sex and men ! angry !!!!

Well I’m four weeks post op and I love my boobs . My bf doesn’t even give them the time of day . I feel depressed because we usually have sex 3 tomes a week now its been a week since he last touched me I feel so ugly atm . Xx

I’m in spare room because he a sleep watching soaps . All he can say is he tired

Awww hun. Dont worry to much. He may be a liytle nervous to touch them? Maybr y should jusy bring it up an conftont him about it xx

Men are a little funny about it all. They get all mixed uP about it. My husband was really annoying about it all. Didn’t want me to have the surgery and kept asking if I regretted it yet! Grrr. Give him time and he’ll be ravishing you like before!!!!

Georgia I felt a little rejected by my fella after my op after a week I said to him u haven’t even ask to see them properly yet …his reply ” there not ready yet are they ” div think he prob don’t want to hurt u .., also I think having to sleep upright with lots of pillow I missed the cuddles so your probably feeling that to xx

Yes my husband said things like that too! The barricade of pillows doesn’t help!!!

Well had sex at weekend now no sex . ! Brought it up last night because I was in tears , felt so rejected . I’ve had my boob done 5 weeks ago they look great bf won’t come with me ! Of 2 years being together . His reply , we bbeen going out too late . I’m not ugly but WTF

men are strange species hun… they don’t think emotionally about things like that lol. Just sit and have chat with him about it. Alot of women have the thought that as soon as they have boobs; their man will be all over them… but, think all you been through, how tender they were and how hes seen you recover… Men don’t always echo the way we feel about ourselves either hun… if they did, we wouldnt have to moan about them teehee… i would worry if my hub got all excited about my boobs. it would probably make me feel like “oh, so you lied about fancying me before… you’re actually happier with me now”?? your fella will love you as you. give it time hun and tell him how you feel. remember, having boobs for you was a big thing and made great changed to you… they’re with you always to help accept and adjust to them… your fella needs more time maybe. xxx

I had sex for the first time after my op on day 5. It wasnt the best session in the world because I was so paranoid about my boobs, and I couldnt move my arms very much! But it was ok and tbh, it was him that wanted it more than me! We had sex again last night (I am now 9 day post op), and it was great! A lot more movement in my arms, so i wasnt as stiff! Haha. But to be honest, although he says he loved my old boobs and didnt think i NEEDED the op, he does say that he LOVES them now and he cant wait until he can have a proper squeeze! I wouldnt worry too much about though hun, men are strange…… haha xx

Well I’m twenty years old with great boobs and get no attention .exceppt from people from work !

Like the other girls said, I’m sure its all a bit strange for him at the mo! He may need time to get used to them and is probably worried about hurting you or them feeling strange to squeeze! xx

Isn’t this the guy you’ve been having trouble with before? Or am I thinking of someone else? x

Yes that’s me lol !

We was having sex every other day before this op . I sent him naughty photo while he was at work he was disgusted with me saying he was at work x

Well, I’m very cut throat when it comes to men. From everything you’ve said, he sounds like a waster and you could do so much better. Dump him and find a man who will give you everything you deserve. x

maybe hes finding it hard to cope with dealing with the new attention you’re getting. maybe the op may have made him open up some internal issues for himself??

Dump the prude strange little man! What man does’nt like kinky photos!! And tbh i’d get in there first because it sounds like he may dump you! x x

i agree hun, what man doesnt like a kinky photo and in my exsperiance they love them even more if there in work/out coz they cant wait to get home, i had a crappy old sports bra on the other day and send my bf a pic of my chest to show him my sun burn his reply was ”thats going to be saved its my favorite veiw”.

so i think theres def somthing else going on here with your man hun, have it out with him and if you dont get a decent answer then dump his ass, you deserve to be with someone who will love and appreciate you.

my ex was a arsehole always put me down, would stay out for days, it was hard at 1st when i left him but its the best thing i ever did.

im with a wonderfull man now who treats me like a queen hes like my best friend and my ex is sad and lonely and tells me all the time what a idiot he was for letting me go he quizzes our daughter about my bf all the time, jealousy is a terrible thing lol.

like you said your only 20 you dont need this get your sexy ass out there and find somone who’ll treat you right x

Also its ODVIOUS u had a ba because u was insecure over ur boobs *Thats why we have them!* And NOW it seems hes goin out of hes way to keep u insecure x x

men are weird! ud think if he was worried about loosing you now youve got the new additions that he would be paying u more attention and wanting u more incase u leave him for sum1 better but luks like in this case hes done the opposite and cause hes worried about ur new confidence he thinks by making u not feel wanted that u will be more needy with him. all just trying to boost his own self esteem by seeing u wanting him- sad but like i said blokes are weird! x

LOL at Hush!!!

I agree tho, at the end of the day a lot of us girls have this done because of insecurities and a lack of confidence and well, if he liked you being dependant on his compliments alone and being unhappy and miserable then bin him!!

The last think you need to be worrying about when you’ve had any kind of surgery is the ego of somebody else xxx

ye thats true if we was soo happy with our self we wouldnt do it !

like my friend she said she was so happy with her life body etc and wouldnt do anything like surgery then havew my boobs done she blurts out how insecure she is about her body etc she booked in

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