Still ANNOYED…

My so-called-friend came over yesterday afternoon and demanded I show her my new assets, so naturally (being proud of them) I got them out for her to be nosey… and do you know what she did??

LAUGHED. She laughed so hard that I couldn’t get any sense out of her. Finally when she stopped she said that they looked ridiculous and that my nipples were massive. Then for the following few hours she ranted on about how I will never feel comfortable in clothes again and how I can’t wear those ripped vests (with the low scooped underarms) as I will look like a SLUT.

Do you want to have a guess what top I was wearing when she told me this?? YEP, a vest. Lol I feel like a right moaner for putting this on here, but it really has got me quite upset/angry.

Rant over. Sorry girls x

Ahh, that’s a horrible thing for your “friend” to do.

I think you have to question her motives, as if she were a real friend she would support you no matter how fantastic or ridiculous your breasts or any other part of you looked.

It’s best to simply surround yourself with positive people that want the best for you.

Chin up xx

Thats bang out of order hun!! Sounds like a case of the green eyed monster to me x

one word…. jealous.

I have sent a friend request if that’s ok? x

Jelous.com…get well soon ‘friend!’ xx

no offence but your friend sounds like a right bitch, ignore her and be proud of your new assets, she is probably just jealous of them, i love the saying if you got them flaunt them and who cares what anyone else thinks!!!!!

OMG hun shes not a friend, shes obviously very jealous hun, u will have d last laugh, dont worry bout it she is obviously very shallow, u cant win dem all hun, chin up dont let her win, hugs n kisses xxx

I have supported her through all of her crap times, I suppose I just expected a little more out of her to be fair, it just gets me down a bit.

Yeah that’s fine hun x

took the words right out of mmy mouth xxweeclairebearxx SO JEL BABE! haha your boobies look amazing hunny dont let 1 jealous person upset you xxx

Sorry to hear that hun she sounds jealous and is trying to make you feel all insecure to make herself feel better!!! tell her you love them and your so happy you did this and dont let on she got to you and this will piss her off even more…its her lose not urs hun…i got mine on 7th aug and am so bloody in love with them ive called mine edward and jacob….lol am loving it loving it loving it xx;)

soooo jealous!!!!! thats all. Take it as a compliment;)xx

Thanks for being supportive girls, I really appreciate it.

I love my boobs, I shouldn’t care what she thinks.. but being a friend, she should keep her mouth shut, even if she thought they were terrible beyond belief. It’s just polite really.

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Thats awful! thats not how friends treat each other and i would definitely sense she is jealous.

I have a friend that has had her boobs done and i felt she rushed in to it because i said i was about it. Anyway, now mine is all booked and she has had them done she is now saying she wishes she never done it. She said shes happy with them but they never made her feel the way she thought they would. Do you think she is trying to put me off??

Also had another post on fb that article in the son about a 39 year old woman in the US i think who had a boob job and died leaving behind her kids and husband. She put a comment above “What a tragic waste of life for pure vanity!” Is that a dig too?? Feel like everyone is trying to put me off and now i am freaking out that mine will be too big when i have them done in Oct.

Are you mad! “friend” jeeeez I’d hate to hear what your enemies are like! What a complete bitch! Xxx

Jealousy makes people spite full sweety,dont let it bother you,your real friends are right here,shame there wasnt a procedure for new personalities you could get her a freinds discount,you keep smiling lovely your in the boobie club and she is jealous to death.xxx

Just checked your photos to ensure the was any sense in this nasty comment from your ‘friend’. OMG… she is totally JEALOUS. Girl…don’t you even think about this for another second. You’ve got some fab boobies, be proud of them;-)))

Chellebelle… Try to remember, you aren’t doing this for anybody else but yourself.

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Chellebelle hun, you have to be 100% sure that this is what you want, you can’t enter into the journey half hearted. It’s a massive emotional journey. Only you can answer whether you want it or not… maybe she did rush into having her op done hun? It just means you can learn from her mistakes I suppose. If this is what you really really want then go for it, but it is emotional and you won’t be in love with straight away… or maybe you will? Lol everyone is different!!

