scared of showing boyfriend/hubby scars?? Started by: steph

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  • steph
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    Hello ladies,my op is only 10 days away now (having uplift & ba with mario) I am starting to get very excited but worried about scaring. Iv had a c.section so have a little scar down there and I forget I have it to be honest!! But now I’m wondering if the scars on boobies will put my boyfriend off.we have been together 7 years and have 2 kids so he’s seen me at my worst but I’m just worried it may be a turn off for him : ( so I’m now thinking of not letting him see the boobies until scarring doesn’t look so scary!! Have any of you other ladies experienced this? It might just be me being really silly but its on my mind more and more recently xxx

    lea1983
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    Hi Steph, my op is in ten days too! So excited, which hospital are you going to? xxxx

    steph
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    I’m at preston hosp,can’t wait to get my admission time woohoo : ) xxx

    lea1983
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    Me too, an in highfield, Rochdale, YAY!!! not long now, all sorts going through my mind as well though, never been as nervous and excited about anything!

    x x x x x 😆

    steph
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    When I booked I had 8 weeks to go,I just tried to not think about it and now its only 10 days away its starting to get exciting.any idea when we will get admission time??xxx

    lea1983
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    My PC said the day before admission but am not sure, when is your pre-op? mine is on Monday, I think some people get them at their pre-op, others have had a phone call from the hospital telling them so dont really know, am not sure if it differs between hospitals! What are you having?

    x x x x

    steph
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    I had pre op about 4 weeks ago,I may give my pc a call monday or tuesday and see what they say.I need to book hotel and sort childcare so I need a few days notice,which isn’t unreasonable I don’t think.I’m having up lift and 300cc with mario,hoping to be a d I’m a 36c now so fingers crossed.what are u having?xxx

    chelsxx 13
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    u wil be surprised how neat n tidy your scars are hun. far from scary. and when youve been together that long he wil not be arsed at all. they are just a small thin line and wil start to disappear before u no it. i used to get abit embarrased infront of my ex coz of mine bt he used to always so how fab they looked and my scars would be gone in no time. they are hardly visible now, im 9 months post op. feel free to look at my pics, i just uploaded some of my scars this week. i think its more awkward if u end up meeting someone new, like im single now n wil be all paranoid again about meeting someone and them seeing my scars, bt coz youve been together so long he wil be oblivious. dont worry at all xxx

    steph
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    Aww thank you chels,I’m sure I’m worrying over nothing but it helps to have reassurance!!I’m thinking I’ll keep them under wraps for a few weeks,I just don’t wana shock him lol.iv sent you a friend request,hope u don’t mind.did u have just ba or uplift too?xxx

    chelsxx 13
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    yea u are, they wil be fine and he really wont care. i was so shockd how neat mine were. and now u can hardly see them. will accept u now. i just ad ba, was 34b had 345overs and now 34e xx

    steph
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    Just looked at your pic,wow they look bloody fab.lovely size too really suits you xxx

    chelsxx 13
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    thankyoou! xx

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