Second thoughts

You know what, im not gonna think too much about it cos i ALWAYS talk myself out of things which only involve me (like buying new clothes, shoes, nights out with friends). I always seem to cancel things.
I cant believe how my feelings have changed in one weekend. Since having this booked its all i have talked about and been really excited and now i just seem to have had a complete turn-around.
Think instead of thinking about things too much i should start to learn to be impulsive and go with my first instinct.
Need something else to think about now. I know…wedding plans for 2012.
Thanks girls.

Karenw – how long have you had yours done for now?

No, and I hate it! Have been having shallow baths since Sat, but can’t get dressings wet so its a bit awkward. Go for post-op check on Thurs so will see what the nurse says, but looking at other people’s comments on here it may be a while longer before I can have a full shower. Urgh! Can wash my hair now tho, no longer feels like my arms are sellotaped to my sides!

Not sure if my pics will be of any use to you both as I’ve only got smallies!!! Was a very flat 32aaa beforehand so could only have 260s unders…

But I like them!

K

I would like to see your pics too if you have any.
Im on sofem, my user name is WhoopWhoop1.

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ok lol, me to my username is janwhitt , have u had a proper shower yet ?x

I haven’t taken any either! I am on sofem, but I can’t seem to figure it out (I’m a bit of dunce with these things!). What’s your username and I’ll attempt a pm!

karenw , im 4 days post opp, are u on sofem wud love to see yr pic if u have taken any yet ?i aint got round to doing it yet . xx

its completely up to you though whoopwhoop!! me and my partner are in desperation for a new kitchen aswell ha ha! but luckily my b/f been paid out a load of redundancy pay so may be able to get one ! but you cud get a boob job then some money may come along at a later date! its entirely up to you! the main thing i hated aswell b4 was my chest, it hard lines on it from the sunbed (i used to go on it loads in my teens) but stopped! but after my ba it made it really smooth! i was so happy! X

Whoopwhoop – 7 days post-op today, woo-hoo!! I’m sure you already have, but have a good read through the posts on here, the forum certainly helped me be reassured prior to the op, and post-op!

Hi Janeyh

My boobs are…ok. They were very full before i had my girl two years ago and since having her and breast feeding they have dropped and have nothing left in them (saggy). They are not so saggy that i need a uplift but they are still quite low now if you understand what i mean?
I dont know, im just doubting myself as usual i think and like i said, worrying about everyone and everthing else before thinking of me.
xx

Starting to have second thoughts about having new boobs now!
Starting to think the money could be put towards my new kitchen instead and it’s not as if I have no boobs at all cos I’m a 34b at the moment. Looking at pics of some boob jobs and I really don’t want mine to look round and stuck on, I want them to look really natural.
Would I lose my deposit if I backed out at this point? I’m due it done early June.
I think I’m scared.

Id say go for it! in the end if your boobs are ok! then leave them! i had very bad saggy skin! so needed mine doing, but if i had just nice normal boobs i would have left them! i would have settled for anything, even a flat chest, rather than saggy skin! but ended up with very natural boobs,.
get your kitchen then in a few years after having kids etc (not sure if u have had kids or not!) then go for it! but only do it if your boobs are ruined, but if you are lucky enough to have nice boobs,m then id say leave them alone! XXX

yeah me to i booked my holiday yesterday cutting my hrs at wrk to go back & study kept worrying all night about paying it then i thought ill cancel ba n put the money to it only do get my self undressed to get changed n actually felt stupid thinking abt cancelling in the first place i have wanted ba for 9 years i know we can spend the money on different things but i defo dont want to keep going on unhappy anymore x

hi whoopwhoop
ive been having the same kind of doubts, but then i think its something ive always wanted i think its only normal to be having second thoughts, but you still have plenty of time to think about it so dont rush into making a decision, just do what is best for you and think will it make you happy xx

Whoopwhoop, I think part of the reason why it took me so long to get round to doing it was that I used the money as a bit of an excuse! There was always something that I wanted more before boobs, like a new car, a new flat, a new kitchen…! But then I kinda ran out of material things and I realised what I actually wanted a bit of self-fulfillment! Deep eh?! Lol! But, that’s ok as I can truly say that I did really want my ba in the end. Yes, I was nervous and scared and worried about people’s perception but none of those things over-rode my unhappiness with myself anymore. Maybe you aren’t quite ready yet, perhaps you just need a little more time before you can fully justify the expense, and that’s cool. Have a think over what would give you greatest happiness in say, 2 years time if you spent that money this year…
x

I think i have a mixture of nerves and worries i will lose friends and getting all the cocky comments about it.
I worry too much about other people think.
My boyfriends thinks this will boost my confidence as since having my little girl I have not been the same he said – ie the way i dress and behave on nights out (i used to be a little crazy on nights out). But, think this is also due to the fact that now i am a mum i need to calm down a little.
I think i will have a chat to him tonight and explain the way i feel and hopefully i will back to wanting it again.
Thanks to all you girls for your comments – it helps.
x

Everyone goes thru that stage lovely breast are worth every penny and so glad i went ahead with it you only get so much of your money back if you get a refund read your file . a nice home ain’t going to change ya life as much as your breast will i have grown so much as a person since my op and my kids love having a happy mum

I was going to have mine done last August and then backed out. Saw my PC in February and booked it for March. The week before I had second thoughts about whether it was worth the money and if I could be happy with what I had (which wasn’t much!) and just decided that it was something I really wanted. For me I now have the confidence that I didn’t have before and feel happier in myself. A lot of the pictures on here are of girls who are not far post op and I haven’t seen a pair of boobs that have just been done that don’t look round and stuck on. I’m nearly 7 weeks post op and mine have softened up loads and have started to drop like natural boobs. It’s ok to be scared, it’s a really big deal. I had the fear 3 days before and was fine at the hospital until I had to walk down to the theatre when I started shaking and my eyes were running due to panic. I am so so glad that I had it done, one of the best things I’ve ever done. Good luck with whatever you decide to do hun x x x

u may lose the deposit but dont just do it cause u may lose the money .if u want the op as it will may u feel more confident . then i would say go for it .
whatever you decide just make sure its the right decision for you and not to save cash or waste money. if it gonna make you feel better then go for it . im 7days away from m ine and soo nervous did have second thoughts but i need more confidents as i have nothing and wana feel like a women.
go back to the reason why you wanted it in the 1st place and then you`l find your answer?

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