Second thoughts

Hi I am booked in for my ba in may, have bren so excited as have wanted them done for years but Past few days been really doubting having it done, did anyone else or is anyone else feeling like this. Worried too as my boyfriend would prefer me not to have it done worried it will put him off and worried if have rupture etc just lots of things making me think twice x

my bf is agianst me having it done hun but its your body and if you want it he should respect that and be there for you, as should mine…he will come round once he sees them!!

Talk to girls on here they are really helpful and browse their pics..its made me want mine even more than i did before!

xx

I was really nervous too which is totally natural, I kept thinking padded bras are fine I’ll just wear them forever but……I’m 9days PO and loveeeeeeee my boobies. Never been happier, best money I have ever spent. You are doing it for you not your boyf and if he is a decent bloke, which I’m sure he is, he will support you and be happy that it makes you happy. And I’m sure he will reap the rewards too as you will be so much more confident 😉

He has said he would rather me not have them done but will support me with whatever makes me happy, they lost shape and volume after having my little boy just worried as its a life long commitment, hopefully just nerves x thanks for replying x

If you let fear put you off now it will just delay the process, because you will have them done eventually lol… don’t worry about other people. You are doing this for YOU and no one else. Whenever you chose to have it done there will be people who disapprove or people you worry will be inconvenienced by it. So just go for it. I can honestly say, 10 months down the line post op, it’s one of the best things I ever did and I would do it all again. I had no pain, the best of care, a brilliant surgeon, and I feel like a woman at last xx

I know I hate my boobs but past few days thinking oh there not too bad which is rubbish cause they are my most hated body part, I think it’s my own Paranoia that he will be put off as we speak about it all the time, pleased your loving your new boobies ))

Your right newboobies think if I cancelled op I would defo want them doing, have wanted them doing for about 10 years now haha x not scared off surgery just if not happy with them feeling much better thanks girls x

Totally agree with the fear thing too. Someone said to me, what if it goes bad, look at all the PIP implants, what if this, what if that and I was really upset and I spoke to a friend who said look at it this way, you watch the news and there has been a car crash, does it mean you are never gonna go in a car again because something bad has happened to someone else and JUST INCASE it happens to you!! Made me feel so much better. If someone bad happens the surgeons are brilliant and they will sort it but no point stressing about the what ifs cause you would never do anything in life xx

You’re welcome. Hope you go ahead now everything is booked. You’ve already come so far, and I know you won’t regret it, so don’t let fear or doubt put you off. Do this for YOU Good luck xx

PS as with sally’s story above, you only ever see bad news in the press/ tv coverage because it’s newsworthy… the thousands of success stories are not so interesting, hence why you rarely see them. These surgeons have done 100’s of BA’s on all types of girls in all types of hospitals, and some of them are paid thousands just to make women look normal again after cancer surgery etc (i.e. Mr. Kazzazi). They are brilliant and you are in safe hands

Thanks x what size did you have newboobies ))

I had 380cc under the muscle from a 32b, taking me to a 32ff, although i look a natural D

Yeah I’m a b at mo don’t know weather to have 325 or 350’s, hope u don’t mind me asking but have you got much sensation since having op x

This is exactly how I feel! My BA is on Friday, and for the past week I have been having 2nd thoughts, even though I’ve wanted a boob job for years. Glad it’s not just me who has this feeling! x

SallyT that’s a great way of looking at it, yasmiew1 I think it’s just nerves I keep thinking what if I want them out straight away after having them done, I am having overs so worried about the mammograms, think to be fair I am just looking for things to worry about now

I didn’t lose any sensation at all (mind you i didn’t get any pain either so maybe i’m just a freak!!), most girls who lose sensation get it back within 12 months tho so don’t worry

Go for the biggest they offer (and ask for bigger!!!!). They look MUCH smaller when in, and there is less than 1/4 cup size difference between 325 and 350 so barely noticable x

Yea definately go for the bigger. Went for the biggest offered and I came out and looked down and I was so disappointed but once tape w off and could see them properly I was like, woooo they are massive, fabulous I havent had any pain either, more of an ache than anything x

I know it makes it difficult when those closest to are against your BA. Just don’t let them get to you and go for what you want. My boyfriend is suddenly very supportive because he realises this is what I really want and that nothing can stop me having it done. I know about all the complications and so on. Still doing it and I can’t wait to look more like woman the a child lol. Currently a 36AA..

Thanks everyone x

i think we all go through these feelings hun, i was so excited at first then started doubting myself. im an now 11 days post op and am so happy with my new boobs. so glad i didnt back out.

your mind set will change again soon xxx

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