still feel small after my op????

Final Had My ba done, However looking down i dnt feel big and worried that once swelling goes Im still going to b small? Is this what every one calls Boob greed. Hope My ba is worth it!!!! Any one else feel this way? X

They will change a lot over the next few weeks honey give it time for them to settle,many members have posted similar to you,take a picture diary for you own records and you will see the changes,make sure you get plenty of rest honey,happy healing.xxxx

i feel abit like this, im 2 days post op .. i woke up n thought hmmm not as big as i hoped, i can tell they are so swollen but i dont want them to go anywhere smalleer than this, had it in my head they would be bigger than what they are now after swelling .. im just gona try be postive and wait for them to drop … xxx

I keep thinking hmmm getting used to them then Iook at my pre op pics and you can deffo see the difference, I’m also 2 days post op xx

i felt like that & so did my bf he looked at me as if to say “is that it?!” but they get bigger as they settle n the skin stretches to fit the implant properly so they look fuller!! xx

hi thanks for the posts just hope i will see the difference my other half has told so many people (which i find embarrasing) and feel like they are going to look at me and think was the point!!!!

could i add some of you plz. x

I regret so many people Knowing as in clothes they don’t look much bigger but just gotta think we done this for ourselves no one else so who cares what others think we now Got our boobies xx

mine look bigger from the side than from the front especially if i look down at them…..we just get use to them…once swelling goes down they do get smaller but they shape more and that makes them look bigger….i am slightly developing boobie greed though but they perfect on my body what i have now….

i have booby greed. i just look small , worried because i do not look that swollen does this mean i will be really small

do not what any swelling i have to go. x

hayley iv just read your story omg thats horrendous , really hope you end up with boobies that you are happy with as that doesnt sound a nice experience at all , so sorry to read that hun x

hayley what size did you have?

Im th oppoiSite im paranoid mine are going to fluff and get bigger!!! xxx

korin what size you have?

460 from 32b hun

i did only have 260 cc looking on the plus side anything is better then nothing i feel angry that everyone pays alot of money to have a good service and to be cared for and i all i kept thinking is they treated bad before the op what if they mess up too felt so unsafe i was shaking!

Hopefully it was just me they got treated like this and i hope eeryone’s elses went well. I hope mine end up a c!!!!!

Hey @hayley1985, I had 295 unders about 3 weeks ago and I didn’t seem to have any swelling, so you never know you might not either! I had expected some so I was petrified they would get smaller as I was disappointed with the size as it was, and so far they haven’t shrank at least. They look less cone-like now than they did in the very early days so even though I haven’t changed size they look fuller.

We’re already friends – I’ve just see your experience on the day of the op. It’s disgraceful, as if the lead up to the op isn’t anxious enough! I would think about putting in a complaint if that had happened to me. You’re paying them all this money, they should be doing everything they can to make your experience as positive as they can and it doesn’t sound like they’ve done that. Fair enough problems and unforeseen circumstances can happen, but they could have dealt with it better. I didn’t go with MYA, I’m surprised they’re doing ops that late in the evening?!

I hope you have a good recovery and better aftercare. x

im starting to get such bad boob greed too, when i was out with a friend the other day someone over heard me saying id had a boob job and started asking me about it which i didnt mind until they said it doesnt look like ive had one and what was the point if i only went the size i am now since then ive started feeling abit down about it! i really hope mine fluff out xxx

Grr, people can be so rude! @athenarose, try not to let them get to you. If you’re happy with them until other people started commenting then that’s all that matters, you did this for you and noone else. Tbh I think when a lot of people hear “boob job” they automatically think of people with massive boobs where it’s obvious they’ve been done (e.g. like you see in the media), and they think everyone who has a BA is going for that look, which they aren’t necessarily.

I’m not happy with my size and hope they change with fluffing too as I’m just nearly 3 weeks PO, but I wanted them to look natural and I think they do so if someone says to me it doesn’t look like you’ve had one I’ll take it as a compliment! I started out really small though so it’ll be good just to have something now even though compared to other people they might be smaller than their natural boobs. Personally I never wanted it to be like where strangers would look at me and think has she had her boobs done, or she has massive boobs lol. x

Yeah, people can be so blunt, i didnt even know her and i dont mind answering afew questions but i kinda just thought that was abit harsh! Your so right though people assume if youve had a BA you’re gunna look MASSIVE! Im in the same boat as you im 3 weeks along on tuesday and really hope they fluff cause right now they look small to me! the weird thing is before i got them done i really didnt want people to notice id had a BA from looking at me and now i feel abit down when people dont :S xx

hi everyone i feel really low today and sick. Think the reality of my experience has just hit me and just feel like crying all the time. Trying to hide it from my mum and hubby as they were against my ba.

