I now have the biggest regret of my life coz until thursday i was engaged but my now ex (who has just paid for my boobs) has decided after 10 months he isnt ready for a relationship so now i wish i never got them done or at least not got them done as big as i did but coz i fort i was with the right person and gettin married in april i went bigger. Y is life so bloody cruel sometimes? x
Aww hun sorry to hear that!! At least you’ve got them paid for and havent landed yourself in debt like me lol. If he isnt ready for a relationship then I say balls to him and find yourself someone who appreciates you. I can just imagine how your feeling but you’ll get through it babe. Keep your chin up.
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hi kirsty , sorry to hear this, maybe he just has cold feet this can happen just give him time thats all u can do but dont regret your boobs u did it for u , and if he is not the one for u its better u know now than after the wedding , and if its not meant to be then there will be someone else out there who will love u and those boobs..im a firm believer in what will be will be so all u can do is give it time for him to work out his feelings and hope that u and your lovely big boobs will still be there, in the meantime keep your head up and be proud of your new assets as his loss will be someone elses gain …be strong kirsty good luck..xxx
Hi kirst, sorry to hear uv broke up, its so shit! I feel 4 u love. Jus keep ur chin up n get wit the girlies! Ur friends never let u down, I learned that the hard way! It might not feel like it now, but it will all work out xxx
hi kirsty sorry to hear that, but its his loss!!! maybe he just needed a break and he’ll realise he’s wrong, if not f#%! him!!!! chin up and remember we’re all here for you xxxx
Hi Kirsty, Don’t regret anything you have done. Maybe your ‘ex’ boyfriend is threatened by your new assets. He’s probably someone you could do without if this is how he treats you anyway. I’m sure you look amazing and are going to turn many heads once you start getting out and about and you’ll be spoilt for choice should you choose to want another boyfriend. If you hadn’t have had the boobjob this could have happened anyway and you’d propably regret not doing it. Better to regret the things you’ve done than the things you haven’t and you’ve done it now anyway so make the most of them. At the end of the day he’s only a man xxx
kirstyd- Hun, sorry to hear that you broke off with the BF…please do remember that things happen for a reason! It may be confusing at the moment, but you will sure get over the pain soon… there are lots of fish on the sea mate. Hold your head high girl and stay pretty!
Thanks girls i know i will be ok eventually its just very painful at the mo havin a broken heart and gettin over this boob job. xx
I think he’ll be sorry in the end! You have nothing to regret though Kirsty, having a boob job is something you wanted that’s why you did it – just remember that! You’re just confused at the moment and not strong enough to cope with rejection, you’ve had alot of trauma to the body which will make you emotionally f*d up for a few weeks anyway. Everything will be okay because everything happens for a reason and what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger xx
lila i hope hes confused and he realises hes made a mistake but i doubt he does coz hes too stuborn so it looks like ive got to deal with it i just hate my boobs coz theyre too big i wish i had of gone smaller coz ive heard its harder to get a bloke with fake tits which has scared me even though i dont want anyone at all at the mo apart from him but if hes gone for good then the future looks a bit harder coz of the tits. Yes i wanted them done but i only went as big coz of him x
Kirsty-keep strong hun! If you got the impression that boys only wants/dislikes tits big/small, well these boys are not on for a relationship, but a trophy! You must always settle for the best choice mate! Settle for a relationship where both parties are happy and content to move on for a great future!
If he decides to go back, surely you will have lots of doubts and fears before settling back! Moving on is not and will not be easy, but always remember, who needs confused men! Don’t forget, you have us OK! Mwah
Hey Kirsty
Sorry to hear you’ve split up mate..it’s really tough for a while but you’ll get there. You’ve got to love your boobies again..don’t think this way..you need to feel confident..don’t worry about what anyone else thinks..I bet you look gorgeous..stay strong mate.xx
Sorry to hear that. Keep your head up xxxx
hey kirsty , give it time these things can happen at engagement stage but honestly if hes not the one for u i promise u there is not a red blooded man on this earth who does not love boobies honestly and u will be taken as seriously as u want to be taken all the choices are yours take the power back kirsty hold your head up and realise your self worth if he doesnt know what he wants its his loss… we’ve all been there kirsty he will not expect u to be strong so go show him girl…xx
Kirsty I don’t believe that it’s harder to find a man with fake boobs. My surgeon said I’m having big implants for my body size, but bigger boobs look more attractive to me anyway. I know its hard but you need to focus on letting your body recover and heal. If he doesnt realise he’s made a mistake then you will find someone else who will love you and your boobs. xxx
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