent by his relative so he’s throwing that at me day n night,dr Singh said I’ve got a deformity in my boob so I’m praying with that the nhs might help me.I need to have a clear head,x

exactly hun it was lent by his relative, not him so its between you and the relative! i know u r making excuses to cancel but really its because ur worried about what he is gna do. please think again before u make this decision xx

Without sounding too harsh, you’ve had the money lent to you, you’re under no obligation to give it back – it’s yours now! Just tell them you can’t get the money back, have the operation that you really want and leave him the hell alone x x x

your not here to please your husband… he doesnt control you. your a couple and things shud be 50/50 if its something you want he shud be happy for you, not make u feel like shit! if this is something that you want to do then do it hun. hes being like he is and saying the things he is coz he wants you to cancel!! ur playing straight into his hands. think about maybe getting that money from his relatives on a 0% credit card and pay it off over the year instead of using them xx

I’ve just read my T&C’s for you.

If surgery is cancelled and a consultation with a surgeon has taken place then MYA will charge or retain:

50% of the total fee 7 to 3 days before surgery

100% of the total fee within 2 days of surgery

Best get on the phone to your PC right away x

He’s told me I’m gona need him Friday,I cnt bare it.he’s never once spoke normal about this to me,just shouts n swears.Iv even got a stay at my mums coz he’s refusing to take a couple of days off with the kids.I really cnt take it,if i get it dun il feel Iv Gita sat n be abused ,he’s also said as I’m vain this done he’s getting a roles,he’s rank.

Thanx snowball.cnt get through,her phones off.so I’m f’d either way.x

so if you cancel now you lose half the money anyway, how do u think he will react to losing nearly 2 grand for nothing?xx

hi huni, its up to you at the end of the day. i had a chest wall deformity and the NHS refused to help me and i was diagnosed with depression, just thikn you dont want to lose your money just for the nhs not to help you out. its your body after all xx

Hun if you can’t get through to your pc, ring the clinic where you had your consultation and speak to them – explain the situation and see what they say x x

Personally I wouldn’t risk losing all that money in the hopes the NHS will cover it. Chance are, they won’t. Especially with the looming cuts etc. You also don’t have any choice on implant sizes so you’re given what you’re given which may not nessecearily be the look you’re after. Then there is the wait, it’ll take at least a year as a non urgent case x

It’s REALLY hard, practically impossible to get a boob job on the NHS. You’d have to have years counselling first too. Just have the op, and let him get over it his own way. If he can’t act like a grown up about it, tell him to stay elsewhere for a while. Sounds like there are other issues here as well as your op hon x

Hey, I read your last post, I think you should go ahead with it regardless!!! Get your new boobs and send him on his way! Xxx

fuck him he sounds a dick!let the sad lil man get his roles! Hes just worried ul,leave him, when u get ur new boobs! Xxx go for it…ur gonna loose a massive chunk of ur money like

lol fairy u always tell it like it is xx

HE sounds vile… Hell love it if the poor lass cancels, cos then hes won, hell control her even more! Id get them done n when they are healed id buy loadsa luusshh matching bra an nicks and parade round the house “cant touch this nerh nerh nr

Erh ne ner ner ne ner ne cant touch this“

Seriously moira think long n hard hun.xx

lmao fairy sat here laughing to myself at ur post, i can always rely on all u girls to make me smile and cheer me up xx

Do it! If he wanted u not to do it that bad he would have been nicer about it and done more to stop u a long time ago. Would u let a man treat ur little girl like this!? No!! So don’t let her see him do it to u cos she’ll think it’s ok! (I av no idea if u have a daughter but if u do…)

Dump this dick. Im sorry but what a prick! If ant ever said this shit to me id be out that door regardless if i have kids! This man aint good for u or your babies…..omg i wanna come and rescue u lol. have ya boobies done chick and hold your head high!!!!xxx

It’s all your choice Moira, if he’s making you feel like shit constantly then yes he’s a big wanker, but also you’re the one letting him do it. If you’re not happy with the way he treats you, leave x

I know it must be hard for you as your married have kids and you probs dont wanna break that up for ur kids sake but some-times its the best option, even if you dont think it is rite now. is it the usual when its good its good? ive heard that alot and said it myself! but the real question is do the good things out weigh the bad? xx

This is something you need to do for yourself, trust me I’ve been in some shit relationships where the guy just wants to keep you down where you belong – usually beneath him. He has self esteem issues and he’s taking it out on you. Take my advice I have wanted to have my boobs done for more than 10 yrs and have always been talked out of it by a guy, I’m 6 days post op wearing a 332E and I feel fantastic! My bf is happy because I’m happy. Don’t let anyone decide for you, follow your heart it’ll be the best thing you’ve ever done! And if Mr angry can’t handle it then get him to f*ck!

32E lol x

Agree with Sharon – if he truely cared he would be happy that you’re happy.

My other half didn’t really want me to get the ba but he just said if I’m happy then he’s happy. He knew how much it got me down and he really did just want me to be happy. And of course he’s glad I’ve got them done now lol.

That’s the way it should be, your happiness should be important to him but it’s clearly not x x

Go ahead with the surgery…. x

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