My boobs feel tight today and everyone wants to have a look , everyone expects me to be huge. I wanted to look natural as possible but i think i should have gone slightly bigger. Hopefully they will settle and i will be more happy.

What size did you ladies have? xx

i didnt feel like this until today!!! they look so small and they are really squishy and soft!! but they really aint big at all!! i thought i would be bigger than this with 410 unders boobie blues day definitely xxx

i didnt feel like this until today!!! they look so small and they are really squishy and soft!! but they really aint big at all!! i thought i would be bigger than this with 410 unders boobie blues day definitely xxx

Aw @hayley1985, I have felt really low some days too and have just cried cos it’s not how I wanted them to look and I’ve wanted this done for so long, so I can understand how you feel. It does help if you have someone to let it all out if you can – I’m here if you want to talk. I think our emotions can go all over the place afterwards, it seems to be something a lot of girls go through. I’m sure it will get better with time as you adjust to them. I know it’s hard but try to worry less about other people’s opinion of them cos you didn’t do it to please them.

@athenarose, anyone that would make a sly comment like that to someone she doesn’t even know sounds like a cow so I wouldn’t worry about her opinion, she’s got no idea of your reasons for your op and not everyone who has a BA wants to look like a glamour model! She’s probably saying it to try to make you feel bad cos she knows you’re probably sensitive about them, and she’s insecure about something and it makes her feel better.

I was a 32A and had 295cc high profile unders 3 weeks ago tomorrow and they only look a B cup atm and I’m very conscious that one is different from the other, so I’m disappointed and I still feel small and not in proportion with my lower body. I didn’t really have the option to go much bigger, though I do regret not getting more opinions pre op. Hopefully they’ve got a lot of changing to do yet cos they’re quite high, hard and tight and I know I can’t spend the next few weeks and months moping about them til they do, so I’m just trying to get on with it!

xx

Hi Guys,

I ve just been reading all of your posts and i also read Hayley1985 story on her profile.

This whole Boob Greed is actually a very common theme in women that have BA which is why I think it mostly in the head and just part of the whole process. I’m sure you all put a lot of thought into picking your implants and you have pick them for the right reasons i.e. looking natural was very important to you? I can definitely relate to what your all saying. As I am coming up to 2yrs post op I can truly say you will be over joyed with your new boobs once your healed and in your new fancy bra’s. It is important to remember if you ve just had surgery and your emotions will be high, you may start to over think things.

I am sad to see you all so down in the dumps so I have thought of some important facts that i think might cheer you up. These are all based on my experience.

1. You have all picked sensible sized implants and they are going to look like the most amazing natural boobs.

2. Surgeons are very experienced when advising you on the sizes and they will help you to pick the best size for your body frame. This is why I am confident you will all have amazing figures perfectly in proportion!

3. If you go to big sometimes in photo’s you might look really top heavy and it can over shadow your amazing figures.

4. This is my Favorite! When it comes to buying bra’s to fit your new boobs you will find you can get all the cool sexy ones! Normally the bigger the bra the more granny-fied they look and the cut of the cups are to high.

I hope this has helped even just a little!

Hayley1985 I am truly shocked to read about your experience in the hospital. I can’t help but feel like this must have been a one off because my experience was the complete opposite. All of the staff I have ever met at MYA were so friendly and caring. Its a shame this particular hospital nurse was not helpful, this leads me to believe that she must not work directly for MYA. I hope that when you go to the clinic for your aftercare you get the true 5 star treatment you deserve. The high level of service is a lasting memory for me after having my BA at MYA. I wish you all the best Hayley!

Danielle xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

lovely post danielle luv xxx

hi danielle , im sure it was just me reading everyone’s stories . i dnt blame mya at all i understand there are delays etc just feel really upset how i was treated at the hospital.my pc wants to talk to me but i havent spoke to her yet as feel to emotional and know ill end up crying which i dnt really want to put on her.

i still believe that marion Grob did choose the correct size for my frame and i still glad in some ways i stuck with it because i didnt want to look really fake and she was very honest which i liked. Fingers crossed i will get the boobs i wanted.

xx

Danielle, thanks for the encouraging words from much further down the line. I hope I do start to feel more positive and come to appreciate what I’ve got whether it’s what I wanted or not. I knew it would take weeks or months to see the final outcome but I didn’t think I’d find it so hard in the meantime. I did have faith in the surgeon’s opinion which has been knocked a bit after but I know it’s in their interests to do a good job cos it reflects on them, and I don’t think he would do something that he knew wouldn’t look right. It doesn’t help I’m still off work cos I think working and being back to normal would take my mind off it a bit more! xx

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