Sexy Time (Sorry Ladies!!)

Hi girls.. BIT of an awkward question I must admit, but I don’t really know who else to ask..

SOOOO.. since my op, I haven’t been very ummmm sexual.. if that’s the right way to describe it?? I love my boobs, and I am a little more confident than I was, I get them out a lot more etc etc but I just haven’t been in the mood you know?? I’m not really like this to be honest.. I’ve usually got a much higher sex drive than my boyfriend, but it seems the tables have turned and I’m never in the mood..

I thought it would be the opposite.. that I would feel sexy and jump my boyfriend every chance I get, but it just hasn’t happened. I mean, he’s not complaining or anything like that.. so it’s not like he’s made me feel as though I’m not acting normally. I’ve just noticed it myself..

Any suggestions? Maybe it’s just because I’m more tired than I normally would be, with having the op, going back to work etc??

Hopefully it doesn’t last long!! Lol x

i wanted to ask this i think it ur body healing. how long ppl wait to do it cos think il b worried about himm hurting them.

You’re not allowed vigorous sex for 2 weeks or something?? But as long as it’s gentle I’m sure you’re allowed to whenever.

I’m sure it’s just me, most girls jump their boyfriends once they’ve got their new assets.

Babes u arnt alone belive me. Although i had sex wiv hubby like 13 hours afterwards but my heart wasnt in it if ya know what i mean….i just did it lol. Tbh my sex drive hasnt been the same since i had my ba….i dunno if its normal babes and i dunno if any other girl will own upto it but dont panic hun…..im sure you’ll get back to “normal” in no time when you feel healed xxxxx

Same. I’m 3 weeks post op now and I haven’t once wanted it and I still don’t want it. It might be cos me and my fella are having problems though, so I dunno. Xx

Hmm, hadn’t thought about this. I’m pre-op so I don’t know what to expect. Maybe it’s change in sleeping pattern, not as much exercise etc. that makes you feel less up for it. Avocado and asparagus are meant to be natural libido enhancers. Good excuse to bust out the guacamole if you like mexican food? 😆

Ahh thanks Ticky hun, I just feel so tired ALL the time.. and not to gross anyone out but I love doing it, I was always the one to initiate it etc and now I can’t really stand the thought.. I get small moments where I’m in the mood but other than that NOTHING. Hmph.

Maybe buying underwear at my 6 week check will put me in the mood a little more!! Let’s hope so anyways!!

Lol jessicarabbit.. I LOVE QUACAMOLE!! Yummy.. puts me in the mood.. for NACHOS!!

xx

well after my past ops for teeth n throat iv not felt like it it cos ur body healing. cos sexdrive is from ur body urge to reproduce n it wont want to reproduc if u healing. but maybe have some good happy body food whatever make u happy n lack of excercise wont help cos no endorphins. hope it get better iv got opposite problem my fella dont want me lol he sleep all time n nothn wrong with him lol. atleast u have ur boobies.x

I was the same when i breastfed, couldn’t even entertain the thought of sex! Prob as my boobs were always as tender as hell & constantly full and swollen with milk so was always uncomfortable.. Like you say , sexy undies will do a world of good after living in sports bras! I’m still pre op but i’m kinda expecting them to be a similar feeling the first few wks post op x x

Thanks for your replies girls!

Yeah, that’s the other thing.. they are pretty sensitive/sore most of the time. Obviously boyfriend is going to want to have a little play, and it just won’t happen!! I’m telling you now!! Lol.

Bless him, he is pretty good though, doesn’t complain or anything really. He’ll have a freakin’ shock when I’m actually in the mood!! Haha

x

Ok here is my theory on this one; I believe that many of us had boob jobs because we are sensual highly sexual girls and sex is important to us. Feeling feminine and sexy is part of what we thrive on. Our approval and acceptance is acknowledged thru sexual attraction and affection. I may be speaking for myself but it’s how I know and feel I’m loved. Since having my op I am so much more secure and have less need for sex. It’s ironic because I thought my drive wd be stronger. I actually need it less but it feels so sweet not to need my husband to prove his love for me thru sex. I am content in myself whether we are having sex or not. The sex is amazing when it happens too. I apologise if anyone thinks I’m assuming or speaking nonsense it’s just my theory xx

I think it is natural feeling. I also felt it. After sometime it will be right.

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