second thoughts on ba

is this natural?? i’m even debating cancelling need some serious boobie help girls please, i don’t know what to do x

Lolll iv been trippin out all day, been researchin for a whole year since iv been saving with the piggy bank scheme, finally gettin it done in 5 weeks time… Then i go and watch that programme last nite on bbc3 ‘are my fake boobs safe’ its stupid because the amount of times iv researched the risks! Think its because its finally settin in that im flappin abit xx

omg!!!! exactly why i’m having doubts haha, and my mum watched it and is now so against me getting it done (she wasn’t too bad before!) my op is in less than a month xx

Awww it’s def natural, it’s just nerves. Think how pleased u’l b wen u’ve had them done Afta all that PIP scandal they will be more cautious than eva U’l both b fine. Xx

It normal to have the jitters. If you really think its not right for you then you should cancel but just ask yourself is this nerves or are you happy to live with your body the way it is?? I cancelled a breast reduction that I had booked in 2007 and I am so relieved I did cos after that I lost 5 stone and now I need an uplift and implants!! That was the right decision for me at the time to cancel as I knew I wanted to make changes to my body.

I was seriously doubting doing it for about a month running up to op even though had been

Wanting it done for years and now I am 3 days post op I an do glad I did it, it is natural to feel like that its something life changing x good luck with whatever u decide to do but bet you will regret not doing it x x c

thanks girls, i think it’s more to do with those closest to me turning against me for my decision, it is something i want it’s just hard to do you know xxx

My boyfriend started firing questions aswell because he watched it with me, he was more concerned with the whole having to replace them after so many years 10 15 ? I said do you know what, i could get ran over next year so fuck it !

hahah i love that approach so true, life is too short. thank you!

I had so many second thoughts last year and cancelled my BA 2 weeks before my scheduled date. Now I have my appointment next wednesday and looking forward to it like a little child to christmas. I think it was good I cancelled last year. I just wasn’t ready yet and also like the new surgeon better.

were you with MYA last time??

Im exactly the same hun and my ba is next wednesday! I keep talking myself out of it and even doubting the size ive picked and worrying r they to small or big so i am meeting mr adamo thursday luckily e squeezed me in so hopefully that will put my mind at rest but doubt it lol x

why are you so worried about getting it done?? it is a massive thing, but i think it’s the before part that is the hardest! xx

For me its also partly to do with my children who r 10months n 3 yrs n r total mummy boys baby always wants me so gona b hard watching other half run bout after them But also i think its just last minute nerves. x

No, I am in Germany, never been with MYA. Nerves are normal, just listen to your gut how bad it is.

@Stacey, I also met with my surgeon today one more time. That will definitely help.

ah i can see why that would be difficult but if it’s something you really want you should go for it x

Let’s face or girls, that programme should have been called ‘PIP’!

I completely understand why peeps would be apprehensive but the first scandal on PIP’s was released in the press in 2006, some clinics chose to carry on using them

And ignore the advice that was given, this also includes people getting them

done. You have the option to decide which implants you want, you can also upgrade! I had mine done last week after much hesitation after the story broke as i was all set to go with Harley Medical ! I soon dismissed them and cancelled everything!!

It hasn’t put me off as iv done so much research and I think now companies will look more into checks and these implants so the are 100% fine.

I wish you every luck with your decision.. It’s the best thing I ever did xx

Yeah theres never going to be a right time with kids n i waited until had second baby and then was going for it so no backing out for me lol

Ah thats good to hear was you worried about size or just needed to see him with questions? Mines a bit of both lol, im going to try and get him to go slightly bigger fingers crossed he will x

I’m worried about lots ha it’s suddenly come on because i told my sister about it all and she’s gone crazy! mum’s not supporting me either and i’ve only got my friends who seem to understand and support me, i’m scared of losing my family over it and also worried about future operations and being able to afford them – ahh i know i want it but i’m just scared x

Ah hun sorry u dont have your families support but the truth is only u know how u feel about your boobs n u got to do it for u. I have no confidence now n dont even like other half touching my boobs as i hate how small they r e doesnt get it as e doesnt think their that small but agrees i should get them done, they have shrunk after having kids to lol. I think u should totally go ahead with it and give it time your family will most likely get used to the idea especially if it makes u happy. X

Also u could save a little amount per week and put it away somewhere and that can go towards future ops if needed x

Hey Staceyr I have a little boy who is also a little mummy’s boy, it is hard not being able to pick him up but I am still able to give him kisses s and by day 3 was able to have him sitting on my knee( he would back up on knee while I was on the floor) its hard but then I think it’s only 2 weeks off their entire life and too be fair it’s doing my little boy and me some good x like I said before I had serious second thoughts but for you to get to a consultation and as far as you have shows you want to do it, it’s human nature to be apprehensive god my boobs were saggy abd I started thinking they were actually ok, like amw4u was saying she cancelled it but Is now redoing it as its something she did want, don’t want to seem like pushing you into it it’s just cause I was feeling so the same even when I paid for it 5 days before I wasn’t even excited I felt like crying cause there was no backing out haha but I did it and so far I a happy I did it x don’t beat yourself up over what your all feeling it’s normal and I kept asking the girls I was friends with on here about it I needed that reassurance that it was just nerves cause I wanted the boobs just not the feelings of uncertainty with them x good luck girls with your decisions x x x

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