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Hahaha! “Edward and Jacob”, what are you like? I agree with Catding. It sounds like your friend needs the ego boost more than you do. I bet you look boobilicious! xx

Dont worry girls, i met up wiv my m8 from school last week who i see once a month n i was gona tell her i was having my boobs dun jus b4 i went on thurs but bottled out, cos she started telling me a story about a girl who was in school wiv us marry some fella cos he bought her new boobs n started saying i think people are so vain why do they have to get der boobs dun, n i thout shit okay im not tellin her now, but who d hell cares im sure shel notice wen she next c, s me,but she pays to get her nails dun , hair dun every wk n removal of every mole dat appears on her face, so wat can she say bout bein vain, Girls r jus so Bitchy, i dont care i did it 4 me no 1 else n dats why uus r doin it, so dont be put off jus remember uv dun it 4 u self no 1 else n if they dont like it tough xxx

Kateelou…….One word…..J E A L O U S!!!!!!! xx

I couldn’t have said it better royle!!

I need to remember, I did this for me and for me only. If she wants to laugh at them, let her laugh. I wasn’t blessed with larger breasts.. so I paid for them. SO WHAT?!

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I just looked at your pics and you look great! It is what i want and have done for so long. The reality that it is actually going to happen is scary and exciting. Its only the size that freaks me out, just wish i knew what they would look like after.

I find that the ones with the most objections are the ones that want it done but dont have the nerve to do it. I am one of these people that if i want to do something then i do. Maybe they find that threatening??

thats d spirit hun u have us lol xxxx

I can’t believe some people can be so hurtful, i guess this is one of those times when you find out who your real friends are, but it still hurts, i agree that she is just jealous and it’s always an ugly emotion, good luck hun your boobs are fab xxxxx

You girls are great!! Next time i listen to so called crappy friends i will come on here and listen to what you post op ladies say!

Chellebelle jus sent u friend req feel free 2 have a look at my pics hun i had 345 overs from 34c xx

Just looked at your pics – you look great!!! xx

I love this forum, and all you girlies.

I went through a moment where I started to dislike this forum a little as some posts/comments got quite out of hand. But it seems as though it’s back to normal

Thank you for all your support, I couldn’t have got this far without all your friendly advice and kind words x

I no hun we all felt like dat bout month ago but all back on track now, we were all really upset bout it, it went really nasty n weird n we all stayed off it 4 a bit, but hopefuly dat has all been sorted n dem people have been removed so we can all get back 2 normal again xxxx

same here and now everyone is lovely i will come on here more. Thanks for the add Royle. Your pics are great xx

Yay normality

this forum has been a gosend to me i’m joining the boobie club on thurs and every worry i have had has been sorted by reading the posts on here the ladies on here are fab and it’s great to have such a lovely support network xx

What time you going in on Thurs hun? x

God I cant believe that, poor thing don’t listen to her. If a real friend genuinely thought they didn’t look good they would never say it through fear of hurting your feelings after the money and commitment you’ve just made. Like the other girls have said, she is obviously insecure and hiding the way she really feels. It’s such a shame that people cant be happy for others. All il say is karma is a bitch and she’ll get someone laugh at her soon for something she has low self esteem with x

Hi Hun, I decided to tell my closest friends that I was going to be having my boobs done and my best mate sat there and completely took the piss saying I would look rediculouse, fake, I’d look like barbie!! I haven’t even had them done yet! How do u know what size, and what look I want to achieve??

I’m sorry but if that girl can’t support you and thinks it’s exceptable to make you feel inscure about your fab new boobs then not only is she a B**** she is not your friend!!

The girls on here r amazing! When that happened to me and I spoke to alot of the girls on here and they put everything into perspective for me!

Hope your feeling better now Hun xx

GRRRR this post has made me angry, what a bitter jellous girl!! xxx

omg just read ur post, this is NOT a friend, i couldnt have people like this in my life, i only have a selct few friends that i can trust and these are my besties. everyone else can go fluff lol. if i were u id ditch the so-called friend! wat a bitch!! she has got to be jelous and u dont need jelousy in ur life.

next time u know ur going to see her, get on ur fave vest and rock it!!! oooooohhh what a bitch!!

