Scared, so many girls seem unhappy

The trouble with booking your BA for a few months time is that you get far too much time to go on forums etc.

I have been on this one and Sofem for nearly two months and still have over a month to go, and all i keep reading is how unhappy people are with the end result!

I’m not sure if they had unrealistic expectations or maybe they just want different things from me but it’s got me a bit worried to say the least. The last thing i want to do is spend all this money and be more unhappy with my breasts than i am now!

Reassurance that sometimes it all goes perfectly would be great!

Hey, I think the main thing that ur reading is ppl not happy with the size they have ended up, I had mine done 5 weeks ago and I really wish mine were bigger but when I think of how small they used to b I think maybe there not so bad after all. If I were u I’d b worried if loads off ppl were talking about things goin wrong but there’s very few who have experienced something bad its jst mainly about size hun, my advice is to jst have the biggest u are offered xx

hi there, i know what you mean i had my ba done nearly 2 weeks ago, so i have never been on this forum before having it done, so i can see where it has made you a little nervous. From my point of view,i have never been happier with the results i have acheived and the care that i have been given, but you do have to be realistic, make sure you know excactly how you would like to be and dont be afraid to tell the surgeon what you want. of cause the surgeon will advise you so you can make an informed choice of size. But i dont think you will be dissapointed if you are going with MYA they are brilliant. hope this put you at ease a bit. let me know xx

Hi hun,

Like you I booked my op a few months in advance and you do get nervous especially after reading people have been unhappy. I can honestly say that the decision to have a BA is one of the best I’ve ever made, I’m so happy with my results….and Mr. Singh is a fab surgeon….who is doing your BA? Gd luck xx

hi girls- im the same been coming on here since early sept and not getting my BA til 17th dec. the only ppl seem un happy about is size so i told my self i wuld go for the biggest.

my surgeon said he would like to give me 380overs to take me from a B to a full D. but then he said if i want biger he would do 410 UNDERS.

i know so manny ppl say go the biggest but i would prefer to have overs so i think im gonna go 380? hope im making the right decision x

I feel exactly the same, im not having mine until 27th Jan & think if i carry on going on these forums as much as i am at the minute will end up bottling out lol!!! I do agree with all the other comments that the issue does seem to be that girls wish they had gone bigger so when i see my ps again in Jan im going to take the biggest on offer!!! xx

Hey yeah it’s mainly about the size people are un happy I think..my main advice would be to take photos in so you and your surgeon have exactly the same idea of how you want them to look in the end cos they can look smaller than the size they measure. Also choose the surgeon who you think best fits the look your going for..I’d deffinatly recommend Dr Adamo as he does make them look natural but also does bigger sizes too he did both of my ba’s and I couldn’t be happier! x

I’m booked for 340 unders with Dr Chantarasak, my husband thinks that looks huge (did the rice test) and i do only want to look natural. Initially i said a big B small C but then asked for large C small D. Now wondering if I should have asked for a D, but that seems enourmous as I am only a 34aa now and always have been small except when i was breast feeding.

I’m worried about all the girls who are unhappy wioth shape, scars, nipples, numbness, god the list could go on. Think i’m just overannalysing it a bit!

Thanks for your replys girls, last minute jitters i guess!

Hey ros, I’m soooooo glad I didn’t spend too much time on so fem before my op! I think because everyone on there is really nice so no one hestitates to post about any tiny problem they have/are worried about post op and then it seems like hundreds of people are upset when in reality its just tiny things we wants a few words reassurance on! Haha even I have whined about my size, I LOVE MY BOOBS but it’s so easy to moan when people listen, haha damn it’s a girl thing!!

I had Mr C three weeks ago, he is truly amazing. Doesn’t talk much but I love the result. Scars are actually tiny. I had 300 unders and size is perfect, trust what Mr C says on size because he is well known for making natural looking boobies! If there is anything (even little things) you are worried about then just ask (you are more than welcome to message me) or put a post on here or sofem and people will reassure you! Don’t worry, in a few weeks you are going to have AMAZING boobs and will be kicking yourself for worrying so much! xxxx

Hey kimbers666

Ive seen Mr C, and he has said 300 unders for me or 260 overs. Have u got any pics at all so i can see what the size looks like??

Im a 32a/30c (going by la senza measurements!)

Thanks

xxxx

I got myself really nervy and paranoid about how I was going to feel because of reading the forums, I wish I’d never logged onto them to be honest.

My boobs are ace, I love them but due to these forums and reading that other surgeons offer different sizes I keep thinking, maybe I should have asked around, I could’ve been even bigger and then think ‘oh well, i’ll have em done again in a few years’ when in actual fact, before I came on the forums I was completely happy with the size and wouldn’t have even considered a re-op until over 10 years!!!

