SO BOYFRIENDS DECIDED ITS A NO!..

GRR IM SO ANGRY! MY BOYFRIEND HAS NOW TOLD ME (AFTER IV BEEN FOR ALL MY CONSULATIONS / PRE OP / AND BOOKED MY DATE) THAT THE FINANCE IS TOO MUCH N I SHUDNT HAVE THE OP DONE! HE KNOWS HOW MUCH I WANT THIS N HAS ONLY JST SAID ABOUT IT! IM SOO ANGRY!!!! :~( XX

MY OP IS JAN 17TH!!! TOO! SO NOT EXACTLY THAT FAR AWAY! HES WATCHED ME GET ALL EXCITED N EVERYTHING! I HATE MEN!!!!!! ‘( X

have you booked the op? surely the finance would all be arranged by now?

fuck him! do it anyway… is he paying for it??? xxxx

Go for it he will pay once your there ??? xx

I’m with halli! Get it done anyway! I’m guessing he’s only getting jealous now it all seems real anyway! Xx

NAH IM PAYING FOR IT BUT THE FINANCE IS IN HIS NAME..COZ IM HAVING UPLIFT TOO THE PRICE HAS GONE UP SO NOW HES LIKE ITS TOO MUCH MONEY..IF IT EFFECTS ME GETTING A MORGAGE IN THE NXT 2 YEARS IM NOT DOING IT! THE FINANCE WAS SORTED BUT NOW I GOT TO HAVE UPLIFT ASWELL ITS BEEN CANCLED AND GOT TO APPLY FOR LARGER AMNT SO NOW I DONT NO WHAT TO DO! I BEEN LOOKING AT LOANS ELSE WHERE AND THEY R CHEAPER THAN MYA..SAME MONTHLY RE PAYMENTS FOR 2YEARS LESS!, BUT HE JUST SAYS IF IT WILL EFFECT A MORGAGE HE WONT DO IT, NO MATTER HOW MUCH I WANT IT! ‘( X

aslong as the payments are made every month on time and you dont end up missing a month then it shouldnt effect your morgage x

really feel for u hunni my boyf was like this so in the end i applied for finance n got it in my name n i only work part time can u try that?? xx

OH IL LOOK INTO THEM CRAMPY! YH THATS MY POINT, BUT HES BEING AN W****R! XX

Ahh alex I’m with the two girls fuck him n go for it if uve always wanted it don’t let no one stand in ure way. I work with a load of women got my op next monday I no their going to slag me off but I’m gonna put two fingers up they didn’t pay for it hope u decide whatever is best for you x x x

Oh no! I wonder if he’s just got a bit freaked out because all of a sudden the cost is more than he’d bargained for and he’s seeing it as this financial burden that’s just growing out of control? I am sure he’ll still know how much you want it, and knows how happy it will make you. Maybe have a sit down with a calculator, list of your outgoings/incomings etc and see if you can find some more room in the budget by cutting out a few nights out, not going on a holiday, having an Ebay clear out etc – or find a way of putting a bigger deposit down so you don’t have to finance as much, or can pay it off over a shorter term? Really hope you can find a way round it together… Where there’s a will, there’s a way, and you sound determined enough to make it happen. Good luck! xx

yes!! i hate men, people just dont understand the emotions that go into this… its something you have wanted for a long time, and you only live once, its your body and if it makes you happy and its do able go for it!!! theres so much more to it being a physical thing. you deffo need to find out other options etc… who cares about a mortgage anyway lol. tell him to stop being a selfish twat. if he had a tiny chipolata penis im sure hed want to do something about it if he could lol!!!

go for it alex, i had my cast off today (septorhinoplasty) and i couldnt be happier! it cost me over £5000 and im gonna be in debt for the next 6 years, but the best money i have ever spent… its well worth it if it means youll be happy!!! dont forget you have all the support of us girls on here xxxx

High 5 halli I’m in debt with the bank for the next 4 but its money worth spent they’ll last for a few years some people pay what we have for boobs or nose on a holiday or handbag how long does that last x x

well said sugarcoops!!! have you had them done already??

xxx

Alex, in theory if he did take it out in his name and u made all the payments in time it would make him more likely to be able to get a mortgage because of his credit rating?

Alex, in theory if he did take it out in his name and u made all the payments in time it would make him more likely to be able to get a mortgage because of his credit rating?

yh exactly jess!!! aw thank you girls! cheerd me up! him n his family hate being in debt and want things paid asap, and i want it paid asap but at the same time if i wna be in debt for a while that shud be my choice! but coz its in his name he has the final say !!!! i just wnt it soo badly! if he ever wants to see me nude again he better buk up his ideas! coz if he dnt the only time he’l see me is fully clothed! i get that he dnt wna be in debt but its me paying it and he knows full well i wud never miss a payment! there is just no talking to him, think im just gna sulk till he changes his mind lol! ino its alot of money but its something i want so badly! and im willing to pay it, its jst him nt wanting to have debt in his name xx

