scared!!! Started by: laurahall

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    hey girls im really scared of the pain im going to be in after my ba which i have on 10th feb which is this thursday!! i have 3 children who are 6years 3 years and 4 and half month my 4 month will be at his nana n grandads for 3 nights but when i get him i still have the school run to do and wont be able to drive either how much pain will i be in and how long will it last!!! i have a partner but he works full time and wud do everything on a weekend and look after us but when hes at work how will i cope!!!!! my family are against what im doing to my body so dont really want to ask for there help as they will just go on bout i shudnt have getting in done1!! x

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    Oh no wot a shame honey. I have a 4year old and a 5month old. My surgeon said for bout 1 week I will pretty much b very restricted 2 wot I can do. I’m lucky enough that my mums took time off work to look after the kids and me. Maybe u shld talk to your family and explain why u r having this done and how much you could struggle without there support and they might b a bit understanding xx

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    maybe if my 4 month old wud stay at my partners dads for bit a longer wud that help me then i just have my 6 year old and 3 year old to take to school and nursery x

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    my gosh you really need some help r u having unders or overs ? under r more pain full cant he take the 1st week off ? xx

    sandy4
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    Yea I think tht wld make ur life a lot easier. If ur babys anything like mines n loves cuddles n kisses u rly will need more help than just 3days huney xx

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    my partner cant take time off he not even going with me thursday my besty friend is….im having unders hun high profile 460cc i think i find out tmz for definit what im getting x

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    Oh wow I’m having 410 partial unders but tryin 2 push my suregon for 460!! You’ll have 2 let me know how u get on xx

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    i will hun what size are u now? im 32a size 8 5ft6 x

    sandy4
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    I’m 34a, size 8 and 5ft 5! We r almost exact same stats. Whens ur op?! I’m next thursday the 17th in glasgow xx

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    Just noticed its a few days away! Woo hoo n ull have booooooobies haha. Where u avin them done?! Xx

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    al have a nice bunch of coconuts n cant wait till the healed properly. yeah mine this thursday then im 26 on sunday nice bday present hahaha(pain) im seriously shitting now that its days away…. x

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    sorry n im havin them done from mr traynor at rochdale wbu? x

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    Kl, I’m glasgow with ben chew! Good luck hun cnt wait 2 see ur pics xx

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    al put some on on friday hun before and after pics al message u when the on x ;)

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    i’m having mine done one day before you laura and i’m really scared now too! i’m at rochdale, good luck hunn, i doubt it’ll be as bad as we fear xx

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    eee a no khanni when will i find out what time i got to be there x

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    i rung them today and they gave me the time over the phone, id give them a call x

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    who mya x

    Simone 3
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    yep, i rung the leeds clinic as thats where ive been going x

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    i just rang them the said the let me no this afternoon thanks khanni x ;)

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    your welcome hunn! what size are you hoping to be post op? im a C cup at the mo, going for 345.385 0vers hoping to look a DD/E post op x

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    im a 32a hunni size 8 5ft6 wanting 460cc unders high profile find out for definit tmz what im getting!!! ;) x

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    you should be a DD plus with those :) i changed my mind on friday and asked my PC to order me bigger implants, i really hope they are there on the day of my op (i’m sure they will be but i cant help but worry!) keep us posted hunn :) xx

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    well i find out tmrw what im def having and then i have my ba on thursay so i hope mine is there hahaha i just wana d really cant wait to go bra shopping n clothes shopping haha can u ?? have u got ya sports bras yet x

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    I popped into Ann summers today and I was soooo excited! I can’t wait to go underwear shopping, I’ve never worn a balconette bra and really want one after, and I really want a corset too :) have you got any specific items on your post op wish list? X

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    ive all ready worn some stuff like that for my partner as ive got the legs hahah so at the min im a leggy girl… i wana be able to show to bumps on my chest aswel as my ass and legs hahaha want to be able to buy any bra i want anarl eeee i cant wait x :)

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    Hey Laura, I too am shitting myself now! I think its even worse when you have little ones (I have a 3 and 1 year old) because you are always thinking about worse case scenario (or is that just me??!!) Got my bras ready, just need to pack my overnight bag. I have flaming cold and phoned Emma, my nurse, today. She said I should be fine and that I had no need to worry about taking aspirin last week (totally forgot I shouldn’t have!) So I am dosing myself up on day nurse now with my fingers crossed that it doesn’t get any worse!

    Emma said she would ring me tomorrow tih admission times for Thursday. I presume I might be later as I am an overnight case and you will get yours done first. So exciting!!!

    My mum is coming over to look after me for a week and a bit. There’s no way I’d be able manage, especially with having uplift too. I agree with the others-try to rope in as much help as possible from friends and family. Just bite your tongue if they have a go. Its sad that they don’t understand really, but hopefully they will see what a difference it makes to you afterwards xxx

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    hiya tiara where u having urs at is it rochdale?? or have i already ast haha im an over night aswel but dont want to be is it to late to change it to day case dya think?? xx

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    i always get my legs out too nut up top i have to totally pad up! its frustrating but thats all going to chnage in two days, we’ll be boobilicious in no time hunn. good luck! x

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    lmao ru you getting day case or not x

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    Yeah, I’m in Rochdale too laura. If yo’re overnight too then I will most probably see you there! I don’t know whether its too late. Have you paid for the overnight? Phone your pc tomorrow and ask. If you’re just having the BA you should be alright just as a daycase. Do you live near by?

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    OMG my spelling was sooooo bad in that last post lol that teaches me for rushing. Yep I’m going as a day case xx

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    no where near rochdale i live like 2 n hlaf hours away from there haha x

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