sellfish??? Started by: summer7

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  • summer7
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    i have wanted my boobs done for ten years i hate even looking at them, will not let my husband see me with no top on ive breastfed 4 kids so there is nothing there i look like a man! i have the money now to get ba but just feel guilty and a bit sellfish incase it goes wrong etc did anyone else feel like this??x

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    It’s something you’ve wanted for 10 years! My surgeon said that he does 900 BA’s a year and aprox 3 have trouble, they tell you all the info you need, go and have a consultation … It will make your mind up, I signed there and then totally blown away I’m having Mr Russo, I can’t find one bit of bad info about him :P and had my GP check him out, he has also dobe surgery for enbarrising bodies… The best of the best I feel …!

    Good luck… And no it’s not selfish to want to feel good it’s normal, and after 4 children you deserve a “treat” x

    kezza460 -2
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    Go for it girl!! Completely normal to have those thoughts, theyre all things people’should’ think through before deciding to go ahead and I would say that 99% of people on here had similar worries beforehand. But it’s very, very, very minimal risk for a big gain for your confidence and happiness so for me, it was more than worth it.

    Once you have made your decision, you’ll feel more positive and excited about it. Make an appointment and just go along and speak to someone about it, no obligation, just put your feelers out and take your time :D Good luck x

    gnats
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    Summer7 that is the very same as me! I don’t let my hubby c them either don’t even like him touching/cuddling with his arms around my back as his hands will move closer to were boobs sould be hate it!! I have had two children still young n have nothing left to speak of. I was thinking how can I spend all this money on my self! It’s crazy. We got bills to pay! What r my girls gonna think when they r older that if u don’t like something just go and have surgery! But I did have a consultation to just c what it was about and then started using this forum and I thought I’m gonna do. The way I am now I don’t even wanna take my girls swimming beach or anything like that that’s prob worst for them. I’m now seeing the surgeon today :) very excited!! I think it’s normal to have though thoughts esp as a mum u never putt ur self first u always have to be doing other things u cone last if at all. N u have 4 I only got 2!

    I don’t know how thoughs thoughts when away they just did. I never really done much for my self so thought I know I want nicer boobs just boobs would be nice so I’m gonna do it! I think when u book a consultation and talk to someone else about it u may hopefully feel different as it’s not nice feeling the way u do now! Hope this is of some help. Xx

    george85 13
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    simple way of justifying it- divide the amount by how many years you will have them -then divide into weeks- and its nothing 6pounds a week over min 15 years if you have the most expensive type. i.e- mine were 4700

    now would you pay 6 pounds a week to make yourself happy and feel confident.

    I would. xx

    gnats
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    Me too:)

    What implants did u have then george85? Xx

    summer7
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    aww thanks girls feel a bit better george85 when you put it like that lol and gnats ive got my first consultation on fri just knowing my luck it will go wrong!! do you no what size you want? im 32 AA 5’5 9 stone really want the biggest overs i can get xxx

    george85 13
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    I had the soft touch anatomicals which were 1000 more in total as a cohesive gel and specially ordered in the projection and width to fit my stats[teardrop shape]

    so your looking at the cost of a lunch a week to pay for them in the long run, also I don’t drive as I live in London and would rather have boobs over a cheap car anyday!

    It’s been 1 week and I am so much happier already! no more depressive feelings about looking like a boy/small child. :)

    I’m 26 now and wish I did it at 18! xx

    kezza460 -2
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    Hey George, Ive sent you a friend request hun x

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    Hey summer7 you have just so got to do this girl! I almost backed out the day before my surgery as not only was I terrified of the surgery but my Youngest who’s 9 kept on saying I was perfect the way I was (secretly I think he was thinking he could use the money on a new x-box lol). 8 days post now and like george85 wished I’d done it years ago. I didn’t have my kids until my early thirtys and I’m now 40, if only I’d done it after the kids! Good luck with your consultation and go with the biggest they’ll offer XX

    summer7
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    thanks beaunarrow will keep you posted what size were u pre op?? x

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    32-34a! I had 345in right boob and 375 in left as they are wonky. Iwas originally going to have 310 and I thought they were massive until the boob greed set in X

    george85 13
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    no problem. x

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