so fed up right now

Really dont know what to do anymore, although so many people have been supportive and have said that i should just go for my ba regardless what anyone esle thinks, theres a small minority of people putting me off.
Getting sick of one in particular telling me she thinks im wrong, ill be top heavy and that that my boobs are just fat that feeds babies!!!!!…grr im sick of trying to explain how miserable they make me, why cant she just understand?.
She also has me convinced that my fella will bugger off too, which i know for a fact he wont because ive talked about it with him so many times, and he said although he’d prefer my natural boobs he’d support me if i ever did get my op.
Ive even said, that i want to have kids and all that before even thinking of gettin a ba, plus i cant afford it yet
Just wish people could understand

xxx

you can never please everyone hunx do whats gonna make you happy x

Believe me!!! any negative comms about your ba are just plain old jealousy!! unless its your mum telling ya, thats diff that just being concerned!! it does my head in how ppl think that all boobs job look big and fake like pamela andersons and dont realise they can look natural!! what you should do! is show them pics of how natural they do look!! but if its any friends going on at you! tell them to get f ****d ! ha ha!! cos it proper jealousy!! mate my got funnt with me sat night as i was talking to a lovely girl about my boob job! and my mates says ” oh i thought you,d be going on about that”! pissed me right off!!!
so ignore everyone!! and go for it!! its your life your body!! do not listen to anyone! and your boyfriend wouldnt do that! my boyfriend has been bril! he was a bit put off at first when i was planning it but now he thinks they look grwat and even commented to his sisters what a good job they have done and how diff they look to b4! so go for it!! we are all here you on mya!! XX

Well said Janeyh I completely agree!! im having my 3rd ba either tomorrow or next week and people say im mad but its my body and my bank balance so as long as me and my fiance are happy thats all that matters :o) Do what u feel is right hun xxx

I know how u feel. I have had loads of people bitch about me having a ba, not to my face but behind my back. Oh and my so called best me was vile towards me when I had it done, so no longer best friends. I have had a few people say fair play to u but the vast majority have been proper nasty. My sensible side sais it is jealously but it still really hurts and I dont go out much apart from taking and getting my kids from school cus cant stand the gossips. So having a ba was suppose to boost my confidence but actually has coursed me loads of upset. Such a shame cus I had such a excellent ba and recovery and thought mya were fab, and I love my boobs was a 32a now a 32f/ff and they look natural. Good luck for your decision making xx

honestly, don’t listen to anyone but yourself hun
if it makes you unhappy, go for it, because when you have amazing boobs and you go bra shopping for the first time its AMAZNG!
i had 460cc unders and theyre a 32E but they look natural and i dont think youd ever tell they were fake.
anyone who says youll look stupid is jealous. end of story. they probably know nothing about it and are judging everyone based on katie price n Pammy!
having nice boobs will totally boost your confidence, and theyll look gorgeous.
real friends would support you instead of trying to put you off
and as for your boyfriend, he will LOVE them. they spand most of their lives watchin big boobed gals

SO GO FOR IT
and don’t let jealous people put you off
at the end of the day, its only a small change that is going to make you really happy [=

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i kno how ya feel since iv gettin mine done iv had people sayin how stupid i am but i jst snap at thm and say ai but its my money my body my life not yours so do you mind and they shut up.. i kno not every1 is like that but i can only take so much and cant bite my tounge.. anyways it is your body and your life so just tell them that.. if they had the money they would do the same.. thy are tryin 2 put you down.. but dont let them just smile and stick ya head up high.. or next time the say anythin jst say yea i kno but im guna luk lush haha xxxx

Sophie, god I wish I could be as strong as you, it has really knocked me, I dont regret having them done because I do love them but it hasnt been as positive as I thought it would be. Y cant people just live and let live xx

DawnMichelle –
I think this “friend” of yours is actually no friend of yours by the sounds of it. If she was making a life changing decision would she want your support or would she want you having a go at her? Maybe you should ask her that question and then just tell her that if she can’t be supportive as a friend should be then she’s no friend and she can go to hell. No one needs negativity in their face all the time. People like that just bring you down and make your life painful. Sack them off!! Personally, I’d rather hang out on my own or just have a couple of good friends than have even ONE person in my life who’s nasty to me. Go put prawns in their curtains, cress seed in their carpet and never speak to them again.

EmmaTyler –
If you’re the town gossip then you’re surrounded by a frighteningly large number of people with absolutely nothing going on in their lives! Do you live somewhere nice then? Albert Square is it? Ever thought about moving? You cant hide away because people are gossiping about you. Get some really hot outfits and stick it to ’em! Go have a makeover at your nearest Mac counter, do a spot of shopping, get a totally new hair-do and get the hell out there and show your wonderful self off! If you don’t, I may be forced to call Gok Wan and make you parade around your town in your undercrackers….

All that said – I have yet to see how my friends react. If any of them are nasty to me I’m simply gonna tell them to go **** themselves. I love my friends to bits but I draw the line at being nasty to people so I CERTAINLY don’t expect it to be done to me. They will get told! I measure a person by the amount of respect they show me. If it’s zero then they become invisible – I just don’t have the time to waste on being made to feel bad. Life’s too short. End of.

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hey hunni, iv not had this problem because im very strong headed and everyone knows that once iv made a decision im going to pull through,
but i’d just say, its me thats having the oporation, if it goes wrong or i hate it then you can say i told you so but until then i think you should keep your opinions to yourself, these people that arnet being supportive are not worth worrying about, they obviously dont care what you want or how you feel!!
at the end of the day its nothing to do with them, not their decision to make, not their life and not their body, its yours so do what the hell you want!!
and stop worrying about insignificant a***holes! find new friends that will accept you for who you are! xxxxxxxx

Awww thanx girls, really nice to know im not the only one.
It’s so hurtfull sometimes, especially when it’s the ones you want supporting you.
I did eventually snap the other day and said it’s my body, and ive given up on caring what you all think

xx

Well I suppose it’s not really fair for them that you’ll be SOOOOOO hot on the beach this summer and they won’t … haha Good on you!

good for you! you cant keep everyone aswell as yourself happy hunni! xxx

Well the only thing i have to worry about now is getting all the cash together

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