Scared to book it?!!help!

Hi ladies!
I’ve now got enough money to put down so I can book my breast enlargement for January but now I’ve got it I suddenly feel really scared to book it!!I know it’s because I’ve not got any support off my mum and she has said she won’t speak to me if I go through with it but I want it so much and have decided to anyway but now it’s come to it I feel really sick and nervous and think am I doing the right thing? I’ve been desperate for this for years! Did anyone else feel this way? Should I just go for it? xx

I’ve just made an appointment for my first consultation and I’m terrified but want it soooo much. Your mam will be worried, especially if she’s like mine and doesn’t understand the procedure. Keep talking to her, don’t let it get you down. At the end of the day the way I see it, it’s important to live your life not someone elses. And if your as eager as me it will be well worth and your mam will come round. Do what I did and tell her if it goes wrong (which I doubt!!!!) she has the right to say I told you so, good luck xxxx

Aw hun, I think actually booking it was the hardest part of all. Once it’s done then you can get excited and start countig down the days and preparing for it but I understand that it’s being overshadowed by your mums disapproval which must be hard. I took the easy way out and simply chose not to tell mine. Is it possible you can sit down with her and explain how you feel and how important it is? Maybe it would help for her to go along to a consultation with you?

Rio xxx

Thanks for your advice girls…
Rio: I’ve told my mum how I feel and she just started going mad and saying she doesn’t want to hear about it and will fall out with me if I do it – she’s worried about money and is against cosmetic surgery but she is just taking it to the extreme! I asked her to come to a consultation with me and said I really want you to be involved but she just said the same thing again…it’s making me sick with worry because she lives on her own and I feel really guilty about it and don’t want her to fall out with me because I don’t want her to be upset but I know she will just to be stubborn now.xxx

its normal how u are feeling i was scared shitless to just even book the first consultation now i had my dates

i am excited but my god at times i am nervous wreck and very scared

xxxx

Hi jmc89
my mom dont want me to have mine done when i told her last week the first thing she said was dont come crying 2 me when they explode!
im just giving her time 2 get used 2 it. This is what i have always wanted and my mom knows that. Do it 4 u, im sure your mom will come round!

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