Hi halli not yet on monday 19th can’t wait to feel sexi all for me to look in the mirror n see a woman body instead of a girls was looking to have nose done but too much maybe in 4 years. X x x x

poor alex!! feel for you babe, bloody wankers. you need to give him the cold treatment, give him the old guilt trip and say how you thought he was meant to support you….

dont know what else to say hun, wish we could all talk to him and make him sort himself out!!!

makes me angry!!

xxx

ino!! im soo gutted! im paying it (ino its in his name) but its my money and he knows it wud be paid every month! if i wna be in debt for it suelry thats my choice..but oh no! well hes been home since 6 n we havnt spoke as of yet lol!! i no i jst wna shake him! hes like jst save n get it later, he says i want everything yesterday, and i do, but so does he! when he wants a car he buys the 1st 1 he see’s! im sooo gutted! ‘( xxx

ino!! im soo gutted! im paying it (ino its in his name) but its my money and he knows it wud be paid every month! if i wna be in debt for it suelry thats my choice..but oh no! well hes been home since 6 n we havnt spoke as of yet lol!! i no i jst wna shake him! hes like jst save n get it later, he says i want everything yesterday, and i do, but so does he! when he wants a car he buys the 1st 1 he see’s! im sooo gutted! ‘( xxx

WELL THAT DIDNT TAKE TOO LONG! HAHA HES AGREED AND IV JUST TOOK OUT A LOAN FOR IT! WOOO I CAN STILL GET THEM DONE!!! IM SOO HAPPY LOL! I MUST ADMIT MYA IS VERY EXPENSIVE TO GO FINANCE! THERE WAS 17.SUMTHING% APR..MY NEW LOAN IS 8.3%APR! SO BIG DIFFERENCE..IM NOW PAYING THE SAME AMOUNT I WAS WITH MYA OVER 4 YEARS WITH A NEW LOAN OVER 2 YEARS! LOL!! JUST GOT TO WAIT TO RECIEVE THE CONTRACT, GET IT SIGNED AND SENT BK SO I CAN PAY IT..JUST HOPE THEY DONT CANCLE MY DATE IN THE MEANTIME ITS ONLY 35DAYS AWAY!!! LOL XX

WELL THAT DIDNT TAKE TOO LONG! HAHA HES AGREED AND IV JUST TOOK OUT A LOAN FOR IT! WOOO I CAN STILL GET THEM DONE!!! IM SOO HAPPY LOL! I MUST ADMIT MYA IS VERY EXPENSIVE TO GO FINANCE! THERE WAS 17.SUMTHING% APR..MY NEW LOAN IS 8.3%APR! SO BIG DIFFERENCE..IM NOW PAYING THE SAME AMOUNT I WAS WITH MYA OVER 4 YEARS WITH A NEW LOAN OVER 2 YEARS! LOL!! JUST GOT TO WAIT TO RECIEVE THE CONTRACT, GET IT SIGNED AND SENT BK SO I CAN PAY IT..JUST HOPE THEY DONT CANCLE MY DATE IN THE MEANTIME ITS ONLY 35DAYS AWAY!!! LOL XX

My loan with Mya is 0% , could u not get that?

Who’s the loan company hun?? Xxx

Sorry to hear about your boyfriend hun. At the end of the day its your decision because its your body!

If he is going to be a whinge let him hun, men always do this! lol when the attention isnt on them for 1 second! and he will probs also be worried that you are going to get someone else because of your new fabulous bidy! he is probs feeling abit threatened tbf.

good luck and go ahead with it!

XXx

Sorry to hear about your boyfriend hun. At the end of the day its your decision because its your body!

If he is going to be a whinge let him hun, men always do this! lol when the attention isnt on them for 1 second! and he will probs also be worried that you are going to get someone else because of your new fabulous bidy! he is probs feeling abit threatened tbf.

good luck and go ahead with it!

XXx

yaaaay alex!!!! so happy for you! haha stupid boys, you always lose in the end!!! xxxxxx

nah with mya for 0%interent i had to put a couple of grand dwn for deposit n i didnt have it.. iv got a loan with santander..8.3% APR!..sainsburys do 7.9% APR, but our bank is with santander so thought we’d go with them lol! im soooo happy! he was like i wasnt trying to stop u from having it done, i was trrying to save u some money lol xx

Great news!! Knew you would find a way…. Now you can start to get REALLY excited about your op! xx

inoooo! im like smiling from ear to ear haha! now jst gta decide what size lol x

I managed to get the v12 finance with mya its 0% interest and only had to pay a £500 deposit upfront, but maybe because you’re having an uplift as well they said you had to pay a higher deposit, you should defiantly try haggling mya some more though and see if they could do anything more for you. Glad you’ve got it all sorted in the end xxx

congrats alex itll be worth it in the end x x x

BIG. lol xxx

thanks girls! yh coz uplifrt is much more they need more deposit! but im jst waiting for cas to go into bank so i can pay it now! woo!!! yh i been offered 410 or 460..and i cnt decide!!! lol im only 5″2 size 8-10..? xx

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