Ahh girls you’ve all been absolutely fantastic!!

She hasn’t even spoken to me since she came round, I don’t think she knows that she’s even done anything wrong, but I guess how can she? If I haven’t told her I’m annoyed with what she said.. then she can’t apologise for it?

Grrr, my other friend has been really supportive about it, but they’re the only two friends I felt I could really trust. My other friends aren’t really friends.. more like see them a couple of times a year sort of thing?

Hmph, well everyone else likes my boobs.. including my 70 year old Grandmother, who was totally against me having the operation at the start!! If she can put it all behind her and be happy for me then my friend should be able to do the same.

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oh yes if u get grannys approval u know they look good!!!!!

bless ya just enjoy em and ignore the people that are clearly jelous xx

Haha, thanks hun

This forum makes me feel so much better x

Good for you hun, sounds like total jealousy to me! I’m sure they look great and if you are happy with them that to hell with what she thinks anyway lol. Coming on here has really helped me to focus on how important this is to me, I kept asking myself before if I was just being selfish or vain, but I’ve wanted this for years so I say good for you…..enjoy them lol xx

Aww thanks hun.

And it’s normal to doubt it, I think most girls get the ”should I or shouldn’t I” thought.. mine was about a week before my operation I think? But the wonderful girls on here helped me to realise that this is what I really wanted, and it’s not selfish. I mean, if someone went out and bought a new car with that money then no one would question it.. this is for your confidence. To make you feel better, I think that’s a good enough excuse alone

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Totally agree, I see people waste money on all sorts of things. do you mind if I add you Kayteelou? I’ve spend god knows how much money on clothes trying to feel good about myself but the fact it I’m unhappy with my body, after reading some of the stories on here and seeing how great some of you girls look I can’t wait to do it. I feel so positive about it, it’s given me my mojo back lol xx

ive had a few comments from my mate, at 1st it was things like when id show her pics of boobs i liked she would say “well you can tell ther fake!!, youd luk like ud fall over with them!” baring in mind im 5’7 and shes 5’2 with a natural dd chest.. and then the most recent was “well laura its best that ppl kno what ur having done otherwise ppl with just think your a slag when you come out 1 day with big boobs!” i was like erm having big boobs doesnt make you a slag, does that mean every 1 who has naturally big boobs are all slags then LOL what a joke! x

Course you can add my Faye hun!

Lol Laura, I know what you mean.. but what I don’t get is that my friend has naturally large breasts as well.. yet why are the naturally large breasted the first to say that we will look like sluts/slags with big boobs?? It’s not like they look like sluts with their natural big boobies!! I don’t get it? Lol.

Grr makes me so angry. I keep wanting to text her but I don’t know what to say as I don’t want to start an arguement with her.

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well i feel tht im gunna hve to explain b4 i show ppl! cause i think for people that dont understand in detail, they just presume wer gunna roll out of theatre with page 3 knockers and it just doesnt happen! lol think i will hve to say look they will be pointy will maybe be bruised and my nips will probs luk like bin lids but they will be great in a few weeks lol! x

Lol that’s the bit that can be a little awkward to explain I guess… the pointy nipples! Luckily mine are getting back to normal now, they look better if I’m a little cold haha they’re pretty much their normal size then!! Haha what a funny subject

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Defo, I think it is hard for people to understand you are doing it for you, not for everyone else to look at, it is all about your self confidence, that is why I did it anyway and am so glad I did, although it was only yesterday I feel like a different person already, it is just really sad that some people have to judge others, i defo think she is jealous, just ignore her hun xxxx

I think that deep down many women are unhappy with their breasts. They have a view of how they should look from images seen on the media and in some way or another feel inadequate. I think the idea of good breasts threaten that insecurity in girls and this makes them feel intimidated somehow because it reminds them of their own flawed breasts as they see it. Getting a breast job is brave and expensive and it takes a strong girl to make that step. I truly feel the friends that have a bad reaction to it just displaying their own insecurity. Try to feel sorry for them if they say hurtful things -They are actually challenging their own feelings about themselves. That’s what I think anyway xxxxxx

Anchovie you are so wise lovely.xx

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