Honestly, you’ll love your boobs, the only advice I would give is to see a few surgeons to get the exact look you’re wanting that way there won’t be any ‘if only’ questions/thoughts going through your head.

Ask everybody on here, I bet ya no-one will actually regret having surgery – the only thing I regret is not doing it sooner

Will have myself a little photo shoot today and post pics on sofem later! Will send you password pink butterfly! xx

Ah thanks hun! Im not on sofem tho.. do i need to sign up first?

xx

I AM HAVING EXACTLY THE SAME PROBLEM!!!!!! I’m a 34a/32b and am having 410cc overs i really want to be a d/dd but am sooooo worried they wont be that big. so many people seem unhappy with the size, i dont want that to be me after spending all that money!

I really want to stick mith mr c, as i’ve heard great things about him but 410cc overs is the biggest he would let me have, i pushed for 460cc but he said no and said he didnt want me to look fake and for them to look stuck on! he said 410cc will give me a nice natural result.

has anyone had 410cc overs from 34a/32b? i’m a size 8/10 5’8 and am 9st, any pics would be great girls. its only 3weeks away and i’ll be having them done, i wish i’d never logged onto these forums all they have done is worry me and made me have serious doubts i defo still want to go thru with it, but i just DONT KNOW WHAT SIZE!!!! please help girls, any pics would be so nice of u email is nadine_minter@hotmail.co.uk and so fem username is nadine13105 xxx

Thanks girls, the funny thing is i’ve seen pics of girls who had 300cc unders (i’m having 340cc unders) and to me they look enormous! I guess you have to remember why you are doing it, for me it’s not to have big boobs, it’s to have boobs!

kimbers600 i’m the same name on sofem if you could pm me your password for a peek that would be so much appreciated!

Thanks

Ros

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This is so true, I started out thinking I just want ‘something there’ im a 34a and told my surgeon i would be happy with a full b. He suggested 345cc as i wanted natural also but it seems you start to get a little greedy and now im thinking of changing to 365cc just to be on the safe side. Such a hard decision!!x

Hey Abi, I can’t believe to go to a B you were recommended 345cc!? I thought that 150cc is approx one cup size. I’d go with what surgeon says, I know it’s beside the point but you can always dress up boobs to make them bigger (padding push up etc) but it would be horrible if you went too big and they looked unatural or you got stretch marks. xx

hey ladies, I am one of those unhappy people but that is only because what has happend to me and honeyrose is really unusual as 525 are large implants and we should be bigger than a D. I am so happy with how they look though and could probably live with it but I have never met or heard of anyone going from a full 36B to a C-D cup with 525 overs high profile.

My advice would be to always go with the bigger implant choice if your surgeon has recommended two sizes. sorry to hear our stories scaring you a little. I have some pic if you wanna see i am only 10days post op xxx

North3c and Honeyrose, have seen both your posts and feel rotten for you! Really hope you are both ok and not too disappointed. I can understand that some implants make some boobs bigger than others but it makes no sense that that size implant could only give you a D! I know its a long shot but can you check thats the actual size implant that they gave you!? xxx

yehh i have the barcode sticker thingy in my book, and they were defo a 525. I am actually more unhappy now…they are going to have to do something about it as i was told that i would be at least a DD/E. I am actually only a C/D…..x

hiya i had my ba 3 weeks ago and im made up with the end results. i went for my consultation and 13 days later i went in for operation. i didnt read the forum as it all happened so fast. i think if i would of read all the things on here i would of been worried sick and proberbly wouldnt go threw with it but im so happy i went threw with it nowxx

Hiya ros1705,

I know exactly how you feel. Before my BA I spend nearly every day on those forums and all you could hear was how girls wish they would have gone bigger. But I guess that is all personal expectations – as you I am just happy to have boobs

I have to agree with some girls though – just make sure you tell your surgeon exactly what you want and take some pictures with you if needed. And you have to remember every1 is different and so the outcome will be different as well. I have seen loads of girls with 300 or 340 who went from AA/A to C-E.

But I made my decision for myself and went for the smaller size offered. So far so good but you also need to be patient cos they change over the time as well!!

Chin up you will make the right decision xxx

hey kimbers, yeah that is the first thing i did as my boobs look too small to even have a 525 in it. my nurse has completed a investigation for me and has had discussions with my surgeon. I asked for a E so i would look like a DD. i mean the shape and the gap between is perfect they look so good and are dropping quite nicely but they are not the right size……i am pretty gutted but i am thinking its better than what i had… lol.

I recommend anyone – always pick the bigger size out of the two your surgeon has chosen for you. you dont wanna feel like we do. its horrible and my BF doesnt know what to do with me….he is gutted to.

xxx

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