so much to think about… Started by: liane

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  • liane
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    Hello everyone at Mya forums, just reading through many topics has been so helpful and reasurring about my decision to go for a BA after 10 years of feeling miserable.
    The teasing at school still is as raw as ever, so can’t wait to finally be that confident woman I know is inside me somewhere.

    My lovely boyfriend has agreed to loan me my

    jojo 1
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    Hey there Liane!

    Like you im 25 next year and ive just had my BA. Im nearly 7 weeks post op and wouldnt change if for the world.

    If i was you i wouldnt worry about size & date until you have spoke to someone about it. The surgeons are really good at recommending sizes and what would look good one you. I wanted to be D/DD and came an F! You will find reading on here that most people have gone for larger sizes but dont look their bra size. I dont look like an F more like a D/DD and all my friends think they look great for my size.

    how to tell your parents….. well thats totally up to you. You know them best and should know how they will react. I previously spoke to my Mum abut it and just came out with it, giving all the reasons why i wanted it done. That was when i was looking to have it done last year, when i actually went through with it i didnt tell anyone! I knew my Mums thoughts on it and knew that she would be happy with whatever i did. I wanted to do it for me and didnt want anyone elses views. Always speak to your parents about it before doing it!

    Its quite easy to hide your new boobs when you first have them done by wearing baggy tops so regarding the job frount i really wouldnt worry about planning it between jobs.

    liane
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    Hi jojo, congratulations on your BA, so glad to hear from more people that there decision to go through with it was worth it and they wouldn’t go back.
    I must admit I can’t wait, so will be looking at booking a consultation soon with Mya.
    As for the parents, my mom will be supportive, my dad will flip but hey i’m expecting that so i’ll prepare as best I can. I’ve got every confidence in my own decision and reasons why I want to go through with it so no one will stop me.
    Will keep posted on my progress! Many thanks for reply.
    x

    karleyg
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    hi liane, congrats on making your decision im 21 and it was hardn tellin my parents as they had no idea how I felt, i basically told my mum first that there was something i havnt been happy with for a long time and have decided to do something about it. I sort of made it obvious that my mind was made up before i actually told her as i thought she might try talk me out of it. She ended up telling my dad for me as i know he really didnt like the idea but once they realised how i felt they have really supported me and my dad even ended up lending me some money for it. They will always worry far too much so mymum is coming with my for my consultation as I think it will give her the chance to get any questions answered and put her mind at ease. Sorry to go on just know how much of a big thing it was to tell them cause once I did it there was nothin stopping me and have booked in within a month and cant wait!
    good luck with it all, i have only heard brill stuff about the surgeons and staff also :) xx

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