So Annoyed! Boobies!

So I keep pushing the image of I hate my boobs…to my boyfriend….I go on about it all the time – I lost weight and now they’re smaller and I do hate them.

But he says I’m NEVER having a boob job and goes mental about it – I’m 21 in Nov and really want that done for my bday!!

But he acts as if we’d break up if I had it done, he wouldn’t let me go for it anyways – but just SO ANNOYED!

Any advice?

my bf said he’d leave me if i had them done too, tried everything to try and put me off the idea but its my life!! & i hated my old boobs so much, i said if u really loved me ud want me to be happy so like it or lump it! (only reason most guys tell ther gfs not to do it is coz of ther own insecurities, they think we’ll get more attention etc) so i went for it, have never been happier, an my bf is obsessed with my new boobs!!

u cant let him rule u hun an jus tel u ur not allowed, ur an adult & hes not ur father!! x

What the hell hun! Your body, your decision – I wouldn’t let anyone come between me and my new boobs!

If it’s getting you down that much and obviously he can see it’s making you feel low, he shouldn’t be so childish – he probably feels quite insecure about you getting them but its your body GO FOR IT x

I know but I feel like he’d stop me from going to consultations and all this crp, drives me mental

I think i’ll keep being persistent with the idea of hating my boobs it might help!

xx

how can he stop u though? he cant lock u in lol try & book em for while hes at work or something! or just tell him straight like im unhappy & its my body so im going to do this for ME! if u loved me ud support me or atleast let me make my own decisions!!

ul regret it in years 2 come if u let him rule u hun x

That sounds good! Yeah thats true I can’t let somebody else tell me what to do anyway, can I ?! xx

To be fair hun, if he’s saying he’ll break up with you if u go ahead then he sounds like a nob. if you don’t have it done because you’re scared he’s going to break up with you then that’s just silly. It’s your life and you shouldn’t let him dictate it. Do what makes YOU happy x

Never let a man tell you what to do hun. The way I see it is the only person who is going to be with you night and day for the rest of your life is you, if you’re not happy and want to change then change! Like everyone else has said, its your life, you’re in charge of it. I think fellas get insecure thinking you’re going to get so much more attention from other guys and leave them. He should know better though. xx

P.S I’m getting mine tomorrow, just in time for my 21st in June.

my ex boyfriend said the same thing to me, but luckily im not with him anymore and i’ve now booked my op:D and i think i can safely say that even if i was still with him then i would deffinately still be going for it because it’s what i want:)

dont listen to your boyfriend! you clearly want this very much so just do what makes you happy hun, i know its easily said than done.. you obviously love this boy and don’t want to lose him, but if he’s saying stuff like this then i personally dont think he’s worth keeping

xx

thanks girls xxx

Mine said exactly the same he is 100% anti any cosmetic surgery. . . He said he would leave me if I done it, im having my op a week tomorrow, he’s come to every meeting and will coming to the hospital with me. PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN it pays off, and the girls are right it their insecurities you being happy should make him happy, and if it doesn’t, get rid!! Xxx

Mine said exactly the same he is 100% anti any cosmetic surgery. . . He said he would leave me if I done it, im having my op a week tomorrow, he’s come to every meeting and will coming to the hospital with me. PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN it pays off, and the girls are right it their insecurities you being happy should make him happy, and if it doesn’t, get rid!! Xxx

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